Ewe, isizwe ngasinye sinezibonakaliso zabantu, ezenza kube lula ukukhetha isondo somntwana ozayo . Ngezantsi sizakukuzisa kwizona ziqhelekileyo, ezikhokelwa kumazwe ahlukeneyo. Khumbula ukuba ukuchaneka kwabo akukho ngaphezu kwama-50%, ngoko ungathathi umphumo entliziyweni.
Iimpawu zokumisela isondo somntwana
Ukufunda ngesondo somntwana ngeempawu zamamama ezizayo zizama kwaye ngexesha lethu, nangona indlela eyona ethembekileyo yi-ultrasound , apho ungabona khona imiqondiso yesini yomntwana. Kodwa ke, kunomdla ukwazi ukuba umphumo we-ultrasound uhambelana nesondo lomntwana ekukhulelweni.
- Ukuba isisu sesithwele siyakunzima, ke lo ngumqondiso wenkwenkwana, kodwa ukuba ujikeleze, unayo intombazana;
- ukuba owesifazane okhulelwe uye evuvuka emilenzeni yakhe ngexesha leenyanga ezilithoba ezisisigqirha - oku kuyimpawu yenkwenkwana;
- ukuba owesifazane okhulelweyo uyidla isonka esilindela intombi;
- abafazi, ukuchuma nokukhazimulisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa, bathambekele ekuzaleni oonyana;
- Abasetyhini abaqala ukutya amaninzi amnandi, bazala amantombazana, ukuba bakhonywe kwi-salty, inyama kunye noshizi - lindele umntu omncinci;
- Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba indoda iyayithanda umfazi ngaphezu kokuba yenzayo, kuya kuzalwa umntwana, kwaye ukuba ngokuchaseneyo-kuya kuba nentombazana;
- ukuba umama wesikhathi esizayo ukwandise ukunyuka kweenwele kwimilenze yakhe, mhlawumbi ugqoke inkwenkwe, mhlawumbi ulinde ummeli wesini obuthathaka;
- xa owesifazane okhulelweyo edla kakhulu kwaye ngokusoloko elinde le nkwenkwe;
- unqume ngesondo lomntwana ngemiqondiso kwaye unokuncedisa iingubo zomlingane: ukuba umntu uthanda ukugqoka iimpahla ezikhululekile, lindela intombi, ukuba ukhetha izigunki zokubhukuda ezinamanzi-kuya kuba nekomfana;
- xa iinyawo zowesifazane okhulelweyo zibandayo, kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nendodana;
- ukuba iimbumba zomama ozayo zibumnyama - kwintombi yesisu, kwaye ukuba iibhokhwe zikhanya - inkwenkwe;
- Izidumbu ezingaphezu kwesisu zavela esiswini sakhe - lo ngumqondiso wonyana;
- i-toxicosis ebuthathaka, okanye ukungabikho kwayo-i-harbingers yentombi;
- Amakhwenkwe anesantya senhliziyo esheshayo ngaphezu kwamantombazana.
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngoomntwana ngokwemiqondiso yesizwe
Unokugqiba ukuba ulwabelana ngesondo lomntwana ngokwemiqondiso ethandwayo ngoncedo lokuvumelanisa okulandelayo:
Thatha umtya omude, faka ingubo kuyo. Yibambe phezu kwesandla sokhohlo sowesifazane okhulelweyo. Ukuba intambo iya kuhamba ngokuthe tye - ungakhetha igama lendoda, kwaye ukuba ukunyakaza kuyajikeleza isangqa - cinga ngegama lentombi.
Impawu zaseJapane zesini somntwana ongakazalwa unomdla: umzekelo, unokuzama ukwahlula ubudala bukayise
Le miqondiso yabasetyhini abakhulelweyo kwisini somntwana yizona zidumileyo kwaye ziqhelekileyo, kodwa zithembeke kangakanani ukuba wenze isigqibo. Into ebalulekileyo omele uyikhumbule ngayo - ukuzalwa komntu omtsha-luvuyo olukhulu, umcimbi obalulekileyo kunye obalulekileyo ebomini ngamnye wesifazane. Yiloo nto okumele ucinge ngayo kuqala, ngoko, into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana wakho kufuneka azalwe kwaye akhule aphilile, kwaye umbuzo othi "inkwenkwana okanye intombazana" kufuneka ihambe kwimvelaphi.