Makhe sinike inkcazelo yesipelo sothando ngaphandle kwamazwi. Ukupeliswa kukunyanzeliswa komnye umntu ukuba abe nemiva engazange abe nayo. Oku kukho utshintsho kwixesha leziganeko, i-future of one who knock and, of course, the sad one wholed. Ingaba imiphumo yale nto ingabi nengozi?
Kuhle kakhulu ukuba kusekho amantombazana abangacingi nje ngendlela yokutshiza umntu, kodwa ukhumbule nemiphumo. Ngaba uya kuzincoma, okanye uqhagamshelane nomlindi, yonke into ingaboniswa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: "Akangithandi? Ewe, ekubeni ndiyamthanda, ngoku uya kuthanda. Kwaye siya kuvuya ngonaphakade naphakade. "
Iziphumo
Makhe sikhulume ngethemba lokubamkela ngesibonelelo sokuthi, ukuphosa isiphelo kumntu, imiphumo yento eyenziweyo iya kutshintsha ubomi bakho.
I-Privorot iyinkokhelo yamandla enamandla enokumbulala kuphela umntu okhuphayo kunye nomntu onomdla. Umva wokugqibela, kunye nokudibanisa kweemeko, uba ngumntu onqwenelekayo "imifuno": umntu akakwazi ukuzimela, akanakukuthanda, kodwa akanako ngaphandle kwalowo owamtshitshisa. Qala ukusela, iziyobisi, ukuzibulala - kunzima kakhulu ukuhlala uphelelwa yithemba.
Ngokomzekelo, uthando lokupapela kwisithombe luphinde luphinde luphinde lube nomsebenzi womntu. Abo banqwenelekayo baya kuqala ukukhawuleza kumkhwenkwe kumfazi ongathandekiyo, ngoko ke, xa imikhosi ibuthathaka, ilahlekelwa yimpembelelo, iyancipha kwixinzelelo kunye nokunganakwa, iingxaki zempilo ezinzulu ziqala.
Konke oku kukhokelela ekubeni into yokuba "uyayithanda" kwaye uyayifumana, ufumana umntu ocaphukisayo, esoloko ekuthiyile, ephukile, ecinezelekileyo, ikhoboka.
Ngokuphathelele kwimiphumo "yomthengi", ngoko ayiyi kuba yinto elula nje. Ngethuba lesithethe, unxibelelwano olutsha luyadalwa phakathi kokuqhawula kunye nomnye owenza izinto. Olu qha ga mshelana namandla obalulekileyo yongqungquthelayo, kunye nemikhosi ekunciphiseni intando yesithandwa, nayo, kufuneka isuswe kwindawo yakho.
Kuxhatshazwa zizifo ezingapheliyo, ukungabikho komntwana, ukungazinzi, umhlaza.
Kodwa kukho umlingo omhlophe ...
Amantombazana amaninzi ahlakaniphile anomdla kwindlela yokutshiza umntu ngaphandle kwemiphumo.
Akunakwenzeka ukuloba inkwenkwe ngaphandle kwemiphumo, emva koko, enye indlela okanye enye, kwaye ukuthanda komntu kufuneka kuphulwe, ukuze anamathele ngokunyanisekileyo kumntu angathandwanga nantoni na ngaphambili.
Konke oku kuthatha amandla okuphila. Amandla omntu othabathayo. Emva kwakho konke, ebomini kuyo yonke into omele uyihlawule, kwaye, ngokukodwa, ukusetyenziswa kwemilingo.