Kungakhathaliseki ukuba abantwana abancinci bangabonakala bancinci, banalo bonke, banomntu oyingqayizivele, iimpawu ezintle kakhulu ezibonakalayo kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi bomntwana.
Yintoni ebeka umlinganiselo womntwana?
Ukubunjwa kohlobo lomntwana okwenzekiyo kungekudala. Iphethwe yizinto ezilandelayo:
- ukuzalwa;
- khuliswe;
- ukuziphatha kwabazali;
- indawo (i-nursergart, isikolo).
Ekuqaleni kobomi beemvuthu, kukho umzekelo ocacileyo ukuxelisa - abazali bakhe abathandekayo. Uyaziqaphela ngokungaqondi kwaye aziqaphele ukuziphatha kwazo, okuye kuye kuphela okuchanekileyo. Kamva, xa isangqa soxhulumaniso lwakhe sanda, intsana iyamangalisa ukubona ukuba baninzi abantu abaninzi emhlabeni, abakhulu nabancinci, abanokuziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kwaye udonsa ulwazi ekunxibelelaneni nomnye wabo.
Umntu wengane yakho
Umntwana, nokuba ngumntwana oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala, usele mntu. Yaye unesimo esithile somoya, esinqunywe yimpawu zakhe zobuntu kunye nokuziphatha, kunye neendlela zokuzalwa zomntwana. Njengoko uyazi, kukho iintlobo ezine ezisisiseko zesimo somntu: i-sanguine, i-choleric, i-phlegmatic ne-melancholic. Masifunde ukuba ziphi kunye nendlela yokuchonga isimo sengqondo somntwana.
- I-Sanguine ibonisa uhlobo oluvulekile, oluhle, ukukwazi ukuzabalazela ukuphumelela, "ubuqili" bomlingani, amandla. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi ziinkokheli zabantwana, zivela kuzo iinkokeli ezilungileyo zikhula.
- Umntwana okhulayo unomvakalelo kakhulu, unxinekile, kwaye unobundlobongela. Uyakwazi ukuthatha ngokunyanisekileyo uhlobo oluthile loshishino, kodwa ukuba into ayifuniyo, unokuba nobudlova. I-Choleric ixhomekeke ekuguqukeni kwemizwa rhoqo.
- Uhlobo lwe-phlegmatic of temperament lugqitywa ziimpawu ezifana nokuphuka, ukuzinza kwengqondo, ukunyamezela. I-phlegmatic ivame ukuhlambalaza, ubuso bakhe buso bungabonakali, uyasetyenziselwa yonke into entsha ixesha elide.
- Umntwana onesimo sengqondo esincibilikisayo ngokuqhelekileyo unamahloni, utyhafile, ukhuseleke. Kunzima kunokuba abanye bavumelane neemeko ezintsha, kubandakanywa kunye. Kodwa ngelo xesha unyanzelekile kwiimeko ezinamava ezintle, ukugcina ixesha kunye nokulungelelanisa. Abantwana abanjalo banokuphumelela impumelelo enkulu ekudaleni: umculo, ukudweba, ukudweba, izibongo.
Ezi zine zeentlobo zengqondo azifaneki zibonakaliswe kwifomu ecocekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umonakalo womntwana udibaniswe. Ngexesha elifanayo, iimpawu ezivela "kwiindawo ezingumakhelwane" zidibanisa: i-choleric / sanguine, i-phlegmatic / i-melancholic.
Imoya yomntwana yipropati engumntu ongenamakhaya, kunzima kakhulu, kunzima ukutshintsha. Kwaye abazali kufuneka baxhomekeke kuyo, musa ukuyicinezela, uzame ukulungelelanisa "ngokwabo," kodwa kuphela ulungise ngokunyanisekileyo ukuziphatha kwayo.
Imfundo yendalo yomntwana kwintsapho
Iimpawu ezintle "ezilungileyo" okanye "ezimbi" azikho, kwaye kwimiba yomntwana ngamnye kukho izinto ezilungileyo nezimbi.
Iinkalo zokuziphatha ezifana nokunyaniseka, ukuhlonipha, ukunyamezela, ingqalelo kwabanye kwaye kufuneka ifundiswe kumntwana kwinkqubo yemfundo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwiimeko zabazali ngokwabo.
Iimpawu ezinamandla zobuntwa bezintswana zifumana ngokubanzi ekunxibelelaneni nabaontanga.
Kunzima, ngokombono wabazali, umlingani womntwana unokuthetha ukuba nomoya ogqithiseleyo, ukukhawuleza, kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukulila, ukuguquka rhoqo kwemizwelo, umkhwa wokukhalaza. Kwaye nangona umntwana "akakwazi ukulungiswa," ezi zixhobo zendalo zisenokuzama ukutshintsha. Oku kufuneka kwenziwe ngokuthe ngcembe, ngokubekezela, kubonisa ububele. Musa ukunyusa umntwana, ungazami "ukuwaphula", ungasebenzisi kakubi iminqophiso kunye nezohlwayo.
Umntwana ngamnye unokufumana indlela yakhe, eyazi uhlobo lobuntu bakhe. Yaye nangona umntwana wakho "kunzima", khumbula ukuba useyintanda kakhulu!