Ngandlela-thile, abaninzi abafazi bacinga ngezihlandlo ngento eyenza ubaba anqunywe ngamalungelo omzali, kwaye apho uqala khona ukuqala le nkqubo. Kule nqaku, siya kuzama ukuqonda le ngxaki.
Yintoni efunekayo yokunciphisa ubaba wamalungelo omzali?
EUkraine, eRashiya kunye namanye amaninzi omthetho, le nkqubo iqhutyelwa kuphela ngetyala eliqaliswe ngumfaki sicelo kwisicelo sokuhlulwa kobazali bamalungelo omzali. Umzali wesibini, umgcini okanye umgcini wengane, kunye namaziko karhulumente, unokuqalisa isilingo kulo mbandela. Ngokwenza oko, nangona kunjalo, oomama abancinci abangayifumana uncedo oluyimfuneko kubaba babo bezinto eziphilayo, bobabini kwizinto eziphathekayo kunye nokuziphatha, bathathwe kwiinkundla.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukwenzela ukuba uthathe umlinganiselo onzima kumzali ongenamdla, kuyakufuneka ukuba kuqinisekiswe inkundla yokuba khona kweemeko ezingenakuthenjwa, uluhlu lwazo oluvunyiweyo ngumthetho waseRashiya ne-Ukraine. Ngesiseko sokuba unina unyanzele ubaba wamalungelo kabawo, inkqubo yokuqalisa inkqubo iya kuxhomekeka.
Ngokukodwa, kuxhomekeke kwimeko, ukulungiswa kwangaphambili kwesilingo kunokubandakanya ukufumana amaphepha afanelekileyo kula macandelo alandelayo:
- Esinye sezizathu eziphantse ziquka ukuzaliswa ngempumelelo kwesilingo sokunyanzeliswa kwamalungelo omzali kayise ngumyalelo woluvo olujoliswe ngunyana okanye unina. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, isinyathelo sokuqala sowesifazane ofuna ukuqalisa inkqubo iya kuba enkundleni eya kuhlola ityala kummangalelwa kwaye ifumana ikopi yesigwebo, esibonisa ukubunjwa kolwaphulo-mthetho kunye nobungqina obukhoyo bentyala yommangalelwa.
- Ukuba isizathu esiyintloko sokuba uthathe umlinganiselo onzima kakhulu, ukukhutshwa kwexesha elide kunye nexesha elide lokuhlawula i-alimony, ukuqeqeshwa kwangaphambi kwezilingo kufuneka kuqale ngokutyelela kwinkonzo yomsizi-mali. Kukho imfuneko ukufumana ulwazi malunga nokungabikho kwentlawulo yesondlo se-alimony ngummangalelwa, kwakunye neikopi zezinqumo ngokushushiswa, ukuba zifumaneka.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo isizathu sokuba ibhinqa linyanzeliswe ukuba lithathe isinyathelo esinjalo kukuba umyeni wakhe ubhekene nesigaba esibi kakhulu sokusela utywala okanye ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Kule meko, ukulungiswa kwamacala okugweba kufuneka kuqalise ngokutyelela kwi-dispensary yesixeko kunye nokufumana ulwazi olufanelekileyo.
- Ukuba ubaba ubonisa ubugwenxa obugqithiseleyo kwaye ubeka ingozi engumntwana , ukumnciphisa amalungelo akhe omzali kuya kufuneka aqokelele amaxwebhu acinisekisa ukuziphatha kwakhe okwaneleyo. Ngokukodwa, kule njongo, uncedo ekubizeni intambo yamapolisa endlwini ngenxa yobundlobongela obuvela kumadoda, iimpawu zakhe ezivela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, ubungqina bamangqina njalonjalo.
Ukwenza zonke ezi zenzo ziyimfuneko ukwenzela ukuba uqokelele amaxwebhu aphambili ngokunyanzelwa koyise womntwana wamalungelo omzali. Kwixesha elizayo kuyimfuneko ukufaka isicelo kumagcisa kunye nokugcinwa kwamagqeba, kuba inkxaso yabo iya kuba luncedo olukhulu ngexesha lelityala enkundleni.
Ekugqibeleni, isinyathelo sokugqibela sifanele senze isibheno kwiziphathi zamagosa ngesitatimende sesibango sokunyanzelwa kobazali bamalungelo omzali, isampula esinikezelwa kwinqaku lethu:
