Ngelishwa, ulwalamano phakathi kwabazali kunye nabantwana aluhlali lukhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba abazali-abafanelwe okanye abangafanelanga-banqatshelwe amalungelo omzali. Kule nqaku asiyi kufumana izizathu zokubangela ukuba iinkonzo zikawonkewonke zenze oku, kodwa qwalasela iingongoma eziphambili zokubuyiselwa kwamalungelo omzali.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubuyisela amalungelo omzali?
Abazali abanamalungelo abo omthetho banamathuba onke okubuyisela umntwana ekunyamekeleni kwabo. Oku kunokwenziwa ukuba ukuziphatha kunye nendlela yokuphila yatshintshile ukuba ibe bhetele (umzekelo, umntu uye waphila ngokupheleleyo kwi-alcoholism engapheliyo, wayenomsebenzi osisigxina, njl.), Kwaye kwakhona ukuba bahlaziye izimvo zabo ekukhulisweni komntwana. Kwinkqubo esemgangathweni, ukubuyiselwa kwamalungelo omzali kwenziwa ngenkundla eyenza isigqibo esichaphazelekayo okanye esingalunganga ngokuhambelana neminqweno yentsana.
Ukubuyiselwa kwamalungelo omzali akunakwenzeka kuphela ukuba:
- abazali (okanye omnye wabo) abanako ukubonisa ukuba batshintshile kwaye banokuthenjwa ngokugcinwa komntwana;
- umntwana wamkelwa ngaphambili;
- Yena ngokwakhe ufuna ukuhlala nabazali bakhe kwakhona;
- umntwana sele sele eneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala, kwaye ngexesha leseshoni yenkundla wayeka ukuba ngumntwana.
Ixesha lokubuyiselwa kwamalungelo omzali
Umthetho awuyikulawula imithetho efanelekileyo yokubuyiselwa kwamalungelo omzali. Umntu onqatshelwe amalungelo omzali akakwazi ukuguqula ubusuku - oku kuthatha ixesha. Ngoko ke, izicelo ezithunyelwe ngaphaya kweenyanga ezintandathu emva kokuba umntwana ethatyathwe kubazali, inkundla ayinelisekile. Ngethuba elinikezelwa kubazali ukulungiswa, unokwenza okuninzi - kungumdla wakho, ukuba uyazisola okwenzekayo kwaye ufuna umntwana aphile kwintsapho epheleleyo kunye nonina noyise.
Kwimeko yesigqibo senkundla esiphumeleleyo, ibango lesibini lokubuyisela kumalungelo omzali linokufakwa kuphela emva komnyaka weseshoni yokugqibela yenkundla.
Amaphepha adingekayo ekubuyiselweni kwamalungelo omzali
Ukuze babuyisele umntwana wabo, abazali kufuneka benze amabango amabini - ngokubuyiselwa kwamalungelo omzali kunye nokubuya komntwana kwintsapho yangaphambili. Zifanele zihanjiswe kwisiko apho umntwana ngoku (nantanethi) okanye kumntu onogada wakhe osemthethweni. INkundla inokuqwalasela zombini le mabango ngexesha elifanayo. Kwimeko yezigqibo ezibini, abazali baphinde bangene kumalungelo abo omthetho, kwaye umntwana ubuyela ekuhlaleni nabo. Nangona kunjalo, inkundla inokwanelisayo kunye nenqaku elilodwa lebango lokubuyiselwa kwamalungelo omzali, kwaye ke abazali bafumana ilungelo lokubona rhoqo umntwana ohlala ehlala nomgcini okanye kwintandane.
Uncedo lokuqokelela amaxwebhu ngokuqhelekileyo ligunya lokugcinwa kwindawo yokuhlala. Ummeli wabo kufuneka anike uluhlu lwamaphepha adingekayo okufuneka aqokelelwe, aze afakwe kwi-statement yesibango. Nalu uluhlu olubonisa lo maphepha:
- irhafu yokuhlawulwa kwemisebenzi karhulumente (iindleko zomthetho);
- ikopi zeengxelo zamabango (ngokwamanani amaqela);
- Isiqinisekiso esivela kwindawo yomsebenzi womqeshi (okanye enye yazo);
- isatifikethi somvuzo;
- iimpawu ukusuka kwindawo yomsebenzi (positive);
- isitifiketi esivela kwindawo yokuhlala;
- Iimpawu ezisuka kwisigqeba sesigqeba sesigqeba (esilungileyo);
- ikopi yesigqibo senkundla malunga nokunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali;
- ikopi yesatifiketi sokuzalwa somntwana (okanye abantwana);
- izatifikethi zonyango (ukusuka kwiingcali kwi-narcology, isifo sengqondo, kunye nesatifikethi sokuqinisekisa ukuhlalutya okungalunganga kokusuleleka kwe-HIV).