Ukufakwa kwefestile kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekudalweni kwangaphakathi kwegumbi. Iipalita ziba njengefuthe lokugqibela kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, zongeza intuthuzelo, ngoko ke ukhetho lwabo olufanelekileyo luyiyo yonke inzululwazi. Ukukhetha amakhethini egumbini lenkwenkwe yamakhwenkwe ekwishumi elivisayo, ngaphezu kweemeko zokuyila, omnye makangacinga ngokukhethwa kwendlela yokuzikhethela yomntwana.
Indlela yokukhetha amakhethini alungileyo kunye ngexesha elifanayo nceda nceda umntwana?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba uyilo lwefestile lwenziwa ngokuhambelana nesitayela esiphezulu kunye nombala wepeyinti yangaphakathi kwigumbi. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iziphakamiso zabaqulunqi malunga nawaphi na amakhethini abakhethiweyo ukusebenzisa amagumbi amancinci (amakhethini amacwecwe afunwa ngaphandle kweefowuni ezongezelelweyo kunye neengqungquthela ezinobunzima), kunye namagumbi amnyama (imibala ekhanyayo kunye neendwangu zokukhanya). Kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye oku, mhlawumbi, kwabaninzi abakhupha kunzima kakhulu, kukuvumelanisa ukwakhiwa kwamakhethini kunye nenkwenkwe yenkwenkwezi egumbini lakhe.
Ukunikezelwa kweempawu zonyaka wokuguquka, abazali kufuneka babe nesigulane ukuze bafumane indlela efanelekileyo ebuntwini bemoya ekuxazululeni imiba engenomdla kuye. Nangona ingaba yinto ephikisanayo nayo - umntwana angathanda ukudala indlu yangaphakathi kwigumbi lakhe. Ungamangaliswa xa ukhetha ukuyila iifeteni kwigumbi lakho, inkwenkwe inomntwana ikhetha ukhetho lwezambatho ezinzima kunye nezikhulu ezingafanelanga ngokupheleleyo. Imidwebo yeengqungquthela zeengqungquthela kunye neentlanzi, nazo, zinokuthanda. Abazali akufanele baxakeke ngokukhawuleza - ingaphakathi legumbi lingafakwa ngokukhawuleza ngokungqinelana nale mibizo. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokubeka phantsi izinto ezingaphakathi kwisifundo esifanayo (ngokucacileyo ngemifanekiso efanayo, izinto ezihlotshisiwe zezinto zokubhena)
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