Akukho mntu uphelelwe yimpazamo - wonke umntu uyazi inyaniso. Kwaye, nokuba yonke iyesibini iyazi malunga nayo, ngoko, ejongene nobuso bejongene neengxaki, abantu abaninzi abanakujonga amehlo abo kwiimpazamo zabo okanye abantu abathandekayo entliziyweni yabo, ngenxa yoko, umntu ongazami, akanako ukugcina ubudlelwane obudlulileyo. Ewe, kukho izenzo ezingenakuxolelwa. Kodwa ukuxolelwa yinto engamangalisa kwaye umntu ngamnye unemibono kunye neenkolelo zakhe kule nqanaba. Makhe sithethe ngalokhu ngokubanzi.
Yintoni engayi kuxolelwa?
Mhlawumbi umntu uzinikezele kuye kwaye akaze athethelele izinto ezinjalo eziphikisana nemigaqo yakhe, masithi, imigaqo yakhe yangaphakathi . Awukwazi ukuyithatha kalula kwaye uluhlu olufanele ungaligcini amehlo akho, umzekelo, ukuxelela abantwana bakho: "Nantsi uluhlu. Yifunde kwaye ukhumbule ukuba awukwazi ukuxolela ukutshatyalaliswa, ukunyaniseka, njl. Vumelana ukuba ayivakala kakhulu.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi xa umntu engaphili ngokwethemba lethu okanye, ngokungalindelekanga, senza ngokuchaseneyo, kwakhona, kwiimbono zethu, siziva zonke iindidi zengxaki: ukuqala ngengqumbo nokuphela kabuhlungu. Njengomphumo wokuba siqaphela ukuba into ethile ayikwazi ukuxolelwa ngumntu, siyacaphukisa kuye, ngaloo ndlela sithatha inxalenye yamandla enamandla. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha
Ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba uzixelele ukuba, umzekelo, awukwazi ukuxolela uhlanga, zama ukuqonda isisenzo somntu ongalungile kuwe. Cinga ngako: mhlawumbi, phantsi kweemeko ezifanayo, ubuya kwenza okufanayo. Into engekwenziwe ngokuthe ngqo, ngoko ayiyikuphazamisa "Yintoni ongayikuxolela indoda?". Funda ukuba uzive lula kwihlabathi elingaphakathi, iingcamango zomntu onomsindo kuye. Ubuntu obuqinileyo abanalo emphefumlweni wezinto ezithatha phantsi. Bayazi ukuxolela.