Yiyiphi ibhinqa ayengacingi ngendlela yokunyanzela umyeni wakhe ukuba azithande? Ngoko akazange akhangele ukucinga ngabanye abafazi. Ukutsala kunye nomdla wentshisekelo awusoze wanyamalala. Ukuqwalasela kwakhe imiqondiso ngesimo sezipho kunye nomsoloko uhlala ekhona kwiintsapho zabo zobomi. Akunabesifazane abanjalo. Kodwa, ukuzisola kwethu, inzondelelo enomdla emehlweni eqabane lakho ithatyathwa yinto yokugubungela ngesidlo sokutshiswa, kunye neepalesi zama-rose ezigubungela umgangatho wegumbi lakho emva kokutshintsha iisokisi ezingcolileyo zithembekileyo. Kuphi na ukuthanda uthando, kunye neenkwenkwezi ezivela esibhakabhakeni, ezithembiswa yi-romantics othandweni? Yaye indlela yokwenza umyeni athobele, aqonde kwaye ahloniphe umfazi wakhe?
Izifundo zobulumko bentombi
Kakade, ukunyanzela ukuthandana nomyeni wakhe akunakwenzeka. Amadoda amanqabileyo ayithandi ukunyanzeliswa kwabasetyhini. Ukuba uqala ukujikeleza kunye nomntu wakho, ukuvuthela uthuli lwamathambo kunye nokutya kwi-cutlets, mhlawumbi uya kumkhathaza ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukutya kwe-cutlets imihla ngemihla kunokukhokelela kwi-atherosclerosis. Ngoko, le ndlela ayifani nathi. Zonke iimbono kunye neziphakamiso zothando ziyazigxotha. Kukho imimiselo enokuthi ikhuphe ukuvakalelwa ngothando.
- Amadoda okwenene anqobile. Bafuna ukufunwa ngumfazi owamthandayo. Yishiye ithuba elifanayo kumlingane. Masibalekele ekhaya ukuze ahlanganyele neendaba, aphelelwe yithemba ngokulindela, ngelixa ukhanya kunye neentombi zakho, ukukhala nokubuza ukuba konke kulungile kuwe. Cinga ngeendlela zokwenza umyeni wakho acinge ngawe yonke iminithi. Musa nje ukudlala kakhulu. Ukuba u-peregnesh unamathele kwaye loo ndoda uzizwa engeyomfuneko, uya kufumana ngaphesheya, ekwazi ukufudumala nokukhathaza. Kodwa, ukuze oko kungenzeki, iya kumhlathi wesibini.
- Hlala uphezulu. Akukhona nje ngeengubo ezigqithisileyo kunye nabaqaphi. Yiba nomdla kuye njengomntu. Phucula. Nangona ungumfazi wendlu, qaphela u-self-education yakho, funda, uye kwiimyuziyam.
- Kodwa ke ungalibali ngokubonakala kwakho. Utshintsho oluthile kwindlela yakho luya kuzuza. Ukuba udibana nomyeni wakho yonke imini ngokuhlwaya, kwizithende eziphakamileyo kunye neengubo eziphezulu zeengubo zokugqoka, ngokukhawuleza uzabalekela ukumkanikazi elula. Ukuba ngumyeni wenkosikazi ngumthwalo onjalo. Ngoko ngamanye amaxesha ufumana isambatho sakho se-shabby and curlers, ndivumele ukuba ndivale umyeni wam, indlela endiyithandayo kunye nithandekayo ngayo kule mizuzu.
- Kwaye ngoku, xa umyeni ephumelele uthando lwakho nomoya, tshintsha amaqhinga. Yiba yinkosikazi yakhe, umhlobo, "imvumba ebandayo" kunye nesigqeba sokubuyisela kwakhona kwiimeko ezinzima. Makhe acele icebiso lakho, isikhalazo malunga nabo basebenzisana nabo, bavuye kunye nawe ngenxa yeempumelelo zakhe. Ukwenza oku, funda ukuphulaphula nokuqonda iingxaki zayo. Ukugcina umyeni wakhe kuphela ngesondo okanye ukutya okumnandi kunokukwenza nantoni na. Kodwa ukudibanisa zonke ezi mpawu, kuphela umfazi olungileyo onako.
- Maxa wambi unamandla. Abasetyhini kwiidolophana zaseRussia abahlala bekhuthaza abantu. Ukuzibonakalisa njengesidalwa esingenakukhuseleka kunye nesinyama, uyasiphazamisa kuloo ndoda isisitho somkhuseli. Kwaye akudingeki ucinge ngendlela yokwenza umyeni wakho akuncede kwimicimbi yakho yasekhaya.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo xelela umyeni wakho indlela enhle ngayo. Mdumiseni kwaye nimthande. Emva koko, umntu othembekileyo uphumelele kwaye uphumelele. Izakhiwo eziphantsi kwe-inferiority azizange zizuze nabani na. Kwaye uphumelele, umntu akayi kukhononda ngobomi kwaye uzame ukuyitshintsha.
- Kwakhona ngokuphathelele ngesondo. Ewe, ubuhlobo obusondeleyo abubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bentsapho. Kodwa isini esinobugcisa obufanelekileyo singabomeleza umtshato. Ukuxelela umyeni wakhe ngokuhlwa ngentloko kunye nokuba ukhathazekile kangakanani, unobungozi ukunika indoda isizathu sokufuna ukuhlaziya ngokwesondo ngaphandle kwekhaya.
Ngoko, ekuphenduleni umbuzo wendlela yokwenza umyeni amxabise umfazi wakhe, sinokuhlukanisa le miba elandelayo: kuba yimfihlelo kwaye unelisekile, inqabileyo kwaye isondo, ukuqonda nokuthanda. Kule meko, uya kukuthanda, ukuxabisa nokuthobela.