Umntwana ubilisa esiswini

Ekubeni iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa azikwazi ukuzixelela oko kubakhathazayo, abazali abatsha kufuneka baqaphele kakhulu ukuba bangaphutheli iimpawu kwaye bangaqali izifo. Esinye sezizathu ezinokubangela ukuxhalaba kukugubungela esiswini esiswini somntwana. Makhe sicinge, ngoluphi uhlobo lokuziphatha komzimba olunokuxhunyezwa.

Ziziphi izibangela zokubhobhoza kwisisu?

Ukuba umntwana ushisa kwisisu, sinokucinga ukuba kukho umoya ogqithiseleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iintsana ziginya umoya xa zingasetyenziswa kakuhle kwisifuba okanye xa zilambile, ukuba umntwana ulambile kakhulu. Kwakhona, imeko apho ukugubungela kwisisu esisandulweyo kungabangela ukubunjwa kweGazik kumathumbu ngokwayo. Kwaye kukho izizathu ezininzi:

Unokunceda njani umntwana osana?

Kukho iinamba ezinokuthi zithathwe xa usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa luba nesisu. Kubalulekile ukukhupha amathumbu avela kuma gazikas kunye nokunciphisa amathuba okutsha. Ungayilahla:

Ukuthintela ukuqhuma kwisisu kulandelayo:

Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa alugcini nje ukubilisa esiswini, kodwa kunye nemeko jikelele ehambelana nokuxhalaba, imizwelo, ukukhala, izitofu eziqhelekileyo, ukutshintsha kwimibala kunye nokuhogela, ke oku kuyisiganeko sokunakekelwa kwonyango ngokukhawuleza.