Kukhangeleka ukuba ngexesha lethu, iingxaki zesondo zesondo zesibini, izibini ezithandana nomfazi, kunye nabantu abazichazelayo kunye nabasetyhini nabo bonke bavavanyayo kwaye bafundiswa yizinzulu. Kodwa kukho enye imbonakalo engabonakaliyo yenkanuko yesondo, okanye kunoko, ukungabikho kobuhlanga ". Ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nokuqwalaselwa kombuzo wobuhlanga, kuyimfuneko ukubonakalisa intsingiselo yale ngcamango. Ubundlobongela bubuninzi bokukhwabelana ngesondo kwabanye abantu abadala. Izazinzulu zaseUnited States zifunde le ngxaki ukususela kuma-1950. Namhlanje kuyaziwa ukuba i-asexuals ayinayo impazamo ekuphuculeni ngokomzimba, ababanomdla kwisini.
Vavanyo lwezesini
Ukuba unakho ukungathandabuzeki malunga nokukhetha kwakho ngokwesondo okanye okokuthandana naye, uya kuhanjiswa nge-mini test of 8 imibuzo elula, uphendule kuyo uza kukwazi ukuba ufuna ukuba uzikhanyele wena okanye wakho othandekayo kwi-asexuality. Imibuzo elandelayo kufuneka iphendulwe ngokuthi "ewe" okanye "hayi", "akakho".
- Ngaba isondo malunga nawe "uhlobo oluthile"?
- Ngaba ufuna, ngezikhathi ezithile, ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo ngezidingo zakho?
- Ngaba ucinga ukuba ubudlelwane obugcwele phakathi kobambiswano lunokwenzeka kuphela xa kukho ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo?
- Ngaba uye wafumana, xa kwakungekho umnqweno wokuqonda iqabane lakho, ukudibana kunye nalo?
- Ngaba ukuphela kobomi obusondeleyo kukudibanisa?
- Ubudlelwane bezocansi, le nto ibalulekileyo kwaye iyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yobudlelwane "bokunene" phakathi kwamaqabane?
- Ngaba udla ngokuba nempembelelo enomdla kumntu onesihe kuwe?
- Ngaba kukho ukuphazamiseka kwiimeko zomzimba nezengqondo ngenxa yokungabikho kwesondo ixesha elide?
Ukuba kukho yonke imibuzo emi-2 ukuya kweyesi-8, impendulo yakho yayingu "hayi" okanye "ayikho", ngoko kufuneka ucinge ngento ebangela le meko. Impendulo yombuzo wenombolo 1 ingabonisa indlela ukukhuliswa kwakho malunga nobomi besondo kubangelwa kukukhuliswa. Ukuba impendulo yakho ibe ngu "ewe" ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ubuxhakaxhaka obukhoyo bunxulumene nesithintelo sengqondo kumsebenzi owenziwe ngokwesondo owavela ngenxa ye "Soviet growth".
Ubundlobongela obufanayo - obubangela unyango
Njengoko sele sele saziwa, ama-asexuals ngabantu abangayenanga ngamabomu ukulala ngesondo, kodwa abazange bafumane nayiphi na inqabileyo yesondo. I-sexologists enqabile ukuqwalasela i-asexual nature, nangona into yokuba ukuvela kwayo kungabangelwa yimiphumo yengqondo yangempela. Intombazana ingaba ilungu le-asexual kuluntu emva kokudlwengulwa okanye lubuhlungu kakhulu ukungabi nobuntombi. Indoda ingajika ibe yintlukwano emva kokuqala kokudumala ngesondo.
Ukususela kwimbono yomzimba, isondo ngumzimba wokuzihlaziya okwenyama wezitho zeplavic, kwaye ukungabikho kwithuba elide kukhokelela kwinkqubo eqhubekayo, enefuthe elibi kakhulu kwimpilo yabasetyhini.
Ukusuka kwimbono yengqondo, ukunganeliseki kokwaneliseka ngokwesondo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukukhululwa kwe-hormone yolonwabo kwigazi, kukhokelela ekutshintsheni kwiipropati zesistim. Kule nxu lumano yokuba oomama abanokuhlala ixesha elide be-orgasm baba neentloni kunye ne-whiny.
Ukunyangwa kwesi sigulo kuxhomekeke ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ngaba i-asexual ngokwayo ihlangabezana nantoni na into engeyiyo into edibeneyo kunye neembono zayo ngesondo. Ukuba akukho zinkinga eziphakamileyo kunye nobomi bakho buzelekile kwaye ngaphandle kwesondo, ngoko ugqirha akadingeki ukuba aqhagamshelane nonke. Kwimeko apho unganeliseki ukuba ubekwe kweli gangatho, kodwa awukwazi ukunqoba ukucinga kwakho, kufuneka uguqulele kwisazi sezengqondo okanye ngesondo.