Ndingabetha njani ubuvila?

Wonke umntu ubhekene nesimo esinjalo njengobuvila. Ngoko ke, umbuzo wendlela yokunqoba ubuvila kunye nokunganakwa kungekudala uye wathandwa kakhulu.

Ngaba uvavanyo lwakho luvila?

Okokuqala, makhe sibone ukuba lithetha ntoni eli gama. Isichazamazwi se-Ozhegov sinika incazelo elandelayo: "ubuvila ukungabikho komnqweno wokusebenza, ukusebenza."

Iingcali zentsimi yeengqondo zineendawo ezininzi malunga nobuvila:

1. Umntu akanaso isizathu.
2. Le yimiphumo yomzimba okanye ukukhathala kwengqondo.
3. Le yipropati yomzimba womntu, enceda umntu ukuba azisindise kwimithwalo engeyomfuneko.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukukwazi ukuzitshintsha ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ulungelelanise umkhiqizo wabasebenzi. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba uvimba ingqondo yakho engqondweni, enethemba lokuba akukho nto iya kutshintsha ekusebenzeni umsebenzi, ngoko umnqweno wokunceda uluntu kwaye awuyi kuvela.

Ugqirha, kodwa andiyi kufa?

Ndizisola kakhulu, imimangaliso - iipilisi ezibuvila azikho. Senza ingqwalasela kwinto yokuba umzabalazo oqinileyo kunye nokubonakaliswa kobuvila kunokuphazamisa ukulinganiswa kwemvakalelo, kuba abantu abaninzi ngenxa yoko abanako ukuzinqoba kwaye ngenxa yoko bayadumala kwaye ukuzithemba kwabo kuncitshiswa. Unokuzuza njani ubuqili emva kwakho konke?

Ngomso kuya kuba ngcono kunezolo

Zingaphi izihlandlo ozithembisayo ukuba ngomso yonke into iya kutshintsha? Okanye ngoMsombuluko uyeka ukutshaya, uhamba ngokutya, uqala ukufunda iincwadi ... kukho umyalelo omnye-lo Mvulo awunakwenzeka ukuza. Ngoko ngoku uya kugqiba ukufunda le nqaku uze uqale ukwenza izinto ezincedo oceba ukuzenza kusasa malunga nonyaka. Ngaba ithathaka? Ubuvila kwakhona buyaphumelela? Kukho icebiso elincinci ngendlela onokuyenza ngayo ukunqoba ubuqili nokunganakwa: indlela "ye-karoti" - oko kukuthi, ngenxa yokuncincika kweentshaba, zizuze kwaye zikhangele iinjongo ezifanelekileyo.

Wonke umntu ngumdali wekamva lakhe

Ngaba wakha waphawula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ulahlekelwa njani ixesha lakho ngeze? Cinga ngeziphumo ezibi kakhulu zobuvila: ukungabikho kwemali, izifo zomzimba nomphefumlo, ubusuku obuchitha bodwa - kwaye konke lokhu ngenxa YOKUSEBENZA ... kwaye, ulungele ukutshintsha ubomi bakho ngoku. Kodwa kukho ezinye izinto: intanethi, intetho yomnxeba nomhlobo ngeyure nesiqingatha. Kwaye ixesha liya phambili ngokungenakuxhomekeka ... ngaba uhlala uphila kwaye uchitha ubomi bakho ngokungazi kakuhle?

Inani liyaqhubeka

Enye incwadi, iingcebiso zichazwe kakuhle ukuba zinokuthi zinqobe ubuvila. Ukuba uhlala usebenzisa ezi ndlela ngokusebenza, oko kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba usebenze ngokusemandleni.

1. Ubuvila kukutshaba kwakho, kwaye kufuneka ulwa nalo. Enyanisweni, ukungafuni ukusebenza - yiyo iimvakalelo zakho kunye neengcinga zakho. Konke oku kuxhaswa yizenzo zakho, imeko kunye nokuziphatha kwabanye. Ukuba utshintshe isimo sengqondo sokubangela izinto, uya kutshabalalisa intshaba.
2. Thatha ingxaki ekujonganeni nommandla wakho, kuba abaninzi abantu bachitha ixesha labo.
3. Imiba yo qoqosho. Ngamanye amaxesha sichaza ubuvila ngenxa yokuba asinayo ixesha lemiba yasekhaya, ngoko ke siyeka izinto ezibalulekileyo kunye neengxaki ezizayo. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukubeka phambili kwaye kuqala ukujongana nemibandela enzima kakhulu, kwaye emva koko ujika kwiimeko ezincinci.
4. Ubomi luhamba. Yiba nenxaxheba kwisithethe senyama. Emva kwakho konke, xa kungekho mithwalo, umzimba wakho awukwazi ukujamelana nesingqungquthela sobomi, ungakwazi ukufumana isifo sesifo esingapheliyo. Kwanele ukwenza imisebenzi yonke imihla kwaye uya kuhamba rhoqo.

I-scandals, intrgues, uphando ...

Ukongeza kwimisebenzi yomzimba, umzimba wakho udinga umthwalo wemvakalelo. Umntu ngamnye ufuna iimvakalelo ezivela kuyo yonke into: ukucaphukisa kunye nenzondo kunye nolonwabo. Emva koko ingqondo yakho iza kusebenza kwaye umsebenzi uya kwanda. Iimvakalelo zidibene kunye neengcinga zethu, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukulawula ukuphazamiseka kwemvakalelo yakho.

Ukuguquka ... ingqondo

Ngokumangalisayo, kodwa ingxaki enkulu namhlanje kukuba ukungabikho kwemithwalo yengqondo. Kwaye, njengam, entloko yam iqela lazo zonke iinyani, izibalo, iingxabano, ingqondo iqhuba inani elingenakubalwa kolwazi ngemini, kodwa akuzona zonke izisa iinzuzo ezithile. Sisetyenziswe ukuba i-Intanethi iyakwazi konke, oko kuthetha ukuba ayiyiqondi ukuba iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde ichithe ixesha lokukhangela incwadi efanelekileyo. Nangona ubunzima buncinane bunokusenza sikumangaliswe, ngoko kulula ukuba sisebenzise i-web-wide web. Ngoko-ke enye inqaku: funda ukucinga, ukuthembela kumava akho obomi.

Ngomthwalo ophantsi wengqondo, unokuhlakulela izifo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Imiphumo ingaba kukudandatheka, ukuguga kwasekuqaleni, ukukhubazeka kwememori. Kubalulekile ukufunda indlela yokuhlalutya okwenzekayo kwaye uceba ubomi bakho.