Abantwana malunga neGreat Post

Ngethuba lethu, xa phantse nayiphi na inkcazelo ifumaneka kubantwana ngenxa yokusabalala ngokubanzi kweendaba kunye ne-intanethi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufaka emgangathweni umntwana okomoya. Oku kuya kumnceda aphephe iimpazamo ezininzi kwaye ulungelelanise ngokufanelekileyo ubomi bakhe kwikamva. Ekubeni abaninzi abazali babhaptiza abantwana babo kwi-Orthodox, kwiifomu ezifumanekayo ukuxelela abantwana malunga neGreat Post ngaphambi kwePasika, kuyimfuneko nje.

Inomdla gqitha ukuba ungenise ulwazi malunga nonqulo lwe-canon kumntwana osemncinci?

Kubonakala kwabanye oomama nooyise ukuba akufanelekile ukuthetha ngeentente kubantwana: abayi kuqonda into. Kodwa oku akunjalo: kuyamangalisa kwaye ngomphefumlo owenziweyo ulwazi malunga nale nkcubeko yobuKristu iya kukhishwa kwintloko yentloko kwaye iza kuvelisa iziqhamo. Ukuqala ukuqhelana neLente Elikhulu ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

1. Kungcono ukuba ibali kubantwana malunga neGreat Post lixelelwa ngumhlobo osondeleyo-unina, utata, ugogo, oko kukuthi, umntu othembekileyo ngumntwana. Chaza kuye ukuba, ngokweenkolelo zobuKristu, umntu udibanisa izinto zombini kunye nokomoya. Kodwa ngenxa yesono sokuqala sika-Adam noEva (kulungile ukukhumbula ibali lase-Eden kunye nokudalwa kukaThixo ngabantu bokuqala) izinto zihlala zikhona. Ngoko ke, ukuze unqobe umnxeba wenyama kwaye uhlambulule iingcamango zakho, ukukhawuleza kwasekuqaleni.
2. Emva kokuxelela abantwana malunga neGreat Post, qiniseka ukutyelela iinkonzo, kodwa musa ukunyanzelisa umntwana ukuba ahlale esontweni ixesha elide kunokuba unako ukudala. Yiza ethempelini kunye nosapho lonke uze uthandaze ngokunyanisekileyo: umntwana uya kukhumbula le mini ekhethekileyo ixesha elide.
3. Musa ukunyanzelisa abantwana ukuba bathandaze okanye bafumane ukudibanisana: xelele ukuba ndiyintoni na into oyifunayo kwaye ungathanda ukuba unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ibe sisondele ngakumbi kwiNkosi yethu. Abantwana bayayiphendula kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo bayayiphendula ngokukhawuleza ukubiza iinkcubeko.
4. Kwintetho malunga neGreat Post nabantwana, qiniseka ukubhekisela kwimimiselo yokutya (awukwazi ukuyidla inyama, iimveliso zobisi, njl.), Kodwa khumbula ukuba ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka engama-12 ubudala, ukukhawulela umntwana ekudleni kwezilwanyana akufanele kuboniswe ngempilo. Buza umntwana ukuba ufuna ukwenqaba ntoni, ukubonakalisa uthando kunye nokuhlonela okunzulu kukaKristu - kwaye mhlawumbi yena uya kuvuma ukuvuma ukuba angachukumisi ikhekhe kunye necolethi.
5. Ukuqokelela ukuxelela ngokukhawuleza okukhulu kubantwana, cinga ngendlela onokuzibuyisela ngayo ukuba umKristu osemncinci uyazivuma ukuba uyavuma ukulahla eli xesha kwiTV okanye kwikhompyutha. Mhlawumbi uya kufunda, udwebe okanye ubukele ezininzi iifilimi, apho ungazisa khona uncedo kwaye ufundisa.