Umntu uhlala ehlala kuluntu, kwaye oku kuthetha ukuthetha rhoqo. Kwaye ukuze kungabi nongquzulwano, kukho uqeqesho lwezonxibelelwano, kwiingcebiso ezimele ziphulaphule.
I-Etiquette yokuqhagamshelana nabantu
Kule sihloko, akukho zincwadi ezili-12 ezibhaliweyo, apho kukho iingcebiso malunga nayo yonke imicimbi yomcimbi. Kwaye kuvela kuyo yonke imithombo yombhalo kubalulekile ukuba ungabalulekanga eziphambili, iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo zonxibelelwano nabantu:
1. UDale Carnegie, umdali weengcamango zonxibelelwano, ufundisa ukuba imfihlelo eyintloko yobudlelwane bokwenene ihlelwe ngokulula. Emva koko, kunokubangela ukuba ababenxibelelwano oluhle bavela kumdibaniselwano, benze isimo sengqondo esihle. Ngale ndlela, uya kukwazi ukufumana abantu.
2. Ubungqina bokuqala. Lo mgaqo kufuneka usetyenziswe nangona uthe uthetha nomntu ongezantsi kwinqanaba lakho lentlalo.
3. Zama ukucacisa ngokucacileyo iingcamango zakho, ukuze ugweme ukungaqondi kakuhle kwiqabane kwintetho, kwaye ngenxa yoko, imvelaphi yongquzulwano. Okokuqala kwaye okuphambili, eli cebiso libhekiselele ekuxoxweni kwentsapho efana nezoshishino.
4. Abantwana nabo ngabanye, kodwa bancinci, kwaye ngoko, xa bebenzisana nabo, imimiselo emininzi kufuneka ikhunjulwe:
- mvumele umntwana athethe. Unelungelo lakhe kwembono yakhe;
- Cinga ngaphambi kokuba utsho. Umphefumlo womntwana awuncitshiswa kakhulu kunabantu abadala;
- bazame ukufumana ulwimi olufanayo nabo. Khumbula ukuba nayiphi na imeko enzima inalo;
- xa uthetha kwabanye abantwana, sebenzisa "wena". Oku kuya kubanceda banyuse ukuzithemba kwabo.
5. Ukususela ngamaxesha, biza umntu ngegama. Emva koko, kumntu akukho sandi esiphumileyo kunesandi segama lakhe.
6. Yenza njengomphulaphuli. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu bafuna ukuva. Musa ukuphazamisa isithethi. Makhe athethe.
I-Etiquette yokunxibelelana kwi-Intanethi
Okwangoku akukho mithetho efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana kwiintanethi zentlalo, iiforam, njl., Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba unokuziphatha njengezilwanyana. Ngako oko, siyakucelwa ngenye incomo ezinceda ekudluliseni ingcamango yakho kwintliziyo yomnxibelelwano, ukudala umoya onobungane:
- Musa ukungena kwilizwe lokungaziwa. Khumbula ukuba kwelinye icala ekupheleni kwentambo kufana nawe, umntu ophilayo. Ngoko ke, xa uthayipha umyalezo, cinga ukuba uthetha ebusweni bakho. Ngaba uhlazeka ngamazwi akho?
- I-Etiquette yokuziphatha kwi-intanethi kunye noqhagamshelwano kubandakanya ukulandela yonke imigaqo oyibambelelayo ngexesha loqhagamshelwano ngokwenene. Kule meko, khumbula ukuba usekhompyutheni, kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo apho kukho imithetho. Oko kukuthi, xa ubhekene noluhlobo olutsha lokunxibelelana, ufunde ngokucophelela imigaqo yayo ukuze uphephe ukudala umoya wobundlobongela. Oko kukuthi, ngokungena kwiingxoxo kwiifom, ukuthenga kwiqela elithile, uzifunde ngeemfuno zabo.
- Hlonipha ixesha kunye neengcamango zomnxibelelwano wakho.
Musa ukuphazamisa abasebenzisi ngezizathu zobulumko. Kwabaninzi, ixesha lokunxibelelana libiza kakhulu. Kwaye wonke umntu unengxaki yezinga elithile. - Zama ukudala umfanekiso ofanelekayo emehlweni omlingane wakho. Awudingi ukugcina ixesha lokungahoywa imithetho yegrama. Funda ukuveza uluvo lwakho ngokucacileyo.
- Ukungena kwingxoxo yentetho, musa ukuhla ukuya kwinqanaba lezinto ezikuphela kokusebenzisa iziqalekiso ezinokuthi uqinisekise ukuba unxibelelwano lwakhe olungalunganga.
- Ukuba umntu engagcinanga isicaciso sokuthetha, oku akuthethi ukuba akukho mfuneko yokunyamezela iimpembelelo zakhe, ukungahoywa umgangatho ofanayo.