Kuphela xa uzalwe, umntwana unamakhono kuphela angenangqondo, ukuziphatha kwakhe kubonakala kunokwenzeka. Kodwa sele ivela kwiintsuku zokuqala kunye neveki uqala ukuqonda isayensi yobomi. Inkwenkwe idonsa ulwazi kwilizwe langaphandle ngoncedo lwamazwi onke: iphulaphula izandi ezizungezile, ibheka izinto kunye nobuso babantu, iyaphunga kwaye ichukumise eli hlabathi. Ngokufanayo, ukhula kwaye akhule emzimbeni, ufunda ukuhamba ngokutsha. Yaye umntwana oneminyaka emibili ubudala sele sele ehluke kakhulu kwintsana.
Ukuziphatha komntwana kwiinyanga ezimbini
Izakhono ezibhalwe ngezantsi zivela kwezinye "eziphakathi" kwinyanga ezimbini. Ukuba umntwana wakho engagcini intloko okanye engafuni ukulala emlonyeni wakhe, akusikho isizathu sokukhathazeka. Musa ukulibala ukuba abantwana bahluke kakhulu ngokwemilinganiselo yentuthuko, kwaye oku kuqhelekileyo.
Ngoko, ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-2 kuthatha izi zakhono kunye nobuchule:
- sele sele ephethe intloko yakhe okanye ngaphantsi kakuhle;
- Uzama ukuphakamisa intloko kwisimo esifanelekileyo esiswini;
- Ubumnandi bokuqala obunentsingiselo bubonakala;
- xa uxoxisana nabantu abadala, ubonisa oko kuthiwa "ubunzima bokuvuselela": usana luqala ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokungaqhelekanga, ukuxoxisana ngezandla kunye neenyawo;
- Umntwana oneminyaka emibili ubudala ubona izinto ezingenanto ezihambayo kunye nezihambayo kumgama wesiqingatha semitha ukusuka kuye, zijolise kakuhle ngombono;
- ukuba into isezandleni zakhe, omncinane ngokukhawuleza uyayithandayo;
- Uphulaphula ngokucophelela izandi, sele ehlula kakuhle amagama abantu abasondeleyo;
- uqala "ukuhamba" - ukukhupha izandi zevolumu ezide, "ukucula": ah, oh-oh-oh, u-u-u;
- ukukhala, umntwana sele esele ezama ukuthetha into ethile, ukuba azise abazali bakhe ukuba ushushu okanye ubanda, unxilise okanye awukhathazi, ndifuna ukutya, njl njl.
I-regimen yosuku lomntwana kwiinyanga ezimbini
Kwiinyanga ezi-2 umntwana usoloko elele ubuthongo nokuvuka. Kulo nyaka, abantwana balala iiyure ezili-16 ukuya kwimihla (kodwa, kwakhona, eli nani lingatshintsha). Ixesha lovuko lwemihla liphela ukusuka kumzuzu engama-30 ukuya kwii-1.5 iiyure. Ubomi bonke bomntwana ngoku udibene nokutya kwakhe.
Ukutya komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-2 ngokuthe ngcembe kufaka umkhondo walo. Ukuba oku kunondlo lwendalo, umama uvelisa ubisi oluninzi njengoko umntwana wakhe angadla. Le nkqubo inokumanyanisa ukusondela kwiinyanga ezintathu. Kubantwana ngokusondeza ngokufanelekileyo kunokutya okunzima, kuba umxube kufuneka unikezwe ngexesha elithile. Iintsana ezineminyaka emibili zidla malunga ne-120 amagremu ebisi yobisi ngokusondeza, isantya se-800 g sine-7-8 yesondlo esisodwa.
Udlala njani nomntwana oneminyaka emibili ubudala?
Ukuziphatha okusebenzayo komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-2 kubandakanya ukugcina imidlalo yokuphuhlisa kunye neeklasi kunye naye. Kule minyaka, abantwana banomdla ekubukeni izinto ezikhanyayo, ekhangele ubuso babantu abasondeleyo, imeko ekwigumbi, imihlaba eguqukayo ejikelezayo ngasecaleni lomqhubi. Khetha imidlalo yakho yemigqomo ejolise ekuphuhlisweni kwezinto eziphicothiweyo, ezibonakalayo, ezithungileyo kunye nezomsebenzi. Imizekelo yendlela yokukhulisa umntwana kwiinyanga ezi-2, inokusebenza njengamacandelo alandelayo.
- Yibani isikhalazo esicacileyo phezu kwesikhala okanye umqhubi. Baya kuvuselela umnqweno womntwana wokufikelela izinto ezithakazelisayo kuye.
- Thatha intsimbi encinci, yiphononise ngentambo kwaye uyiqhube phambili nakwezinye
umgama ukusuka kwamehlo omntwana. Ekuqaleni, ungambonisi insimbi: umntwana uya kuphulaphula isandi esitsha, kwaye uya kubona umthombo wayo. Ngale ndlela ku luncedo ukuqeqesha abantwana kwisikolo soqhelwano olusisiseko ukuze bafunde ukujonga ukusuka ngaphesheya umthombo wesandi. - Xa umntwana eqala ukwenza izandi, ziphinda aze azive, aze amhubele iingoma, tshela iivesi. Olu luphuhliso oluhle lomlinganiselo weengqungquthela.
- Thatha umntwana ezandleni zakhe kwaye uhambe naye ejikeleze indlu, ubonise izinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye ubize. Ngoko uya kufunda ukudibanisa amagama akho noko akubonayo.