Umyinge weminyaka yobudala yindoda ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye inzima ebomini. Ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakhe wama-40 ophantse ukuba wonke umntu ucinge ngobomi bakhe, uhlalutye impumelelo kunye nokutshatyalaliswa, uyaqonda oko akufezekisileyo, kwaye ubeka iinjongo ezintsha. Eli lixesha eliphambili kakhulu kumntu, xa kusekho amandla amaninzi, kodwa kuninzi sele iphunyeziwe. Isipho sokuzalwa komntu oneminyaka engama-40 kufuneka sichaneke kwaye sifanele. Yingakho kufuneka uthathe ngokungathí sina.
Ukuba umntu unenkolelo, ngoko akayi kubhiyozela lo mhla wokuzalwa. Emva kwakho konke, abaninzi banxulumana nomnyaka wama-40 kunye neentsuku zesikhumbuzo, ezi-40. Ngoko ke, ezinye zizenza ngathi akukho mhla wokuzalwa kwaye unganiki izipho iminyaka engama-40. Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha lethu, bambalwa abantu abaye bavumelana nalo mbono.
Ukukhetha isipho esekelwe kwiminqweno yamadoda
Ukukhetha isipho, kufuneka ukwazi umntu kakuhle kwaye uqonde oko akuthanda ukukwenza ngexesha lakhe elincinane. Ngenxa yokugembula amadoda adonayo ukunqoba, kunokwenzeka ukuba uthenge enye yemidlalo yetafile. Ingaba i-chess, i-backgammon, i-poker. Isipho esinjalo siya kuba kuhle kumzalwana iminyaka engama-40. Ngendlela, i-chess ifanelekile iipuzzles zamatye kunye nezinye izinto ezifunwa ngumqondo.
Kuya kuba lula ukukhetha isipho kumntu onjalo umdlalo, njengokuzingela okanye ukuloba . Unako ukunika iintonga zokudoba, iintaka zokukhwabanisa, iiflasks, iintente , izixhobo kunye nezinye izinto ezihamba nale mi sebenzi. Isipho esinjalo sikulungele ubaba iminyaka engama-40. Enyanisweni, ukuba abantwana abazukufumana imali yabo, ingcamango ingaba yabo, kodwa ukuphunyezwa kwayo kuyakufuneka kunyamekelwe ngumama.
Amadoda amaninzi kwinto efana neyabantwana. Ngako oko, kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuba nesipho esinjengomnyaka wama-40, njengemodeli yokuqokelela imodeli yendiza okanye i-helicopter. Emva kokubonisa into encinci enhle, kunokwenzeka ukugcina ngokuzonwabisa indlela umntu athathwe ngayo ngumdlalo, ekhohlwa malunga nobudala bakhe kunye nesimo sakhe.
Isipho kumyeni wakhe iminyaka engama-40 ayifanele sibe yindleko. Into ephambili kukuba iimvakalelo,
Ubonisa ukugqamisa isimo
Oogxa baqaphela ukuba ukhetho lwesipho aluyi kuba nzima. Indoda yezoshishino inokunikezwa ngekhadi leshishini okanye umququzeleli obophekayo. Kwizipho onokubiza ngokuba ngama-crystal, ama-cofflink, ibhotile yokuqokelela iwayini, i-cigar ebiza.
Into ephambili yokutyalomali ekukhethweni kwesipho ngumphefumlo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufana neqhawe lomhla.