Umfazi ngamnye, ekwakheni umfanekiso, umnika intsimbi okanye i-piquancy ngoncedo lwezixhobo ezahlukeneyo. Ehlotyeni ingaba yimihlobiso okanye imilindo, kodwa kwixesha elipholileyo ukufikelela kwinqanaba elincinci. Kwaye ukuba umfazi uyakwazi ukumbathisa inqanda ngokuchanekileyo, ngoko uncedo lwakhe unokuhlaziya umfanekiso wakhe imihla ngemihla.
Kodwa, ngelishwa, abaninzi abafazi bayazi iindlela ezimbalwa nje zokugqoka ingqumbo ngokufanelekileyo, ngoko kule nqaku siza kubelana ngezinye iimfihlelo malunga nendlela yokugqoka ingqungquthela intombazana ukuze uhlale unesidlangaladi, imfashini kunye neyokuqala.
Ngoko, sinikela ingqalelo kwiindlela ezine zokuqala zokugqoka ikhenkco yowesifazane:
- Indlela elula, kodwa kunokoqobo, ukuwubopha ingqungquthela entanyeni, kwaye ubophe iingcebiso ezisele kwaye uzifihle iqhosha phantsi kocingo lwangaphakathi.
- Inketho yesibini kunye elula kakhulu - ukumbamba ingqungquthela entanyeni kanye, kwaye ubophe iiphelo phambi. Kufana nekhwele elide elinomxholo. Emva koko thabatha inqamlezo emacaleni omabini osondelene entanyeni, ujike iimbini zombini phakathi komnye kunye, uze udibanise intloko yakho kwisiqalo esiphumela.
- Ngale ndlela kuya kubambisana ngokubambisana kunye nejee eziqhelekileyo kunye nejekethi, kunye neengubo ezimnandi kunye neengubo ezide . Faka ifowuni yakho ngesiqingatha. Yiphosa entanyeni ukuze i-noose kunye neziphelo zesikhala ziphambi. Emva koko ufeze iiphelo zibe yintsimbi eyakhiweyo. Ukuqinisela isikhatshana kwaye unike ubukeka obuhle, ukusasaza ukuphela kwemida.
- Phonsa ingqungquthela entanyeni yakho, ukuyeka ukuphela kuphephe esifubeni sakho. Ephambili, bawuchukule omnye kunye kwaye ubangele babuyele. Emuva, bawaphelise kwakhona kwaye babuyele iziphelo zesikhala phambili. Emva koko, nganye isiphelo sidluliselwa kwi-loop, efunyenwe ngokuguqula umgca. Umfanekiso wakho oyingqayizivele ulungele!
Ukuba awuyi kuza naziphi na iindlela ezicetywayo ukuba ugqoke inqanawa yowesifazane, bonisa ingcamango kwaye uya kufumana into ekhethekileyo, kunokuba unokumangalisa abahlobo bakho.
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