Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba abafazi abakhulelweyo bangene ecaweni - imbono yefundisi?
Kanye kwimihla yakudala, xa ibhinqa elindelwe umntwana lingazange likhishwe endlwini, ngoko ke, engazange i-jinxed, yena, phakathi kwezinye izinto, akazange avunyelwe ukutyelela icawa. Kodwa loo maxesha sele adlulile, kwaye abefundisi bacaphukile xa beva imibuzo enjalo-ngaba kungenzeka ukuya ecaweni kubafazi abakhulelweyo.
Inyaniso kukuba ngokutsho kweBhayibhile, umzimba unikezwa ngumzali ngabazali bakhe, kwaye umphefumlo unikwa nguThixo. Kwaye akubonakali ngexesha lokuzalwa komntu omncinci kwihlabathi lethu, kodwa unikezwa nguSomandla sele sele ekhulelwe. Ngaba ngokwenene uya kunqanda ukuba unina ophethe umntwana esibelethweni sakhe akafiki kwindawo yakhe yokuhlala, ukuze amthandazele emithandazweni, acele ukukhuselwa kunye nokuncedwa.
Ixesha kuphela xa umfazi engakwazi ukuwela umda wecawa emva kokuzalwa kweentsuku ezingama-40, kwaye lonke ixesha elihlambulukileyo phambi kweNkosi kwaye angaya enkonzweni kwaye enze zonke iisamente zecawa.
Kutheni kufuneka umfazi atyelele icawa ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Ukuba umama ozayo ucinezelekile ngokungathandabuzeki, ukwesaba ubomi kunye nempilo yengane yakhe, uhlangabezana nendlela yokubeleka kuza kudlulayo, ngoko ke indlela efanelekileyo yokuthula kwengqondo kukuya kumbingeleli ukuze avume kwaye ufumane ukudibana.
Kwakhona, ukuba impilo ivumela, unokukhusela inkonzo ngeCawa nakwiiholide ezinkulu, nangona kungabikho bonke abazalwana abakhulelweyo abakwaziyo ukukwenza-ukuvumba kweqhumiso, ukudibanisa kwabantu kunye negumbi elincinci kunokubangela ukuba i-giddiness okanye ukulahleka kwengqondo, ngoko uye ecaweni ukuba .
Cela iintsikelelo zokubeletha kwaye uthandaze phambi kokuba uphawu lwezempilo lwemntwana luqiniseke. Ngenxa yoko, kukho ubuso babangcwele, abafazi abanomntwana sele bebanjwe ngentliziyo.
Ngaba ndinokuba ngu-godfather ndize nditshatile?
Ngoku kwacaca ukuba abafazi abakhulelweyo banokutyelela ibandla, kodwa nokuba kunokwenzeka ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisakramente yobhaptizo kunye nemitshato yinto ehlukile. Ukuba ibhinqa linamandla okwaneleyo ekubanjeni ngexesha lesithethe somntwana onzima, ngoko akuvumelekanga ukuthatha unina.
Kwaye ukutshata isibini esilindele umntwana-ngakumbi ukushishina, nakuba umntwana, ekuthiwa, wakhulelwa esonweni, akukaze kufike ixesha lokuba afundise abazali bakhe endleleni eyinyani, kunye nokugcina umphefumlo wakhe obuthakathaka.