Isikhumbuzo ngumhla okhethekileyo, kwaye xa iholide inxulumene nomntu osondeleyo njengoTata, ufuna ukulungiselela umcimbi ngokugqibeleleyo. Amadoda amaninzi kule minyaka ayaqhubeka nokusebenza, anokuzonwabisa kwaye anokukhokelela ekusebenzeni ngokusebenzayo kwaye oku kufuneka kuqwalaselwe xa ukhetha isipho sokukhumbula iminyaka engama-60. Enyanisweni, kulula kakhulu kwisihlobo, ngakumbi ubaba, ukukhetha ukuncoma, kunomntu osondeleyo.
Yintoni oyikhethayo njengesipho kuPapa iminyaka engama-60?
Ewe, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazive banothando kunye nokunyamekelwa kwabantwana babo. Ngako oko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni eya kuhanjiswa kwintlokontyi, into ephambili kukuba oku kwenzekayo kwindawo epholileyo kwaye efudumeleyo. Ungasebenzisa naziphi na iingcamango ezilandelayo:
- mhlawumbi uyise angathanda ukufumana njengesipho incwadi okanye ipilisi yekhompyutha ;
- kumntu othanda ukuya ezweni ngokuzonwabisa, unokunika into efunekayo kwiholide, umzekelo, i-kettle entsha, isethi encinane yeTV, inxalenye yezolimo (okokuba, ukuba yaziwa ukuba umntu onokuzalwa angathanda ukuyithenga);
- iingubo ezifudumele okanye iingubo ezibi kakhulu;
- Izipho ezibalaseleyo zokukhumbula iminyaka engama-60 yindoda ekhetha ukuqhuba ngokuzimela, iya kuba izixhobo zemoto;
- uhambo oluya kwindlu yokuhlanza okanye uhambo lokutyelela;
- Izinto ezinokubhaliweyo ezinobuninzi ziya kubakholisa iJubhi, ohlala kwindawo ehamba phambili;
- nawuphi na umzali uya kuthinteka, efumene njengomncoma i-albhamu yezithombe ezenziwe kakuhle kunye neentsapho zeentlobo zeminyaka eyahlukeneyo;
- naziphi na izixhobo zasemakhaya umntu onokuzalwa angathanda ukuba nazo;
- isipho esihle iminyaka engama-60 uyise, oqokelelwayo, uya kuzalisa iqoqo lakhe.
Xa bebudala, abantu bayazixabisa ixesha elichithayo kunye nosapho. Ngako oko, isigqibo esihle siya kuba ukulungiselela umbhiyozo ngenjongo yozuko, apho unokuqokelela yonke intsapho kunye nabahlobo benkwenkwe yokuzalwa.