Bathi ukuba uvile ukuba abantwana bahleka, ufuna ukuphulaphula kwakhona. Yaye ngokwenene-ukuhleka komntwana ngenye yeziganeko ezimnandi nezilindele ixesha elide elinde abazali kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi babo bomntwana. Oomama abaninzi banomona omkhulu ngemiboniso yokuqala yeemvakalelo, baqhathanise umntwana wabo kunye noontanga, bathuthele ngokuzenzekelayo abamelwane, abafana babo babecala ukuba bahleka ngokukhawuleza besuka esibhedlele, kwaye baqala ukuxhalabisa: kutheni umntanami engamomotheka.
Ukukhawuleza ukuphuhliswa kwengane ayinanto, kuba ummandla wayo wemvakalelo uhambelana ngokusondeleyo kunye ne-physiology. Ukumomotheka kokuqala kwintsana, njengomthetho, umlingiswa we-reflex, unogxininiso-oko kukuthi, umqondiso wempendulo kwimvakalelo, ukufudumala noxolo. Ukususela kumzuzu xa umntwana eqala ukumamatheka (kwaye kwenzeka ekuqaleni kwenyanga yesibini yobomi) kude kube ngumzuzu xa umntwana eqala ukuhleka, kuthatha iinyanga eziliqela. Ukumamotheka kwangoku kubangelwa kukubona ubuso bakho kwaye kuvela kakhulu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuxhasa umntwana ngexesha lokuqala ukuzama ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo - ukumncumo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuye, kwaye uya kukunika ukumomotheka.
Kwiinyanga ezi-3-5, abantwana baqala ukuhleka. Oku kubangelwa ukuba umntwana wenza into ebizwa ngokuba yi "funnel", edibanisa iimpawu zomzimba kunye nezihlunu zobuso kwaye unikezela ngokuphendula ngokubanzi, ngendlela yokuhleka. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana, okokuqala ukuva ukuhleka kwakhe, uyethusa, kodwa ke uyaqonda ukuba uthumela ezi zandi kwaye uqala "ukuqeqesha", ngoko uvela kwicala kubonakala ukuba umntwana uhleka ngesizathu.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuhleka?
Kakade ke, oku kuzaliswa akukona ngokuchanekileyo, kuba akunakwenzeka ukufundisa le nyana ide inkqubo yakhe yeentlungu ikhule ngokwaneleyo. Kodwa abazali banokuyichukumisa le nkqubo, bedlala nebhokhwe, bemxelela imilolozelo ehlekisayo kunye neengqungquthela, ukukhwabanisa kwaye, ngokwenene, ukuhleka nokumomotheka. Unokuphinda uhlaziyeke ngemidlalo elula, njenge "ku-ku", "kuma-bumps, kwi-bumps", "ukutya, ukutya, kumfazi, kumkhulu". Kwaye, yintoni into emangalisayo, ngamanye amaxesha iintsana zisabela ngokuhleka kwexesha elide kumagama angaqhelekanga, umzekelo, wemvelaphi yangaphandle.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kunye nenjabulo yokuhleka kokuqala komntwana, unokuhlangabezana neengxaki ezithile.
Usana lubaleka xa ehleka
Ukuhleka kubangela ukuphambana okufutshane kunye ngokukhawuleza kwesithintelo, esinokubhukuda. Ukwesabisa akuyimfuneko - ukuhlangabezana ne-hiccup emva kokuhleka kunokwenzeka ukugwinya ukunyakaza, ngoko vumela umntwana ukuba aphuze aze aphazamise into ethile, umzekelo, umdlalo ozonwabisa.
Umntwana ubhala xa ehleka
Ukuba ekuhlekeni okukrakra umntwana uqala ukucola ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kwaye unokumisela ukuba sele sele ekhulile, xa umntwana esele ejwayele ukulawula iimfuno zakhe, mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, kwimeko yokuphulwa komsindo we-pelvic kwaye kufuneka afune iingcebiso kwi-urologist.