Ukutshata okwesihlandlo sesibini, ngakumbi ukuba umtshakazi uphaya ngaphaya kwemashumi mathathu, a baninzi abafazi banentloni ngeemeko zabo baze bacinge ukuba le meko iyafana. Ukuxhatshazwa! Ukuba umtshato wokuqala ungabonakali ngesizathu esithile, unelungelo lokuzikholisa ngokwakho kwimibhiyozo yomtshato wakho wesibili. Ziziphi iindlela zokukhetha izambatho zomtshakazi, ongatshatanga okokuqala?
Ingubo
Ngokwesiko, kuphela amantombazana atshatiweyo okokuqala ngxiba ingubo emhlophe yeqhwa kumtshato. Kodwa namhlanje ukugqoka ingubo yomtshato omhlophe ukuze umtshato wesibini umkeleke, ngakumbi ukuba awuzange ube ngowokuqala.
Ngokweziko zakwaSlavic, ibhinqa elingena kumtshato wokuqala, yambatha ingubo ebomvu. Ngoku uyingubo yomtshato obomvu, isambatho esilinganiselwe ngumthunzi obomvu, okanye ingubo emhlophe eneempawu ezibomvu namhlanje ngokuphakama kwefashoni, ngoko awukwazi ukuguquka kwizithethe kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ujonge kakhulu, ukhetha le ngubo.
Xa ukhetha ingubo, qwalasela ububanzi beeholide. Ngokwemibhiyozo encinci yentsapho, kungcono ukuba unxibe into enokwenzayo, umzekelo, intlobo enhle ngokuhlwa kwintetho yakho. Iimpawu ezimangalisayo zomtshato wesibini kwisangqa esincinci:
- isambatho esenziwe ngobude obude obude bombala weperile nge-chiffon cape;
- umgqomo wokugqoka umbala wendlovu ngexakeka emadolweni;
- ingubo yomtshato - iengubo okanye ibhulukhwe enebhokethi eya kubangalisa bonke abadibeneyo kunye nokuzimela kwayo.
Ewe, ukuba ucwangcisa umthendeleko oqaqambileyo kuyo yonke imigaqo, unxibe ingubo yomtshato emhlophe okanye emhlophe.
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Ngaba ndimele ndibeke isigqubuthelo?
Kukholelwa ukuba isigqubuthelo somtshato siwuphawu lokungabikho kobulungisa, ngoko kuyisiko ukugqoka kuphela kulabo abatshatileyo okokuqala. Kodwa namhlanje izithethe azikhombisi kakhulu kwimfesane yomtshato, ngoko ukuba isitalelo sengubo sikuvumela kwaye ufuna, unokuyihlobisa ngokuqhelekileyo isitayela sakho seenwele ngesigqubuthelo.
Uninzi lwabasetyhini abangena kumtshato ongengowokuqala bathanda ukugqoka isimbofu esihle kakhulu nesigqubuthelo entloko. Olu khetho lukhangeleka kakhulu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akukho mntu uya kubangela ukugxekwa. Ewe, kwaye isitya sinokukhethwa ngokulula kunoma yimuphi umlo wobuso.
Ukuba umtshato uwela ngexesha elifudumeleyo, unokuyihobisa iinwele zakho ngeentyatyambo okanye iintambo, njengamaparele - oku kuya kubonakala kulungile kwaye kuyabonakala.
Ukongezelela, unokwenza ukhetho lwakho ukuthanda isithsaba esinobugcisa okanye i-tiara. Baya kunika i-stroke ukubonakalisa okukhethekileyo, ukuphumelela ngempumelelo nayiphi na impahla, kwaye akukho mntu uya kubona ukuba awugqoke isigqubuthelo.
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Isiqhamo somtshakazi
Kubalulekile ukunyamekela kwaye ngaphandle kwayo akuyi kubakho iqela lomtshato omnye - i-bouquet. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ayinto engavamile kwaye imfashini.
Xa ukhetha i-bouquet, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela iminyaka yomtshakazi. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo kwabasetyhini abadala ukuba basebenzise iintyatyambo ezinemibala eqaqambileyo, kuba iitoni ezincinci zibonakalisa ulutsha nokungabi namacala. Amantombazana amancinci angasebenzisa iintyatyambo zothando, "kodwa iintlobo ezimnyama aziyikuzihombisa.
Iziqhamo zomtshato kunye namajikijolo, iziqhamo kunye nemifuno zithandwa kakhulu. Zama ukutshintsha izimbali:
- iincindi zemononi;
- iipulo ezihlaza;
- isiti;
- utamatisi othandekayo;
- iibhothi;
- i-strawberries;
- blackberry.
I-bouquet nengqolowa yindlela ehamba phambili yokutshata kwehlobo nekwindla. Kuya kuba lunomdla ngokubambisana kunye neelanga.
Abancinci, amantombazana amade angcono ukukhetha izimbali ezihambayo- "impompo" okanye "ukuwa". Baya kugxininisa umfanekiso omhle kunye nokukhula okuphezulu kwowesifazane. Ibhinqa elincinci libhetele ibhola lebhola.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, icebiso elincinane. Nangona ukuba unomtshato, kwaye ungayithobeli ingqalelo yakho yobudala, yenza yonke into njengoko uyifunayo, kwaye ungayilandeli umgaqo "wamukelwa - awuvunywanga." Emva koko le holide iya kuhlala kuwe enye yezinto ezilungileyo kakhulu!
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