Mhlawumbi, umntu ngamnye ubuncinane kanye ebudeni bakhe wayevakalelwa kukuba indlebe zakhe zivutha. Abantu abaninzi bafumana oku kulungiswa kwenzululwazi, umzekelo, oku kuya kwenzeka ukuba iqondo lokushisa litshintsha ngokukhawuleza okanye xa umntu ephazamiseka okanye enamahloni. Kwixesha elidlulileyo abantu kulo mzekelo babesebenzisa iziboniso baze bachaze ngendlela yabo ukuba yintoni indlebe efanelekileyo. Kwimimandla yanamhlanje, abaninzi banokuqiniseka ukuba iinkolelo ziyinto eyakhekileyo kwaye bakholelwa ukuba siyisiphukuphuku, kodwa kukho abantu abaye bacinga le ngxelo ehlonishwayo, oku kuthetha ukuba bayinyaniso.
Ukuba intloko yokunene iyatshisa, kuthini ukuthini?
Phantse yonke imiqondiso echaphazelekayo kwicala lasekunene, ithwala ulwazi oluchanekileyo kwaye lufanekisela into entle. Aba-Esotericist kunye neengqondo bathi abantu abaninzi banokubamba amaza egesi avela kubantu abajikelezile. Ukuba indlebe yokunene iyatshisa, ngoku kukho umntu uthetha ngomntu into entle, okanye uyidumisa. Ngokumalunga nolwazi olukhoyo, ukuba uqikelele igama lomntu oxubushayo, ngoko indlebe iyayeka ukutshisa, kodwa isebenza kuphela xa izihlobo ezifutshane okanye abahlobo bethetha.
Kukho enye inguqu etshaya indlebe efanelekileyo kwimeko apho izalamane zifuna ukugxeka into ethile, kodwa zisoyika ukuthetha. Kukholelwa ukuba umntu osezingeni elincinci uyabamba amaza kwaye ulungele ukuphulaphula amabango. Enye indlebe yokunene ingatshisa ngaphambi kwemvula okanye kumbindi wokufumana iindaba ezilungileyo. Ngokwezinye iinguqulelo, "umlilo" kule ndawo ingenzeka ukuba umntu kufuneka abizwe ngento ebalulekileyo, kodwa ngenxa yeengxaki ezikhoyo, abakwazi ukwenza njalo. Ukuba indlebe iqala ukutshisa ngelixa umbuzo obalulekileyo uxazululwa, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuphinda amagama amathathu malunga nawe: "Indlebe iyatshisa ngokufanelekileyo, isizathu sisithembiso. Ndincede, ndikhusele. " Unokuwela umnwe ovuthayo kathathu ufunde "uBawo wethu". Uncedo lokulahla ukungahambi kakuhle kwamanzi abandayo, okufuneka uhlambe.
Ukufumana ulwazi olongezelelweyo, kufuneka uqikelele ngemini xa kunokuphazamiseka:
- Okutshisa iindlebe ezilungileyo ngoMvulo yintambo ye-scandal ezayo ezayo. Kunconywa ukuba ungayinikeli umdlali, ukuba ingxabano iphele ngokukhawuleza.
- Kuloo nto intloko yokunene ngoLwesibili iyatshisa ngumqondiso wokuba kungekudala kuyafuneka ukuba usinde ngokuhlukana ngenxa yokuxabana . Kunconywa ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukulungisa imeko.
- Into etshaya indlebe efanelekileyo ngolwesithathu yi-harbinger yentlanganiso, eya kuba yinto emangalisayo. Mhlawumbi isigqibo siya kukuzisa kumntu ongenakuboni ixesha elide.
- Oko kutshaya indlebe elungileyo ngoLwesine ngumqondiso wokuba kubalulekile ukuba kusondele iindaba ezilungileyo okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubaleke ngokumangalisa.
- Yintoni etshaya indlebe efanelekileyo ngoLwesihlanu -
Le ngumbhalo wosuku, ngoko kuthatha ixesha lokubonakala kwakho, njengoko intlanganiso iya ku thembisa. - Okutshisa iindlebe ezilungileyo ngoMgqibelo luphawu olubi olumkisa ngeengxaki okanye ingxaki. Kwixesha elizayo elisondeleko liya kuba neengxaki ezininzi.
- Kuloo nto intloko yokunene ngeCawa yatshisa i-harbinger yokufumana inzuzo enhle. Kulabo baqhuba ishishini, lo mqondiso uthembisa ukupheliswa kwesivumelwano esiyimpumelelo.
Kukho inzululwazi yenkcazelo yokuba kwenzeka "umlilo" ezindlebeni. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ubomvu kule ndawo bubonakala xa umntu efumana ukwesaba okukhulu. Into kukuba ngexesha elinjalo inqanaba le-adrenaline egazini landa, kwaye oku kubangela ukubonakala kobushushu ezindlebeni nakwezinye iindawo zomzimba.