Usuku lokuzalwa luyimini ekhethekileyo ebomini bomntu onamandla akhethekileyo. Kukho imithandazo eyahlukeneyo kunye neqhinga lokuzalwa kwabo, okuya kunceda ukuzalisekisa umnqweno onqwenelekayo, ukutsala inhlanhla, ukuphucula imeko yakho yempahla uze ufumane uthando lwakho. Iimfundiso zenziwe zingenakwenziwa nakweminye imini, kuba akusayi kubakho mphumo.
Cwangcisa umhla wokuzalwa ngobutyebi
Umhla wokuzalwa yithuba elifanelekileyo lokuphucula imeko yakho yezemali. Ixesha elifanelekileyo lomcimbi lixesha lokuzalwa, elibhaliswe kumaxwebhu. Ukuba eli xesha lingaziwa, ngoko kufanelekile ukuthatha, ubuncinane ixesha elikufutshane. Ngaphambi kokuba ulungiselele, lungiselela ikhandlela ezintathu ze-wax ezithambileyo ukuze zenzeke lula kwaye zingaphuli. Kule meko, amakhandlela ecawa akufanele asetyenziswe. Ukongezelela, kufuneka uthabathe isitrato kunye ne-saucer emhlophe ngaphandle kwendlela. Ukuqala isithethe esilandelayo kwigumbi lakhe yedwa. Gubungela itafile ngeetafile uze ufake i-saucer phezulu. Yima etafileni ibhekene empuma. Cinga indlela imali ehamba ngayo umlambo kwaye unamathela ezandleni zakho. Thatha ikhandlela uze uzibambe ixesha elifutshane kufuphi nesifuba sakho, ukuze zifudumale, zize zenzeke ndawonye. Khanyisa ikhandlela, zibeke phakathi kwiplani kwaye ufunde isalathiso okwesibini ngemali ngomhla wokuzalwa:
Nkosi, uThixo wam, ndinike insikelelo yakho. Yiza ngesango le-oki, edibeneyo etafileni yam, ehlanganiswe ngethekeza. Amakhandlela ayingcwalise ukuba ndizise, yebo uthuli lubekwe, kunye ne-tube sibling. Inyanga yezobusuku ihamba ngokukhawuleza esibhakabhakeni, ulonwabo luya kumngena endlwini. Ukususela kwinkulungwane ukuya kwinkulungwane, amazwi ami aya kuba ngonaphakade! "
Kubalulekile ukufunda isalathisi ngaphandle kokungabaza. Amakhandlela ashiye ngokupheleleyo, ngelixa kulungele ukuzithoba rhoqo njengendoda ecebileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ngexesha lokoqobo, akukho mntu ungena kwigumbi kwaye akukho nto iphazamisayo. I-Saucer kunye neetafile zimele zifihlwe kwaye zisetyenziswe kuphela ngosuku lokuzalwa olulandelayo.
Cwangcisa usuku lokuzalwa ngothando
Amantombazana amaninzi athabileyo asebenzisa umlingo wokuthanda ukufumana indoda ayithandayo, ngoko ke le mihla ingavunyelwe ukuba yenziwe ngomhla wokuzalwa. Ukuze udibane nomntu ofanelekileyo, unokuqhuba isiko, okumele kuqalwe phakathi kobusuku bonke bodwa. Kubalulekile ukukhanyisa ikhandlela lepinki okanye umbala omhlophe kwaye, ukhangele ilangatye, qalisa ukujonga umntu wakho othe tye. Kubalulekile ukuba umfanekiso ucacile ngokunokwenzeka ngeenkcukacha ezincinci. Emva koko, thatha iphepha elibomvu okanye elipinki kunye nepeni. Bhala zonke iimpawu zobuntu kunye nokubonakala kwendoda efanelekileyo. Phinda uhlaziye uluhlu, kwaye emva koko. Khanyisa iphepha kwikhandlela uze ulifake kwisixhobo esinomlilo. Ngethuba lexesha iphepha elivuthayo, funda le njongo ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa:
"Uthando ulinde, uthando luya kuza, uthando ludibana, uthando luyalinda. Yiba njalo! "
Umlotha osileyo kufuneka ugxothwe emoyeni. Sula ikhandlela uze uyigcine kwindawo eyimfihlo. Kunconywa ukulikhanyisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye ucele amaQonga aPhakamileyo ukuba abancede bahlangabezane nesinye isiqingatha.
Isicwangciso kunye nesithethe ngosuku lokuzalwa ekuzalisekeni komnqweno
Ukuba kukho umnqweno onqwenelekayo, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukwandisa amathuba okuzaliseka kwayo ngoncedo lwesithethe esilula, apho kubalulekile ukuthatha amakhandlela ecawa amathathu, amanzi angcwele, iintonga ezimbini ze-cinnamon, i-peppercorns, kunye ne-red clock. Ukuqalisa umcimbi kufuneka ube phakathi kobusuku ngaphambi komhla wokuzalwa. Ukukhanya kokuqala ikhandlela kwaye uthandaze. Emva koko, faka ipea yepilisi kwelinye i-saucer, kunye neesibini ze-sinamoni. Ukujonga ilangatye lekhandlela, yitsho loo njongo:
Umoya omkhulu weNkosi uncedo uya kuzalisekisa umnqweno wam, kuba uBawo waseZulwini unceda abo bacela uncedo. Uncedo luya kufika kum iindlela ezingaziwa, umnqweno wam uya kukhula ngokwenene, uya kufumana iziganeko zokufezekisa. Kuya kuba nguMoya oyiNgcwele unikezwe kumkhonzi kaThixo (igama) into endiyicelayo. Ndiya kucela i-shawl yomnqweno wam, ndiza kumcela kuThixo kwaye ndilinde ukubulawa. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Emva koko usela amanzi amancinci, umnqamlezo uze uthi la magama:
"Ngegama likaYise, loNyana, loMoya oyiNgcwele." USt. Nicholas uMsindisi, Uninzi oyiNgcwele oyiTheotokos, ndikucela. Nceda umkhonzi kaThixo (igama) makenzeke (igama elifunayo). Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Isinyathelo esilandelayo - iipeyi zepilisi zibeke phezu kwetafile uze uziqhekeza i-saucer. Kuya kufanekisela ukuphelisa yonke into ebumnyama kwaye ingathandeki. Uphoxise iiperesi kwisitalato. Thatha iintonga ze-sinamoni kwaye uzikhokele phezu kwelangabi lekhandlela. Batshele umnqweno wakho kwaye ufunde isicwangciso esinjalo:
"Nkosi, Thixo, ongcwele uMama kaThixo, Bonke abangcwele, bonke abaMangalisa, yiva imithandazo yam, niva ngeemfuno zam, ncedeni, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), ndizalisekise iminqweno yam (yam). Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Beka iintonga kwikhegi uze uzibophe. Gcina i-mascot elungiselelwe phantsi komlambo ngaphambi kokuba igqibezelwe.