Uninzi lwabantu abahlala kwiindawo zamatye ziloyiko lokuthintela. Kwaye oku kungabangeli ngenye indlela yokhathazeka kwengqondo yomntwana, kodwa ngumnqweno wokunciphisa uxhumano lomzimba kunye nabantu abangenakumnandi okanye abangaqhelekanga nabo.
Uloyiko lokuthintana, luvame ukuvela ebuntwaneni, ukuba ebomini ubomi abadala bubizwa ngokuba yi "phobia" kuphela . Ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela umntwana akhula ngayo ubudlelwane bakhe nabazali bakhe, njani xa ekhulile uya kusabela kwisandla sokuxhaphaza ngesandla okanye ukumanga esihlathini.
Haptophobia
Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba ukwesaba abanye abantu abachaphazelayo kukwabizwa ngokuthi haptophobia, thixophobia, aphephobia, hypnophobia, njl. Le ngxaki iyenzeka ngengxaki yokunyanzelisa. Ifumana ukubonakaliswa kwayo ngohlobo loloyiko, oluziphethe ngokwalo uhla ngcoliseko, oluchaphazelayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntu obandezelekayo, ngale ndlela, ufuna ukuzikhusela, ukhusele indawo yakhe. Ngokukodwa, kunqongophe kuphela ukwesaba ukuthinta umntu wesini esahlukileyo. Phakathi kwabesetyhini kubangelwa ukubonakala koyiko lokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo.
Kukho umngcipheko omkhulu wokuhlakulela le phobia kumakhwenkwe adlwengula njengomntwana. Oku kuchazwa yinto yokuba umntu wenqaba ukuthemba abanye. Uloyiko lokulimaza kwakhona.
Ngoko, umntu onobungozi be-haptophobia xa omnye umntu emthintela, ufumana iimvakalelo ezibonakaliswe ngentsholongwane yesiqhelo, kunye nokuhlaselwa kwesoyiki, ukuxhatshazwa.
Akuyi kubakho ukuqaphela ukuba emva kokuba uloyiko lokuchukumisa lunokuba luhluke ngokupheleleyo. Kungenzeka ukuba oku kungoku: ukwesaba usulelo (umntu ekuthinteni kwabanye ubona akukho ngaphantsi kwe-hotbed of microbes), i-phobia yabantu abathile ngesini esithile okanye abo banesibonakaliso esifanayo (umzekelo, ukwesaba abantu abagqithisileyo), ukwesaba kobugwenxa ukusabela komntu, ukwesaba abantu abangaziwayo, abangaziwayo, njl.
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umntu onobungozi be-haptophobia, uhambelana kakubi nomoya okanye amanzi.
I-Haptophobia iphilisa, kwaye ingcali efanelekileyo kufuneka imisele unyango olufanelekileyo. Ukuze uncede, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nomphengululi ojolise ekuphatheni i-phobia efanelekileyo. Ekuqaleni uya kuzama ukuhlalutya izizathu zolu loyiko.
Kwakhona, i-psychotherapists ikhuthaze ngamandla ukuba ilahle le phobia ngokuba kwisihlwele. Ngoko, wonke umntu uyamoyika into ethile kwinqanaba elithile. Ngamanye amaxesha loloyiko luyinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukufuna unyango kwi-phobia kwaye ujabulele ubomi.