Ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana beminyaka yobudala

Oomama abaninzi banomdla kwiindlela zokuphuhlisa iintsana kwaye bazame ukuzisebenzisa kubantwana babo. Kule nqanaba, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba uphuhliso lwezingane zasenkulisa lunempawu zalo, okufuneka ziqwalaselwe kwinkqubo yokukhulisa imvumba. Kubantwana abavela kwiminyaka emi-3 kuya kwe-6 ukuya kwe-7 ukuya ku-7 ubudala, uqeqesho lufanele lusekelwe kwiindlela zokudlala, eziza kwenza abantwana bakwazi ukufumana ulwazi oluyimfuneko.

Ukuphuhlisa ngokomzwelo abantwana basenkulanga

Ikhono lokuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye kunye nokuzithetha ngokwabo kubalulekile kumntu opheleleyo. Xa uneminyaka engama-4 ukuya ku-5 umntwana ufunda ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe ngoncedo lwezenzo, imibono. Udala iimvakalelo ezinzima, umzekelo, umona.

Ukuvela kwenceba, oko kukuthi, ukukwazi ukuvalelwa, kuyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo yabantwana basenkulanga. Ukunceda umntwana afunde ukuqonda nokulawula iimvakalelo, unokugcina ezi zilandelayo:

• ukunxibelelana rhoqo kunye noontanga, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba bobabini kunye nabadlali beqela;
• ukufunda iifayile zenza ukuba kube lula ukuqeqesha indlela abanye abavakalelwa ngayo, kuba kaninzi abantwana bayazicingela kwiindawo zamaqhawe, bakhathazeke ngabalinganiswa, baziva iimvakalelo zabo;
• ukuphulaphula umculo;
• Imidlalo yokudlala ibali ifundiswa ukuba ingqalelo imeko, isimo sengqondo, umbono kunye nomnqweno wabanye abantu;
• Kubalulekile ukunyamekela umsebenzi ovumela umntwana ukuba abe nemiva ehambelana nomphumo wezenzo zakhe.

Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kwezingane zasesikolweni

Abantwana kweli nqanaba banokuphucula ngamandla intetho, ukuva, ukuphucula ukujonga umbala kunye nomlo. Enye yeenkqubo eziphambili zolwazi lwehlabathi elijikelezayo ngumbono.

Kufuneka kwakhona ukunyamekela ukuphuhliswa kwesigama sobantwana kunye nokukwazi ukuvakalisa iingcamango zomntu. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba abantwana abasesikolweni bawakhumbule kakuhle kungekhona amagama kuphela, kodwa kunye nezivakalisi, izivakalisi. Kodwa ngelixa le nto iyenzeka ngokukhawuleza kwaye yabulela ekuqeqesheni okungaqinisekanga kunye neeklasi, ukukhumbula ngeenjongo.

Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yabantwana basenkulanga basebenzisa imisebenzi eyahlukileyo, kodwa kungcono ukukhetha umdlalo. Kwinkqubo yakhe, umntwana uya kufunda ukulolonga imeko, ukucwangcisa izenzo, nokulawula. Musa ukulibala malunga nokuphanga izinto ezifana nokumisela, ukudweba.

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