Enyanisweni, oku akuyona nje umkhwa ombi, kodwa unomdla ongasaneliseki. Ungakhathazeki ukuba umntwana usana iminwe ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-4. Kancinci, isidingo sokusondeza umntwana ukuba sikhule ngaphantsi kwaye, ngokusemthethweni, siyaphela ngokupheleleyo kwiinyanga ezi-7-12.
Abazali bahlala bexhalabele ukuba kutheni umntwana wabo athabatha isithupha. Kukho izizathu eziliqela ezichaze le ndlela yokuziphatha yabantwana. Ukuba oku kwenzeka ngaphambi kokutya, umntwana wakho ulambile.
Abantwana, abasemzimbeni wokutya, bavame ukusondeza isithupha . Emva koko, ukuba umntwana uyidla ubisi lwebele, umama umvumela ukuba ahlale ebele xa ufuna. Ngoko umntwana uyanelisa umnqweno wakhe wokuncela. Kodwa umntwana odlayo kwibhotile wenza ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba inkqubo yokutya ihlala ifike kwi-20-30 imizuzu. Ukuze umntwana aphuze ngokukhawuleza kwibhotile, kucetyiswa ukuba wenze izimbobo ezincinci kwiinkipi.
Emva kokuba siqwalasele ukuba kutheni umntwana usondeza impova, saqiniseka ukuba akunzima ukusombulula le ngxaki. Kodwa umdala osemdala, umkhwa wokutshiza umunwe usenokuba yinto ebangela ukukhathazeka ngabazali.
Kutheni umntwana ecela umnwe kwiminyaka emine?
Kwenzeka ukuba umntwana uyaqhubeka esondeza isithupha kuze kube ngu-4, kwaye eneminyaka engama-6. Lo mkhuba unobungozi ngenxa yokuba umntwana unokufumana iingxaki zezinyoko - ukulima okungalunganga, okanye ubunzima bokubhaliweyo kweencwadi, ukulula ulwimi ngolwimi.
Cinga ngoluvo lweengcali zeengqondo, kutheni umntwana oneminyaka engama-4 edla iminwe. Phakathi kwezizathu eziqhelekileyo zezi:
uvakalelo, umntwana akanakho umntu odlala naye okanye ongenakuthandana nomsebenzi othile; - ukuvakalelwa, ukhathazeka; usana ngeli xesha uqala ukunamathela ngomunwe, njengokungathi ukhumbula ukuba waqinisekiswa ngaphambili;
- lichaphazela isantya sokungakhangeli kwengane.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, izazi zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zingayinaki umntwana oqhubeka ephuza umnwe. Abazali kufuneka babe nesineke baze babonise uthando lwabo lomntwana, ububele. Ungamvumeli ukuba anamnwe ngomunwe wakhe, aze amphazamise kule mkhuba wokuzonwabisa imidlalo, enze ubomi bakhe bube buhluke ngakumbi kwaye lunomdla.