Ngoxa ulinde umntwana, intsapho nganye inethemba lokuzalwa komntwana onempilo, ukugcina yonke imiyalelo yoogqirha nokunyamekela umntwana kwisibeleko somama. Ngelishwa, zonke iintsholongwane zokubeleka komntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwabagqirha abafazi abazange bazimisele ukuzimisela, kubandakanywa nokuba khona kwentetho. Kodwa ukujonga ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuva, iingcali ziyakwazi ngokufanayo ngosuku lwesibini lweemvumba zobomi. Kwaye ukuba ukholelwa ukuhlaziywa kwamamama, eli lixesha elihle kakhulu kubo. Ngokomzekelo, okwangoku eRussia ngo-1000 ngokuqhelekileyo ukuva abantwana abatsha banomntwana omnye onokukhubazeka kokuva. Ukuba umntwana okhethekileyo ubonakala kwintsapho, ke, ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, impilo kunye nekamva elipheleleyo lomntwana ezandleni zabazali bakhe.
Ndifuna nje ukuphawula ukuba ukuqeqeshwa kwabantwana abanokukhubazeka kokuva kuphumelele kakhulu, ukuba indlela echanekileyo ikhethiweyo, izazi zeengqondo, ootitshala, kunye neengcali zentetho ziya kunceda kulo mama nomata.
Iimpawu zabantwana abanokukhubazeka kokuva
Njengomthetho, abantwana abanjalo banokwahlukana kakhulu kwiindlebe kunye nabantu abayizithulu ngokubanzi. La mabini maqela anenkxalabo yokuphuhlisa intetho, echaphazela ngqo ukucinga, imemori kunye nokucinga kwengane. Ngako oko, ukukhuliswa kwabantwana ngokulahlekelwa kwindlebe kuyenzeka ngokubanzi ngokubambisana, ukuhamba ngeenqwelo, ukuthetha kunye nokuthinteka.
Amandla okufunda
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abangaboni kakuhle nabo banamalungu apheleleyo ebantwini, bafuna ixesha elincinane, kunye noqeqesho olusebenzayo lwabazali kunye nootitshala ekuqeqesheni. Ngoko ke, imfundo yabantwana abanokukhubazeka kokuvalelwa, njengomthetho, bafumana ngabanye. Okokuqala kwaye ngokuphambili, badinga intetho, ephunyezwa ngempumelelo ngendlela "yokufunda ubuso".
I-Psychology yabantwana abanokukhubazeka kokuva
Abantwana abanempilo bafunda ihlabathi ngokuqhagamshelana neontanga zabo, abazali kunye nabanye abantu abazungezile, abantwana abanokukhubazeka kokuvavanya banqunyelwe kule nto, ngoko bahlala bexothwa baze bahluthe. Abazali bafanele banakekele le nkalo yentuthuko yabantwana abakhethekileyo: ukuzalisa ukungabikho komnxibelelwano womntwana, ukuphuhlisa ukuphumla kwentetho kunye nentetho, ukuze kamva umntwana akwazi ukunxibelelana noontanga ngaphandle kokwesaba ukungaqondi.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, abantwana abanokukhubazeka kokuvava banemiba emininzi: yinto yokwenza intetho esicothayo, kunye nokukwazi ukusebenzisa ulwazi oluthile ngokwenza izinto, kunye nokungabikho kokucinga okungabonakaliyo. Kodwa abazali abanothando nabalumkileyo baya kunceda umntwana anqobe ubunzima bonke: iiklasi eziqhelekileyo, ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekelwa kwabathandekayo bayakwazi ukwenza imimangaliso. Kuphela phantsi kwezi meko, intlalo, oko kuyimfuneko kubantwana abanokulahlekelwa kwindlebe, baya kuphumelela.