Yintoni onokuyenza? Ngeveki yeholide, lo mbuzo uphazamisa wonke umntu. Kodwa, kuvela ukuba akuyiyo yonke into enokukwazi ukufumana isipho. Kukho uluhlu lwezinto ezinobungozi ezingenakunikwa nayiphi na indlela. Kukholelwa ukuba izipho ezinjalo zimbona nje. Kodwa kutheni unganiki iimpawu kwaye ngokukodwa, kutheni unike ummese njengesipho kumntu-into embi, siya kuthi ngoku.
Ukunika imimese kukubi?
Kuvela ukuba kukho uphawu oludala kakhulu lokuba iinqununu eziliqela zilungele kwaye zachaza ukuba kutheni unganiki amaqhina. Ukuba uyamkholwa, ummese uyiswe njengesipho, uya kuqala ukudweba kumntu wonke umonakalo, ukuxabana nokuxabana. Kucingelwa ukuba isipho sibukhali kangangokuthi sinciphisa nayiphi na, nokuba ngumhlobo oqinileyo. Olunye uluvo kukuba i-knife enekhono iya kusebenza kwaye iya kuzama kwi-shishini, ithathe inxaxheba ekubhinqeni kweholide, eyanikwa yona.
Kodwa zonke ezi nkolelo ziye zavela ukususela kwiintsuku apho abantu basebenzisayo baze bakholelwa kwimilingo. Abaphangi, abahlaziyi kunye nabasemagunyeni basebenzisa iintoki kwimigangatho yabo emnyama, bafezekise injongo yabo. Kwakhona kwaziwa ukuba ngoncedo lomkhwa, imirhumo yokuguqula i-wwolves yadlula. Abantu abancinane bahlala besaba abo banegunya elimangalisayo elingavaliyo. Ngako oko, iimpawu zobuthakathi zahlulwa njengobungqina obunqatshelwe kunye obunqabileyo. Yilapho izimpande zolu phawu zivela khona.
Nangona, kulungile ukuthetha ngamasiko athile. Masikhumbule, umzekelo, iCaucasus. Kukhona imimese ziphi izipho ezixabisekileyo, kwaye akukho mntu ucinga nangayiphi na impawu. Kwaye ngokubanzi, kumazwe amaninzi ase-Central Asia imingxube ibhekwa njengamandla amakhulu kunye nemimoya emibi kunye nemimoya emnyama. Kwaye ukuba ukhumbule ama-epics aseRashiya kunye neenganekwane, uthi iingrele zihlale zinikwe amaqhawe. Nangona, sihle, iinkemba ezinikelwe ngokukhawuleza zathatha inxaxheba kwiimfazwe. Kufunyenwe ikrele elihlangene kabini.
Kukho ukujonga oku: abanye abantu bathathwa ekuzalweni kwamakhwenkwe ukuze balayishe amakhonto avela kumatters. Kodwa ootata abathandwayo kuphela abacelwa ukuba bangazibukhali, kwaye inkqubo yokukhawuleza yenziwa ngokuzimela.
Ngaba amajeko anikwe?
Kukho uphawu, kufuneka kubekho inyathelo elikhusela kuyo. Kwaye inyaniso, abantu baqikelele, njani ngokuchanekileyo ukunika imimese ukuba ingxaki ingabikho. Kukho umzekeliso omhle: "Nika itshaba lwakho kwiintshaba, uthengise umkhwa ngomnxeba wakho kumhlobo wakho omhle!" Ukuba ufumana isipho njengengqayi, unike isipho okanye imali, kwaye akukho nto eyoyikwenzekayo. Emva koko, kuvela ukuba akukho nkqubo yokunikela, kodwa inkqubo yokuthenga. Kulula kakhulu kwaye kulula ukuyiphambukisa uphawu lokudala.
Ndiyakunika iikhiveshi zasekhitshini?
Ngoku nawe uyazi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba unike ummese kumntu omthandayo, ukukholelwa okanye ukungazikholelwa iinkolelo, uzenzele isigqibo. Kodwa kuthekani ngeempawu zekhitshi, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba unike ukutya ngokusetyeni ngamacwecwe kwisethi? Nangona umcimbi awufani nakwezinye zangaphambili. Kulo