Iholide yoBathathu Emnye iyathandwa ngabantu baseRashiya, kuba ngaloo mini imikhosi kunye nemicimbi eyahlukeneyo, eyayisisiseko sobuhedeni, yavunyelwa ngokomthetho. Imibhiyozo yenkolo ivame ukugubha phakathi koJuni-kuya kufuneka ibe yinto eyiyo, ngoko ngomhla wama-50 emva kweCawa ye-Easter yeBright. Emva koko, ngokunikezela kweBhayibhile, kwakungoku ngeli xesha uMama kaThixo kunye nabafundi bakaKristu abahlangananga ukukhumbula kwakhe. Kwaye isibonakaliso sokuba iimfuno zabo azizange zibonwe ngumoya kaBathathu Emnye - umoya ongcwele wehla ezulwini.
Kwizithethe zobuhedeni, iintsuku ezi-7 ngaphambi komthendeleko, iiveki ezidibeneyo kunye nemithi yeKrismesi eluhlaza. Kwakukholelwa ukuba le mihla emhlabathini evela kwiindawo zokuhlala ziza kudibanisa - abafazi abaxhamliweyo, ukudibana nabantu abaphilileyo abangafuni. Ngoko ke, uZiqu-zintathu akazange ahambe ehlathini ngomnye, kuphela kwisihlwele. Kwiingqingo ze-birch, amantombazana angatshatanga, aphefumula iintsimbi, aqikelele kwaye aholele imidaniso ejikelezayo, ngokukhethekileyo athande ukuchitha ixesha lokuzonwabisa. Abafazi besizukulwana esidala babezibandakanya ukuhlobisa indlu ngamagatsha aluhlaza, iindawo zokubhaka ezityiweyo kunye ne-anyanisi eluhlaza. Kwaye ngeli xesha kwakukho isiko lokuhlawula umfi. Kwaye nangona le nkcubeko yasendulo ikhuthazwa yiCawa kuze kube yimini, kungekhona onke amakholwa azi kakuhle ukuba ngubani okhunjulwa kuBathathu Emnye kunye nendlela yokwenza.
Ngubani okhunjulwa ngeSabatha ngaphambi koBathathu Emnye?
Okokuqala, kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba usuku oluyinhloko lokukhunjulwa kwakungekho ngeCawa yeZiqu zintathu, kodwa uMgqibelo ongaphambili, owabizwa ngokuba ngumzali. Kwakuloo mini ukuba sifanele sihanjiswe ngamangcwaba ohlobo lwabafileyo, ubeke umyalelo kubo, ufunde imithandazo. Kwakudingeka ukuthobela imithetho ethile:
- khumbula injongo yokutyelela amangcwaba - akusiyo imicimbi yokuzonwabisa, kungekhona isiganeko sokuhlangana kunye nabahlobo kunye neengxoxo zehlabathi, isibheno kwimemori yezizalwane, kubalulekile ukubonisa intlonelo, ukuziphatha emangcwabeni ngokucokisekileyo nangokucokisekileyo;
- Akukho mfuneko ekufuneka ivelise utshwala, ukutya akukhuthazwa ukuba kusetyenziswe, kufuneka kushiywe engcwabeni, kuvumelekile ukuba ushiye iintyatyambo eziphilayo okanye ezenzekelayo, ii-birch;
- Kucetyiswa ukuthandaza emangcwabeni, ukuphendukela kuThixo kunye nalo mthandazo ukucela inceba kubathandekayo bakho;
- Kuyafaneleka ukubuyisela umyalelo kumangcwaba - ukulahla izityalo ezomileyo, udoti, ukulungisa izikhumbuzo kunye nezicingo, usule i-gravestone ngothuli, njl.
Ukuba wenze konke ngokufanelekileyo, ngoko ubabalo luya kufika kuwe, uya kuziva uzilile kwaye unelisekile.
Kwimibuzo yokuba ngubani okhunjulwa ngoMgqibelo wabazali ngaphambi koBathathu Emnye , icawa inika impendulo elandelayo: bonke abantu abasondeleyo kuwe, nabo abo ungazange udibanise negazi. Kodwa okokuqala, kukunika abazali, ootatomkhulu kunye nabanye ookhokho.
Ngaba umfi ukhumbula uZiqu zintathu?
Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuya emangcwabeni kwiSonto elinesibini. Icawa ayithandi. Kukholelwa ukuba lo mhla uphila, kubhiyozela ukunqoba kobomi, ubuninzi kunye namandla, ngoko ke isibheno kwihlabathi labafileyo sinokuphela
Indlela yokukhumbula ukuzibulala kuBathathu Emnye?
Abo bafa bebodwa, icawa inqabela ukukhumbuza ngokwahlukileyo, nokuba kuZiqu zintathu. Bakwazi ukukhankanywa emva kokuthandaza ebandleni kwiZiqu zintathu, kodwa sele sele bewela umda kwaye baphuma waya kwitalato, okanye ekhaya. Thandaze kubo ebandleni, beka amakhandlela uze ucele inceba, iidonon zenkolo azivumeli.