Isimemo somtshato njengendwendwe sidinga ikhowudi ethile yokugqoka kunye nengubo efanelekileyo yamantombazana. Kubalulekile ukujonga okufanelekileyo, enhle kwaye ngexesha elifanayo uzive ukhululekile kwindlu yangasese ekhethiweyo.
Ukugqoka umtshato omnandi kwiindwendwe
Ukukhethwa kwengubo efanelekileyo yokundwendwela kuxhomekeke kwiimeko ezininzi. Okokuqala, yimeko yesiganeko kunye nombala womtshato. Ngoko ke, ukuba umenywe kwiqela elikhululekile ngaphandle kwesixeko, eqala ngaphambi kokuba kube mnyama, kuya kulungele ukhetha iingubo zasehlotyeni zomtshato njengendwendwe, eziza kuba nobude obude okanye obufutshane, kunye nobude obulula. Iziganeko ezingaphezulu ezisemthethweni zokugqoka i-cocktail ziza kuhambelana, kwaye ukuba abatsha abatshatileyo baceba ukwenza ukwamkela ngokwenene loluntu, ngoko awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwengubo ephantsi. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuhlonela umnqweno we sibini, ukuba zigqibe umtshato othile kwisihloko esithile okanye ukhetha umbala ophezulu, kwaye ukhethe umbobo kwisitayela esicacisiwe okanye emthunzini. Ngokuqhelekileyo zonke iimfuno ezongezelelweyo zesitayela okanye imibala yeengubo zomtshato weendwendwe ziboniswa kwisibhengezo sokubhiyozela.
Inkalo yesibini ebalulekileyo ekukhetheni ingubo ngumntu ngamnye ntombazana. Ngoko, izambatho zomtshato zeendwendwe ezipheleleyo akufanele zenziwe ngezinto ezibonakalayo ezicacileyo okanye ezikhanyayo, kwaye isitala evulekile nayo ayikho indawo. Iingubo ezigqwesileyo zide kumgangatho kunye nobude obude kunye neengqungquthela ezintle zelinen ehle, enesisindo, esine-matte. Ukukhetha indlu yangasese efanelekileyo, akufanele ugxininise kuphela kwimfashini kule nkwenkwe yokugqoka kwiindwendwe zomtshato, kodwa nokuba yeyiphi inani lentombazana nganye.
Kufuneka kwakhona kuthathelwe ingqalelo ngexesha lonyaka lomtshato owenzekayo. Izambatho zomtshato njengendwendwe ehlobo ziyamkeleka ngeendlela ezivulekileyo kunye neengubo ezimfutshane kunexesha elibandayo.
Ubume bendwendwe emtshatweni kunye nobomi buchaphazela nokukhethwa kwendlu yangasese. Intombazana engatshatanga ingakwazi ukufumana ingubo egqityiweyo kunokuba ibhinqa elidala okanye sele selitshatile intombi. Kulabo abonakala kwimibhiyozo kunye nesibini, kungcono ukucinga ngomfanekiso oqhelekileyo ukuze ukhangele ngokuvisisanayo. Ukuba kumtshato owanikwayo ungumhambeli olula, ukhetho lwendlu yangasese luhlala luphelele kwimida yesinqweno kunye nesifiso sakho, kodwa ukuba uhloniphekile ukuba ube ngufakazi okanye umfazi, kufuneka uphulaphule umbono wakhe ngokubonakala kwakho. Kungcono ukuhambelana nombhinqo womtshato kuya kuba ngengubo yokuhlwa ebusuku.
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Ukuyeka ukugqoka kwiindwendwe zomtshato
Kukho iintlobo ezinamafestile ezinokufakela iimpahla ezifanele ukukukhusela ekuthengeni nangengubo enhle kakhulu kumtshato weendwendwe. Engafanelekanga kule mhiyozo ngumnqweno wokuphelisa umtshakazi, ngoko ke ukuvinjelwa kwemfashini yeengubo zohlobo zonke ezimhlophe ezimiselweyo (ukuba imbobo yomtshato iyahlukana nayo yonke imifanekiso), kunye neendlela ezikhethiweyo (ikakhulukazi ukuba uyazi ukuba umtshakazi ukhetha isitayela esincinane kwaye ukhetha ingubo ngaphandle kwezinto ezininzi zobungcweti). Kwakhona, kuthathwa njengento engathandekiyo ukuba nombala omnyama emtshatweni, kodwa kuphela xa kungengombuzo weso siganeko senhlalakahle kunye nomgaqo wokugqoka omnyama.
Ukugqoka kwakho njengendwendwe akufanele kube yinto evulekileyo okanye evulekileyo, nangona ukucoca kuvunyelwe, ukubophelela esifubeni okanye emva, iipketi ezimfutshane, kodwa kungekhona zonke kanye. Kukho nawuphi na, impahla yomtshato kufuneka ibonakale ilula kwaye ihle kakhulu kunezindlu zangasese zebhulaki ebusuku. Ukuba umthendeleko uqala emini, ngoko kukufanelekile ukushiya imizekelo ehlotshiswe nge-paillette okanye ezininzi izinto ezikhanyayo.
Kwakhona kubonwa ngokungalunganga ukungawuthobeli ngokupheleleyo ikhowudi yokugqoka, ukuba ibonisiwe kwisimemo, kodwa akudingekile ukuba uchithe imali eninzi yokuthenga impahla efanelekileyo, kwanele ukongeza indlu yangasese enezixhobo ezifanelekileyo, kwaye ingubo iya kudlala ngendlela entsha.
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