Iqumrhu lehuku kukubonakala kokugqibela komtshakazi njengentombazana ekhululekile, kwaye iintlobo zemincintiswano kunye nezinto zokuzonwabisa ziyingxenye ebalulekileyo. Isithethe sokulungiselela iimvavanyo ukuba umtshakazi abuyele ixesha elide, ngoko kwakufuneka ukuba uvavanye ukunyaniseka kweenjongo zakhe, amandla okuthanda indoda yakhe yesikhathi esizayo nokulungela kwakhe ubomi bentsapho. Ngoku kubambelele imincintiswano yesitya somtshakazi kumnandi, okwenza lo mhla ujabule kwaye awukhunjulwe. Siza kuthetha ngezinye zazo.
Ngendlela eya kwibhodi ye-bachelorette
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba unqume njani ukuchitha iqela le-bachelorette, ukhuphiswano luya kuqala nakwindlela eya kwiklabhu okanye kwi-cafe. Oku kuya kunceda ukudlula ixesha, ukuhlawula ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye ujonge. Umtshakazi kufuneka afumane abantu kwisitrato abaza kubonisa imicimbi ethile ebomini bakhe obudlulileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba wayekade efunda eyunivesithi, ngoko ufumane intombazana-umfundi. Kwakhona uphawu olonwabileyo luya kudibana nomfana ogama lakhe lifana nelinye lamyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Ewe, emva koko intombazana kufuneka icingisise malunga nento ekulindele ngayo ebomini bayo. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana abantwana ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka - intlanganiso yomntwana omncinane kunye nomntwana uya kuba nje ngexesha, kwaye ukuba okokuqala kubalulekile ukufumana umsebenzi, ngoko ke abafazi abanephupha elifanayo okanye lomsebenzi womfazi ozayo. Intombi-abahlobo kwintlankaso enjalo kufuneka ilungiselele izipho ezincinci kulabo abadibana nomtshakazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu basabela ngokukhawuleza kwizinto zokuzonwabisa kwaye banqwenela ulonwabo kunye nosapho olomeleleyo.
Ukuba indoda yakho ...
Ukhuphiswano lwethebula lweqela le-bachelorette lingahle lihle. Olu lonwabo luvame ukuphazamiseka kwemvakalelo ngenxa yokungalindeleki kokuphendula komtshakazi. Ngaphambi kokuqala kwenkampani yenkukhu, iintombi zifuna ukulungiselela amacandelo amancinci amaphepha, apho ngamnye kubo aya kubhala, yintoni umgca kwindoda ezayo ibona into engathandekiyo, umzekelo: "Ukunyaniseka", "inzondelelo," kunye nokuba "Ukuthatha empumlweni." Emva koko la maqabunga afakwa kwisitya okanye isicatshulwa kwaye umtshakazi uyawaphendula aze athi: "Ukuba emva komtshato kuvela ukuba indoda yam yindoda iya kubuhlungu, ke mna ..." kwaye ke ibonisa ukuba uza kwenza ntoni nayo. Njengoko uyaziqonda, ukwedlula ngakumbi iinketho ezinikezelwa ngabahlobo, okungalindelekanga kuya kuba yimpendulo yomfazi ozayo.
Uya kummkela kwiwaka
Jonga ukuba umhlobo wakho uyazi njani umyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Ukwenza oku, thatha umfanekiso wesinye inxalenye yomzimba wakhe kusengaphambili: umzekelo, umnwe emlenzeni okanye indlebe. Lungisa isithombe esichaza indawo enye kunye namanye amadoda, kwaye ubuze umtshakazi ukuba acinge ukuba: uyaphi na intanda yakhe?
Inxalenye yesibini yokhuphiswano ibonisa indlela intombazana eyazi ngayo iimpawu neemvakalelo zakhe. Ngaphambili umyeni ubuzwa imibuzo yendalo ehluke kakhulu: into ayithandayo ukuyidla, kwicala lokulala kwakhe, into ayithandayo kwaye ayithandi kumfazi wakhe ozayo. Emva koko le mibuzo ibuzwa umtshakazi ngesantya, kwaye iimpendulo zakhe zihlolwe ngokuchasene nezimpendulo ezinikezwa ngumyeni. Eyona nto ihamba ngayo, bhetele uyazi umphefumlo wakhe.
Ubuhlobo obuqinileyo
Iintombi zirekhode iindaba ezimnandi kakhulu ezidibene nomtshakazi kwaye zivumele ukuba zifunde, kwaye kufuneka zikhumbule iinkcukacha ezithakazelisayo kwaye zama ukuqikelela ukuba ngubani obhala malunga nale nto okanye loo nto ebomini babo.
Iqhenqa ngenxa yomtshakazi
Amantombazana aqikelele amagama anxulumene nobomi bentsapho obonwabileyo, umzekelo: " uthembele ", "uncedo kwiinkathazo," "ukuthembeka," kunye nomtshakazi kufuneka baqikelele ngokubuza abahlobo bakhe imibuzo yokuba banokuphendula kuphela "ewe" okanye "cha." La mazwi kwaye uya kuba neenqwenela kwiibini ezitshatileyo eziza kutshata kwaye, njengoko ziqiqa, zinokungena kwiposikhadi, ekupheleni kokuhlwa intombazana inikwe umfazi wexesha elizayo kunye nezipho ezincinci zolonwabo.