Ukugqiba iziqu ezivela kwintombi okanye kwindodana enjalo iholide enomdla kunye nefuthe! Ngokuqhelekileyo, luhlobo luni lomama aluyi kulila xa ekhangele umntwana wakhe kwisiteji ukuze athole isatifiketi sakhe sematriki, esibonisa ukuba umntwana usuphelile kwaye impilo yabantu abadala iqala. Ukulungiselela lo mhla kuthatha phantse unyaka. Kakade, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuthenga okanye ukuthunga ingubo eyenziwe yinkwenkwe yomntwana, kodwa ungayikhohlwa ngawe kwaye uthabathe ingubo enomdla kwiqela lokugqiba iziqu kumama wakho. Emva kwakho konke, uhlolisise umsebenzi wesikolo ebusuku, waya kwiintlanganiso zabazali, udibanise phambi kootitshala kwaye uhlakulele (okanye udumise) kumanqaku. Kwaye ngoku unelungelo lokuziqhayisa ngomntwana wakho kule holide.
Ngokwemvelo, musa ukulibala ukuba eli liholide kubafundi besikolo, kwaye wena umthunzi kuphela ubuhle kunye nentsha yobutsha, ngoko ungakhethi ukugqoka umama ngokugqithiseleyo, oza kubamba isohlo. Ugqoke umama kufuneka abe ngowokuqala, enhle, enhle, enhle, ethobekileyo.
Unokukhetha njani ingubo kumama wesiqinisekiso okanye ophumeleleyo?
- Okokuqala, kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba le yeholide yomntwana wakho kwaye akufanele ukhethe iingubo eziqaqambileyo. Nangona unomfanekiso omhle, ukhetha iingubo kumama wakho kwintombi okanye unyana wakho, udinga iifayile eziphambili kunye nemibala. Inokuthi ibe ngetoni okanye idibeneyo, ukwenzela ukuba iintsapho zentsapho zikhangeleke.
- Ungakhethi ukutywa kwentsha. Ingakumbi ixhala ngeengubo zomama wesigidi. Ngoko ukhangeleka njengentombi engaphezulu kwindodana yakho, kodwa ingathi umama owakhulisa umntwana ohlakaniphile.
- Izambatho ezintle kunye neebhatyi okanye i- bolero , ezingenayo evulekile kwaye ngaphandle kokutyunjwa, kuya kuhambelana ngokupheleleyo. Ukugqweswa iziqu iholide apho kufanelekile ukubonisa ukuba unina womntwana omdala kwaye kufuneka ugqoke ngokwemeko yakho.
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