Umnini oyinyameko unika ingqalelo kwiinguqu ezincinci kwiimeko kunye nokuziphatha kwenkomo yakhe - ikati okanye ikati. Kwaye abaninzi abanamava abonisa ukuxhalaba ngokweqile, ukuba ikati ineempumlo ezomileyo, zifuna isizathu salolu hlobo.
Kutheni le nkati inomphunga owomileyo?
Emva kokuba uzimisele ukuba ikati okanye ikati ineempumlo ezifudumeleyo, okokuqala ungakhathazeki kwaye ugcine ukuziphatha kwezilwanyana zakho. Mhlawumbi isilwanyana esihle savuka. Kuba ikati, ukuma kwempumlo kuyimpendulo evamile yokuvusa. Ubume obunjalo bempumlo bubonakala kwikati emva kweemidlalo ezisebenzayo, ezisebenza kunye nezinto ezinje. Ekubeni izinga lokushisa kwekati liphezulu kakhulu kunaloo mntu (malunga namadireyi amabini), ukukhuphuka komswakama ovela emzimbeni womzimba (iipumlo ezibandakanya) yelizilwanyana ezincinci phantsi kwezenzo ezisebenzayo zenzeka ngokugqithiseleyo - sisona sizathu seengcambu ezomileyo nezifudumeleyo. Encinci, engenakonakalisa, ukuphazamiseka kwimpilo kunokuba yimbangela yesikhashana yokumisa kwempumlo. Umzekelo, ukugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo, ukondla ngokugqithiseleyo, uboya obugqithiseleyo kwi-digestive tract (iikompi ziginya uboya ngexesha lokukhwabanisa) kunokubangela ukwanda kancinci kwindalo yokushisa kwaye, ngenxa yoko, impumlo kwikati inokufudumala kwaye iyomile. Ungakhathazeki, kuya kudlula ngokwalo.
Ikati ineempumlo ezitshisa, ezomileyo
Kodwa ukoma kunye neempumlo ezishisayo zesilwanyana kunokuba uphawu oluphazamisayo lwalo okanye eso sifo . Ukulinganisa iqondo lokushisa kwilwanyana yakho yezilwanyana ngendlela yendabuko. Ukuba (ubushushu) buhlala ixesha elide, ngelixa isilwanyana sisalala kakhulu, silahlekelwe yintlanzi, isithandabuzo, isisitye esikhulu kunye ne-opaque esisuka ekhaleni - ngokukhawuleza sifune uncedo kumgqirha. Ugqirha kuphela oya kukwazi ukufumana ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo kwaye anikezele unyango olufanelekileyo.
Jonga indlela yokuziphatha komhlobo wakho onomlilo kwaye ungagqithisi imizuzu engakumbi.