Liliphi ixesha lokufundisa umntwana kwibhotile?
Abazali abaninzi banomdla kule nto, nangaphezulu - ugogo. Emva koko, baxela ukuba ngexesha labo, abantwana malunga neenyanga ezi-3 banikezela ukuba bafuna ukubhala. AmaMom afuna umntwana ukuba afunde yonke into yokuqala, kodwa kungekhona yonke into elula. Ngombuzo wokuba ufundise umntwana ebhodweni, akukho mpendulo ngqo. Apha, njengamasebe asele ekuphuhliseni, umntu makangabhekisela kuphela kumncinci. Ukuxhoma umntwana kumbindi kufuneka kuqale xa kukho ukulungelelanisa kwengqondo kunye nokuzilungelelanisa. Ngelo xesha, abanye babo balungele oku kakade kunyaka, kwaye abanye baqala kakhulu. Kodwa phakathi koogqirha bezilwanyana kukho uluvo lokuba isebe leengqondo, elilawula iinkqubo ezidityanisiweyo, likhula kwinyanga ezili-18.
Kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufunde umntwana kumbindi?
Izihlobo zagqiba ukuba iimvumba zabo zanda, ngoko ke ixesha lokuqala ukufundisa umntwana ebhodweni. Kodwa yikuphi na ukuqala ukufunda embizeni? - banomdla. Ifuna indlela echanekileyo kunye neenkqubo ezininzi eziza kuqinisekisa ukuphumelela imfundiso yomntwana ebhodweni. Ezi ziphambili ziya kuqwalaselwa ngokuthe ngqo:
- Le nto entsha karapuza ibhetele ukuhamba naye, makabonise oko akuthandayo;
- Kufanelekile ukuqala ukubeka i-panties yengane yakho ekhaya, ukuze iqale ukuqaphela uxhumano "lugxothwe - luba lukhuni";
- Inkqubo yoqeqesho ibalulekile ukuqala kuphela xa i-carapace iphilile kwaye iyaneliswa;
- Kungcono ukuqala ukufundisa xa kushushu. Emva koko kwitaladi, nawe, ungagqoki i-diaper, kwaye kungcono ukunikela ngamaxesha amaninzi "emahlathini."
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba acele ibhodwe?
Indlu yendlu yangasese enhle kwaye inqwaba yepenteti yafunyanwa, lixesha lokuqalisa inkqubo yokufunda! Ngezantsi ziindlela zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi:
- Makhe eme njalo "emehlweni";
- iintshukumo zabazali kufuneka zichaneke. Okokuthi, ukuba ekhaya bashiya i-diapers, ngoko kufuneka sizame ukungayifaki;
- abantwana kufuneka babe ncinane ubuncinane beengubo ezingasuswa ngokukhawuleza;
- qi niseka ukuba utshale emva kokutya nokulala, phambi kwesitrato kwaye emva kokubuya ekhaya. Kancinci kuya kuba ngumkhwa;
- ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle, i-crumb ifanelwe ukudunyiswa, kwaye ukuba kukho ukungaphumeleli - ungaxeli.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale ebhodweni?
Abantwana babuyela ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Bakopisha abantu abadala kwizinto zonke. Ukuba, emva kokuzama konke kwinxalenye yabantu abadala, umntwana uyakunqabela, unokwenza ngokungafaniyo: vumela umzalwana omdala, udade okanye umama abonise ngomzekelo ukuba unokukwazi ukuhlala phantsi kwesi sihloko. Ngokuvakalayo emva kokuba le nto iphelile ukwesaba le "mma ngaliso", iphinda iqale ukuba ngumhlobo kunye nokuqeqeshwa komntwana kwi-pot kuyaphumelela. Kubalulekile ukukhetha into efanelwe kakuhle. Umgodi akufanele ube mkhulu kakhulu ukuba ungabonakali apho. Ngethuba lokuqala unokuhlala kwiimvumba kumntu omdala, uxhasane nebhokhwe phantsi kweengxaki, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukuze angabi nentshiseko.
Kukho i-bestseller yamanje yokufundisa umntwana kwimbiza ye-1 ngosuku. Kubizwa ngokuba "Ukuziqhelisela embizeni yosuku olu-1." Umbhali uEzrin Nathan noRichard Fox baqinisekisa ukuba sele befunda le ncwadi, ixesha elichithwe ekuqeqesheni liya kuthatha iiyure ezi-4 ukuya kuma-24. Esinye isahluko sichaza indlela enomdla-unokucela uncedo lweeysys zamanje, umzekelo, iidonki ezingabhala. Unako ukusela idoli kwibhotile, uze uyityele embizeni-kwaye, o, ummangaliso, - uya kuba ngumanzi! Umntwana ulungelelaniswe noko akubonile ukuba uzama ukuvelisa oku kusasa.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba angene embizeni?
I-Peristalsis yamathumbu iyasebenza emva kokutya. Ngeli xesha, abantwana bahlala befuna ukukhaba. Indlela yokuqeqesha umntwana ebhodweni ithi abazali kufuneka batyalise umntwana emva kokutya okuphambili. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba intombazana ikhululekile. Le nto ifanele ifaneleke ngobukhulu bayo, kuba ukwenza into enkulu, kuya kufuneka ukuba uhlale ixesha elide.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba abhale ebhodweni?
Inkqubo yokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, echazwe ngezantsi, yenzelwe iintsuku ezi-7. Yayenziwe nguBritish Gina Ford kubantwana be-1,5 iminyaka, xa sele bekwazi ukuqonda imiyalelo elula. Nantsi into equkwayo:
- Ngomhla wokuqala ekuseni, i-pampus isuswe kumntwana kwaye ihlala isityalo ngexesha. Ingane inokuthi ithathwe into enomdla ngeli xesha, ukuze kungabikho umnqweno wokungena ngaphambi kwexesha.
- Usuku lwesibini luqhubeka nolungisa ubuchule. Kufuneka uqaphele, jonga i-karapuz ukuba ungadlala kwaye uphendule ibhodlo ngexesha.
- Ngomhla wesithathu, akufanele ugqoke i-diaper nokuba uhambe. Kodwa phambi kwayo, kufuneka umeme i-crumb ukwenza ibhizinisi lakho.
- Ngokwecandelo ngosuku lwesine, abantwana abaninzi bazimisele ukuzibuza ukuba kufuneka bahambe kwindlu yangasese. Ngeli xesha, vumela ibhokhwe ime endaweni evelele. Kwaye emva kweveki kufuneka ihanjiswe kwelinye igumbi, ukuze inkwenkwe iqonde ukuba kufuneka uhlangabezane nemfuno yakho kungekhona phakathi kwegumbi, kodwa kwindawo ekhethekileyo.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuma ebhodweni ebusuku?
Isigaba sokuqala solu hambo sidluliselwa - emini, i-karapuz yenza iindaba zakhe zingekho kwi-panties, kodwa njengomntu omdala abuza xa kufuneka abhale. Kuza isigaba esilandelayo - indlela yokufundisa umntwana ebhodweni ebusuku? Ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukulala ubusuku bonke aze ahlale eyomile, ke yindlela kuphela yokuhlwa. Ekuqaleni, abaninzi abantwana bayaqhankqalaza, kodwa ekugqibeleni bayayifumana kwaye bayenze ngokusemthethweni.
Umama uyazi ukuba umntwana wakhe ungcono kunabanye kwaye uya kukwazi ukulungelelanisa. Unokwenza ishedyuli, kwaye utshale umntwana nge-12 ntsimbi, kwaye sele sele u-6. Emva koko kufuneka ukuphakanyiswa kwesinye kususwe kwaye ubone ukuba kukho ukuphakanyiswa okwaneleyo ngobusuku bonke. Ukuba kukho ukungaphumeleli kunye nokuphazamiseka-ungakhathazeki kwaye ungayikrokrele imivumba. Ngenxa yoko, umzimba wakhe awukavuthwa ngokupheleleyo kwaye awukwazi ukulawula kakuhle iinkqubo.
Iipatriki zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi
Uqeqesho oluhle kakhulu luncedo ngexesha elithile apho abazali banquma ukuqala ukufundisa umntwana ebhodweni. Iipatriki zokuqeqeshwa kwamatye zitshitshiweyo ukuze ngaphandle kokuba zingaphantsi kwamanzi angqinileyo, ngoko i-sofas neemaphephe ziya kugcinwa. Kwaye ngaphakathi, njengesiqhelo. Oko kukuthi, ukuba i-crumb in them pee, ke uzive ungonwabi. Kwaye oku kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ufanele ucele nokuba uye endlwini yangasese. Kwakhona kukho iipenties-diapers ezilahlayo zokuqeqeshwa kwiphuko. Ngokukhawuleza babamba yonke into. Kodwa zikulungele ukuhamba okokuqala. Ukuba i-crumb iceliwe, iyakushenxiswa ngokukhawuleza kwaye ingenakulungeleka, okungeke kuthiwe malunga ne-diapers eziqhelekileyo.
Umntwana akahlali phantsi kwebhodini - kufuneka ndiyenze ntoni?
Indlu yangasese yabantwana yathengwa, zonke iindlela sele zivivinywe, kodwa loo nto ayiguquki. I-karapuz iyanqabela ngokukhawuleza ukungena kuyo. Kule meko, kusele kuyimfuneko ukubhekisa kwiindlela ezingezizo zendalo. Uncedo luza ekufundiseni imifanekiso yebhokisi. Enye yeemifanekiso, eziqulethwe ngamacandelo amaninzi, ibonisa indlela ibhere cub, puppy, yenza ngayo. Iinyana ezincinci zidlala, kwaye ziyancipha kwaye zihlala phantsi ukugubha imicimbi yazo. Iimvana ezininzi ziyakuthanda imifanekiso ngeempapu zePippu. Kukho uchungechunge apho uPeppa efundisa uGeorge ukuba ahambe khona. Kula bantwana le ndlela isebenza ngokungenasiphelo, bayayikopisha ngokunyanisekileyo abalinganiswa bezilwanyana kunye nokuqheleka kwindlu yangasese.
Umntwana wayeka ukuya ebhodweni
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ukunyamezela embizeni kwathiswe ngempumelelo, inkunzi yenze konke ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza iyenqaba ukuhlala phantsi. Izihlobo zentsapho, azikwazi ukuqonda into eyenzeka kumntwana othandekayo, kunye nendlela yokujongana nengxaki evelele. Okokuqala kufuneka uqikelele isizathu esibalulekileyo salo mkhuba. Kungaba:
- Intombazana inenkxalabo malunga nento ethile, ayivulekanga, okanye, umzekelo, amazinyo akhe anqunywe;
- ubunzima beminyaka (ubunzima beemibini okanye emithathu iminyaka);
- uxinzelelo olubangelwa ukuhamba, ukuguqula umyezo kunye nenye into;
- ukungavumelani ubudlelwane kwintsapho;
- Ezinye izizathu ezinokuba nefuthe elibi kumntwana.
Ukuba isibonakaliso sibonisiwe, ngoko kufuneka sisuswe kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukudala izimo ezintle kumntwana. Ukuba isizathu asikwazi ukukhutshwa ngaphandle, kubalulekile ukuba ube nomonde, kungekhona ukubeka uxinzelelo kulutsha kwaye ungagxininisi kwingxaki yokuqwalasela. Ubumbi kufuneka buxhaswe kwakhona kwakhona, ungenzi nto ngokunyanisekileyo. Ukuba, nangona zonke iinzame, ingxaki ihleli, kwaye ukuphindaphindiwe komntwana okungekho nto, kuyimfuneko ukuya kunceda ugqirha.
Umntwana akafuni ukuhamba ebhodweni
Kubantwana, ukungafuni ukwenza nantoni na ukufihla ukwesaba okuqhelekileyo. Ngoko kule meko, izalamane zivakalelwa xa umntwana esaba ibhokhwe - yintoni yokwenza? Apha ufanele uzame ukuqonda oko kunokubangela ukwesaba. Nazi izizathu ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo:
- Ekuqaleni iimvuthu zaqala ukuziqhelanisa xa engazange azilungiselele ngokwenyama. Ukufundiswa kwangaphambili kwangaphambili kwimbiza kwakubangela ukwesaba kwesi sihloko;
- Ibhokhwe yinto entsha endlwini. Ilungu elincinci lentsapho lingazange lisetyenziswe kuyo, kodwa lizama ukumbamba. Ukususela ngexesha lokuthengwa kuqeqesho, ixesha elithile kufuneka lidlule;
- le nkwenkwana yaxutywa ngaphambili kwimpuqu emanzi, kwaye yavelisa inkcazo engalunganga ye "potty potty-potty".
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba umntwana sele ekwazi ukuthetha, kufuneka uxoxe naye kwaye uzame ukufumana isizathu sokutya kobuntwana, kwaye uzame ukuwuqhawula ngokusondeza unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ngokufudumala nothando. Abantwana bafanele bazive inkxaso kwiintsapho zabo kwaye bazi ukuba nayiphi na into eyenzekayo, abadala baya kuhlala bebanceda kwaye baxhasa. Kule ndlela kuphela kunokwenzeka ukukhula karapuza enempilo kwaye ivuya, okuvela kuyo yonke into ebomini.