Phantse iipesenti ezisixhenxe zelizwe lethu likhohlo. Ngoku baye baphatha ngokuzinzileyo esikolweni okanye emsebenzini, kodwa kwakukho amaxesha apho abantu abanjalo babecingwa bephosakele kwaye baxinezelekile, bengavumeli ukuba baphile ngokuthula. Akumangalisi ukuba abaphathi bekhohlo baqala ukudibanisa kwaye baququzelele imibhikano yangempela. Ngokudlulayo kwexesha, oku kwakhokelela ekuqwalaseleni le ngxaki kwizinga lehlabathi kunye nokuvela kwimihla yamazwe ngamazwe asekhohlo.
Abantu abaninzi abakhulu babambe ipeni okanye ipensile esandleni sabo sobunxele. Umnqobi omkhulu uNapoleon, umongameli uChurchill, umqambi uMoart nabanye abaninzi abanamakhono abanesakhono. Abaninzi abafunda kwizikolo zaseSoviet bakhumbula indlela abaphoqa ngayo abantwana abazama ukubhala ngesandla sabo sokunxele ukuba bahlaziywe. Ootitshala abathukutheleyo baze bababethe nomlawuli kwiminwe yabo. Kodwa ezi ntyatyambo. NgeMinyaka Ephakathi, kukho iinkolelo ukuba abo bantu banxulumene nomtyholi. Kutheni abantu bebelana ngamagunya kunye naleyo? Ezinye iingcali zibiza amanani angaphezulu kwama testosterone, afunyanwa ngumntwana kumama, abanye basolwa ngokuba ngumzimba kwizinto zonke. Kodwa ukuxhatshazwa kwesandla sokunene esithotyelwe ebuntwaneni kunokukhokelela ekubeni umntu uhlaziywa ngokukhawuleza ngakwesokunxele.
Ngesinye isikhathi, uxinzelelo lwabasekhohlo luye lwadityaniswa kwisibheno esikhulu. Ngo-1980, ukugxothwa ngokungafanelekanga kwipolisa yaseMerika uFranklin Wybourne kwaphumela ekuboniseni ngokwenene. Umfana wayezama ukugqoka i-holster ngakwesobunxele, okwakunqatshelwe yicatterter. Kwaye ngo-Agasti 13, 1992, i-International Day of Hand-handers ya bhiyozelwa okokuqala. Abaqalisi beli ngcamango baseBritani, abasungula khona iqela labo elisemthethweni. Umhla wokuqala wama-activist-gaubed-handed-handeders wathi bahamba ezitratweni ngeefowers apho zonke iimfuno zabo zabhalwa. Babexhaswa ngabantu abaninzi, kuquka abantu abaninzi abashiye.
Nangona kungabikho nxu lumano, kodwa kubomi bemihla ngemihla bafumana ubunzima obuninzi. Phantse zonke izibambiso ezifakwe kwiingcango zifakwe ngendlela efanelekileyo ukuba zisetyenziselwe kuphela abanikezeli abafanelekileyo. Kuyafana into eninzi yezixhobo zasendlini - iifriji, ama- dishwashers kunye nemishini yokuhlamba , apho iifowuni zifumaneke ngakumbi ukulungelelanisa abantu abafanelekileyo. Kufuneka baxakeke ukuyisebenzisa. Abantu abangamakhulu amahlanu abantu abayizintlu. Ukunyakaza okungavumelekanga kubangela uxinzelelo lwentlungu kwabanye abantu. Kukho izixhobo ezininzi zokusebenzisa abantu abanjalo ngokungathinteki kakhulu. Iimpawu ezinjalo zingakhokelela nakwiindawo zokulimala emsebenzini. Usuku olusobunxele lwaseNgilani lwaqulunqwa ukuvula amehlo kwabanye abantu kuzo zonke ezi ngxaki. Ngoku ke yonke into yaqala ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukusuka ekufeni. Baqala ukuvelisa iisisi, iigundane zekhompyutha. Ukuphatha kunye nezinye izixhobo ezifanelekile. Kodwa ngelixa ezi mveliso ziza kubiza kakhulu kunezinye zazo eziqhelekileyo.
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Into eyona nto kukuba ebuntwaneni abashiyi bokhohlo abanakuhlekwa ngcikivo okanye ukucalulwa. Uhlobo alukhuthazwa ukuba luzame ukubuyisela abantwana, olwenzakalisa ingqondo yabo. Chaza kumntwana ukuba ufana nabo bonke oontanga bakhe kwaye akufuneki ukuba neentloni. Unako ukubanika umzekelo wempumelelo yeziphumo eziye zaphunyezwa ngamaninzi amaninzi adumile ebomini. Emva koko, abaqeqeshi bezemidlalo abaninzi bafuna ukuba nomntu onjalo kwiqela labo. Konke oku kubangelwa kukuba abanye abantu abakhathazekiyo ngokubhekisana nokudlala okanye ukudlala. ULeon Tolstoy, u-Chaplin noLeonardo da Vinci kunye nezinye izinto ezizimeleyo nazo zisekhohlo. Ezinye izazinzulu zibonisa ukuba oku kuphuculwe kukuphuhlisa i-hemisphere yengqondo.
Usuku loMniki-Ngomhlaba we-Left, abavukeli-mthetho bazama ukutsala abanye abantu ukuba baqonde iingxaki ezimalunga neepesenti ezili-10 zabantu behlabathi. Amalungu eBlub yaseBrithani abiza abanye abantu ukuba bazame ukusebenzisa isandla sokhohlo ngosuku olunye: ukubhala, ukutya, ukusika imifuno, ukusebenzisa izixhobo, ukudlala imidlalo yezemidlalo okanye ukudlala izixhobo zomculo. Mhlawumbi kuya kubancedisa ukuba baqonde iingxaki ezikhoyo. Kakade kwamanye amazwe kukho iivenkile apho baqala ukuthengisa izinto zasekhaya kunye nezixhobo ezilungiselelwe abantu abasesigxina. Ngoko, ingxaki iguqukile kwindawo, kwaye ngokuhamba kwesikhathi yonke into iya kutshintsha ibe ngcono.