Kuzo zonke iindibano zesevisi, mhlawumbi inobungozi kakhulu ukuthandana nomntu oma phezulu kwizinga lezemisebenzi. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba into yokuqhotyoshelweyo yayiyinjineli evela kwisebe elingummelwane, kuya kubonwa ngabalingane ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Inveli kunye nomphathi yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu, ebandakanya iingxaki ezinkulu emsebenzini, kunye neemeko ezinzima, ukuba awuphumelelanga. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale usebenze uthando nomphathi wakho, kufuneka ulinganise yonke into ngokufanelekileyo. Naluphi na uthando olunokuthintelwa kwinqanaba lokuqala kwaye lungahoywa. Kodwa ukuba unika iimvakalelo, kwaye wada wafunda ukuba babelana, uya kuba nzima ukuyeka. Ngoko zama ukucinga izinto ngoku:
- Xa kukho amahemuhemu e-ofisi yokuba unxulumene nomphathi, le nto ayinakuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokubonakalisa igama lakho kunye nobudlelwane kunye neqela.
- Ukuthandana nomqeshi otshatileyo kwiimeko ezininzi kuthetha ukuba uya kukuhlawula ubuncinci bexesha kwaye ungaze ube ngowakho. Ngaba kufuneka ndilahle ixesha?
- Inkonzo yokuthandana nomphathi ingaba luncedo kumsebenzi wakho kunye nomvuzo, kodwa xa usuphelile, uzakufumana kwisimo esingenakukhunjulwa.
- Ukuba umphathi ukhululekile kwaye yena ngokwakhe unika iimpawu zokuqwalasela, kufuneka uthathe isigqibo ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyayamkela okanye uyayinqabela. Kukho ininzi yamatyala entshutshiso ngabantu, kwaye ayisoloko imnandi kwintombazana.
- Cinga nje ngomdlali we-chess, ezimbalwa zihamba phambili. Yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba ngenxa yale ncwadana awunakuguqula umsebenzi wakho kwixesha elizayo? Ukuba indawo yokusebenzela ibiza kakhulu, kufuneka uyihlolisise ngokucophelela.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba ukhokelwa ngqiqo, kwaye ungabonakalisi kwiimbali zothando kunye neenveli zothando, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhlola imeko kwaye unqume ukuba ngaba umdlalo ufanelekile ikhandlela.