Kuze kube namhlanje, imasiko kunye nezithethe zomtshato womtshakazi ziyalityalwa, ziyancipha kakhulu kwisidlo esisemthethweni kunye nabaziwayo nabazali babo, apho isibini sichaza isigqibo sabo sokutshata. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba umdlalo womtshakazi ungomnye wamasiko acacileyo, kwaye kwakungemva kokuba umdlalo wenziwe ngokucacileyo ukuba umtshato wawuya kubanjwa okanye awunjalo.
Umtshato wesithethe somtshato
Ngaphambili, indlela yokwazisa umtshakazi wayesazi yonke into - isithethe into eqhelekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kwakubandakanya umyeni, izalamane zakhe-uyisekazi, umalume okanye umzalwana omdala. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukudibanisa kwakungaphambi komboniso womtshakazi, apho umtshakazi enikwe khona ukuhamba ngeklasi, ukubonisa iitalente zakhe. Emva kokuba abadlali bekhwenkwe nomyeni banjwe, ukuba le ntombazana yayithandile loo mfana, emva kwexesha elincinane abadlali bemidlalo bafika endlwini yomtshakazi. Ngendlela, indlela yokutshata ngokufanelekileyo umtshakazi, umyeni akakwazi ukuxelela kuphela isihlobo esilandelayo, kodwa kunye nabadlali bezemidlalo. Bayilawula umtshato wonke womtshakazi, landela ukugcinwa kwamasiko. Ngokwesiko lomtshakazi, yonke into yayingathuli, iguqule kuphela iingubo kunye nokubonisa iitalente. Emva koko umtshakazi angamlahla loo mfana, enikezele kuye i-garbuz (ithanga), ukusuka kumgca omnye womgca wecala naye angenza "umququzelele" kumtshakazi - evale umnyango emva, baqalekisa intombazana ebomini abangatshatanga. Ukuba umtshakazi akayithandi umtshakazi, ke wazisa kuphela iiglasi zamanzi emlonyeni wakhe, eziswe zizihlobo zomtshakazi. Ukuba umtshakazi wayeyithanda, i-glass glass is drunk. Esikhundleni samanzi, kwakukho ubusi kwiglasi.
Kukho ubungqina bokuthi ukufana nomdlalo kwakungeke kubanjwe ngomhla we-13, kunye neLwesithathu kunye noLwesihlanu. Kwaye iinqununu ezilungileyo kule nkcubeko zacatshangwa ngo-7 no-9. Ukutshatyalaliswa ngokuqhelekileyo kwaqala emva kokushona kwelanga, kwenzelwe ukuba abantu ababi bangenakunceda umntu. Emva kokuba abadlali bemidlalo bahambe, kwakunzima ukubopha zonke izinto ezibukhali endlwini ukuze inhlanhla ingayi kuhamba kwaye umtshato wavuya.
Indlela yokutshata ngokufanelekileyo umtshakazi, iingcamango zomdlalo wamhlanje
Namhlanje, umcimbi womtshato womtshakazi ushintshile, ngoko iskripthi sinokuba nantoni na. Unako ukumka umtshakazi, njengokuba kwakuqhelekileyo e-Ukraine, kunye neengubo zelizwe, unokwenza u-stylize isenzo esipheleleyo kwiqela le-gothic, kunye nama-waswolves, ama-vampires kunye nezinye iindaba ezibuhlungu, okanye unokudlala amatshato omdlalo ovela kummandla we-mafia ochaphazelayo, apha kunye nezikhwama ezinamandla, oomatshini ozenzekelayo ngokulungele, kunye nomtshakazi okhangayo ngokumangalisayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yonke into iyancitshiswa ngcamango yakho, into ephambili kukubonisana nabazali bakho - kungekhona wonke umntu uya kukhululeka nge-zombie okanye ipistoli. Kwaye, ewempilweni enkulu kangaka, kungcono ukubiza abahlobo bakho, baya kudala imeko kwaye uya kuhlaziywa kwaye uzonwaba.
Kuthetha ntoni, xa banikela umtshakazi? Ngokwesiko, konke kwaqala ngamazwi abalinganiswa "unemveliso, sinomthengisi". Ngoku iintetho zokuvula zixhomekeka kwisitayela oza kuqhuba ukudibanisa. Umtshato waseMukraine wendabuko, ukuthetha malunga neempahla kunye nomrhwebi uya kwenza, kodwa iintloko zamaqela eefia zichazwe ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ngoko ke, iskripthi siya kufuneka ukuba sicingisise kakuhle. Kulo mdlalo, umyeni ngokuqhelekileyo unikela umtshakazi isonka, le nkcubeko isoloko ilandelwa namhlanje. Kwakhona, umyeni unyanzelekile ukuba alungiselele iintlobo zeentyatyambo zomtshakazi kunye nezipho ezincinci kumama noyise. Emva kwentetho yomyeni kunye nokubonakaliswa kweetalente zomtshakazi, umdlalo wokuqhathaniswa usufikelele ekugqibeleni kwawo. Umyeni kunye nabalingani bakhe babethi bayahamba baya ekhaya. Emva kokuba umtshakazi kunye nezihlobo zakhe babuyele ekutyeleleni. Namhlanje, isiqhelo somdlalo wokubambisana sivame ukulibaziseka, njengoko i-etiquette ayigqibeli ixesha lokutya ngexesha lokudlala. Emva kwentsikelelo yabazali, umtshakazi ufumana isandi njengomqondiso wokuthintana.