Ayikho yonke into ephetheyo isiphethwano esinengqiqo. Ngamanye amaxesha, emva kokuya kwelinye iqeshwe kunye nomzimba wesifo somzimba, umama onamahloni ufunda ukuba umntwana wakhe ufile, nangaphakathi kwayo. Emva kokuqala kokuphelelwa lithemba, abafazi baqala ukungaqiniseki ukuba zeziphi izizathu ezibangela ukutshatyalaliswa komntwana, ngubani na onokusola le meko nendlela yokuphepha ukuphinda.
Ukukhula ngenye yeentlobo zokukhulelwa komzimba , apho umntwana eyeka ukukhula nokuphuhliswa kwayo, nangona zonke iimeko ezifumanekayo. Imeko enjalo inokwenzeka nakweyiphi na ixesha lexeshana, nangona kaninzi luhlala luqala kwiindawo zalo zokuqala.
Kutheni kwenzeka ukutshabalaka komntwana?
Enyanisweni, kukho izizathu ezininzi ezinokubangela ukuxilongwa. Oku kukhokelela kwinto yokuba kaninzi noogqirha abakwaziyo ukucacisa izinto zokukhulelwa komzimba. Izizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuba kutheni umntwana ekhulelwe ngexesha lokukhulelwa ziquka:
- ukuhluleka kwemfuzo kunye nokuphazamiseka;
- Ukungabi namahomoni axhasa ukuzala;
- Isizathu esivakalayo somntwana osweleyo utyalwa yi- IVF ;
- ubukho bezifo ezithathelwanayo kumama, njenge-influenza, rubella kunye nezinto ezifana;
- izifo ezithunyelwa kumlingani ngokulala ngesondo;
- impendulo yeso sizathu sokuba umntwana okhutshiwe angabakho ubuhlungu be-antiphospholipid syndrome kumzimba kamama,
apho amabhinqa kunye nama-placentas afaka ama-capillaries, ngenxa yoko isondlo kunye nokuphefumula komntwana kuphazamiseka; - Umsebenzi onzima ngethuba lokubambana, uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo kunye nokukhathala komama olindelekileyo;
- iziyobisi eziyingozi.
Ukuba umntwana sele efriziwe, izizathu zolu hlobo kufuneka zenziwe. Oku kuya kwenza ukuba kuphephe ukuphindaphinda kweemeko kwixesha elizayo, apho kuyimfuneko ukuphelisa izinto ezinokubangela ukukhusela nokuvumela umzimba ukuba ulungiselele ukutsalwa kokuchumisa.