Ulwalamano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana lwakhiwe ngokufana kobudlelwane bokholo noThixo. UThixo unike abazali igunya elikhethekileyo, kwaye ukungathobeli kwabazali kuyisono sangempela. Yingakho akufanele ukholelwe ngokukodwa ukuba ubuhlobo bomama nomntwana buphazamisekile ngentambo yokunquma. Ukuqhagamshelana phakathi komzali nomntwana wakhe akunakunqunyulwa - kuyaqhubeka kokubili kumgama nangemva kokufa.
Ngamanye amaxesha, sikhalaza ngeengxaki zethu kubahlobo, silindele ukuba iingcebiso kunye ncedo kubo. Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza xa sifuna uncedo lwethu, kungekhona abantwana bethu? Ngelo xesha amaxesha oomama banokuthembela kuphela kumthandazo kamama.
Ibhinqa lingaba ngumntu ongakholwayo, mhlawumbi ayengazi umthandazo omnye, kodwa umphefumlo womama awufunanga ukholo okanye ulwazi. Iphuma kwi ntliziyo ngomlambo wokunyaniseka nokuthobeka okungenakonakala phambi koThixo onamandla onke.
UThixo unokuthandazwa ngamazwi akhe, okanye ngokuthandaza kwecawa ekhethekileyo.
Into ephambili kukuba uziva kwaye uvumele umthandazo womama kubantwana. Zama ukuziva umthandazo olandelayo:
Nkosi inenceba, uYesu Kristu, ndikunika abantwana bam, osiphayo ngokuwenza imithandazo yethu. Ndicela kuwe, Nkosi, zigcine ezindleleni owazi zona wena. Gcina kwizinto ezimbi, ububi, ukuzingca kwaye ungavumeli nto ithinteke ngumphefumlo wabo, ngokuchasene nawe. Kodwa ubaphe ukholo, uthando kunye nethemba lokusindiswa, kwaye baya kuba yiimpahla zakho ezikhethiweyo zoMoya oyiNgcwele, kwaye indlela yabo yokuphila ibe ngcwele kwaye ingenasici phambi kukaThixo.
Basikelele, Nkosi, vumela yonke imizuzu yobomi babo bazalise ukuthanda kwakho okuyingcwele, ukuze Wena, Nkosi, uhlale unabo kuMoya oyiNgcwele.
Nkosi, bafundise ukuba bathandaze kuwe, ukuze umthandazo ube yinkxaso kunye nenjabulo kwiintlungu zabo kunye nentuthuzelo yobomi babo, kwaye thina, abazali babo, sisindiswa ngomthandazo wabo. Vumela iingelosi zakho zihlale zilinda.
Kwangathi abantwana bethu bangavelela intlungu yabamelwane babo kwaye banokufeza umyalelo wakho wothando. Yaye ukuba bayona, banika, Nkosi, ukuba banikezele ukuguquka kuwe, kwaye inceba yakho engenakuqondakalayo ibaxolele.
Xa ubomi babo basemhlabeni buphela, bayibeke kwiindawo zenu zokuhlala zaseZulwini, apho bahamba nabo kunye nezinye izigqila zabakhethiweyo bakho.
Umthandazo woMama oPhezulu othembekileyo kunye no-Ever-Virgin Mary kunye nabangcwele bakho (uluhlu lwazo zonke iintsapho ezingcwele), Nkosi, masibe nenceba usisindise, kuba uzukiswa kunye noQala-uYihlo noMoya oyiNgcwele, ngoku naphakade naphakade. Amen. "
Kutheni umthandazo womama onamandla kunene?
Amandla omthandazo womama, njengoko sele sithethileyo, ukunyaniseka kwawo. UTurgenev wabhala ukuba xa ikholwa lokwenene lithandaza, ucela uThixo ukuba enze njalo ukuba kabini iimbini azikho ezine. Oko kukuthi, ucela ummangaliso. Kwaye, ngokwenene, isicelo esifanelekileyo sinjalo kuphela.
Umthandazo womama unamandla, kuba umama uyamthanda umntanakhe ngaphandle, ngenxa yokuba ukhona. Unina akayi kumshiya, nangona ihlabathi liphela lide, nangona umntwana eba ngumbulali, isela, wehla ebuhlwempu. Imithandazo kaMama igcwele ithemba, inzondelelo, ukholo, kwaye oku kuyinto enokumcela uThixo ngommangaliso.
Ngokudla kaninzi imithandazo kamama ichazwa kuMama kaThixo. Emva kwakho konke, akayena nje umfazi osisigxina kubo bonke abafazi,
"Mama kaThixo, ndikhokele kumfanekiso wobomi bakho basezulwini. Philisa umphefumlo wam kunye namanxeba emzimbeni wabantwana bam (amagama abantwana), zam izono. Ndimnika umntwana wam ngentliziyo yonke eNkosini yam uYesu Kristu nakwaKho, ukuNgcolisa kunene. Amen. "
Thandazela ukuba abantwana babalulekile kuphela ngexesha lobunzima, kodwa bonke ubomi. Kucetyiswa ukuba uqale ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwabo, xa bephantsi kwentliziyo yakho. Buza uThixo kungekuphela komhlaba (impilo, impilo , inhlanhla), kodwa nangokomoya, malunga nosindiso lomphefumlo.