Imemo kubazali bezabelo zokuqala zangaphambili

Ngoko i-weekend matines yafa kwi-kindergartens, nto leyo ithetha ukuba ezinye iinyanga ezi-ezintathu ziya kudlula, kwaye abantwana beeyure baya kufaka iingcango zobomi besikolo esitsha kubo. Abazali abakuqala ukukhupha izikhumbuzo eziza kunika iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso kwaye ziya kubanceda baqonde indlela yokuziphatha kunye nabalandeli bokuqala bexesha elizayo, kunye nokuba yenzeni ukwenza ukulungelelanisa esikolweni ngendlela elula njengoko kunokwenzeka.

Ngaba umntwana ulungele isikolo?

Isisiseko esiyinqobo esichaza ukuba umntwana uya kuba ngumfundi okhutheleyo kukulungela kwengqondo nokuzilungelelanisa ukungena kwihlabathi elitsha kuye. Abantwana mabafanele bazi ukuba isikolo siya kubanika ntoni, oko kukuthi, ulwazi olutsha olunomdla kunye nezakhono. Ngenxa yoko, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba kubo iqela elitsha liqalise, libandakanya umsebenzi osebenzayo, kwaye oku kuhluke kakhulu kwilo hlobo.

Iingcali zengqondo ziye zaphawula ukuba abantwana abangena kwi-kindergarten bakuthola kunzima ukuvumelanisa neemeko ezintsha, kuba bengakaze babe ngumbutho onjalo, abazi ukuba yintoni umyalelo eklasini, njengoko bahlala ubomi babo bomi. Yingakho kunqweneleka kakhulu, ubuncinane kunyaka odluleyo ngaphambi kwesikolo ukuya kwi-kindergarten. Oku kuyimfuneko kangako ukufumana naluphi na ulwazi, kodwa ukuhlalisana koluntu lwexesha elizayo.

I-Memo, ngaphezu kweengcebiso kubazali bexesha elizayo kwi-psychology, libiza ingqwalasela kwimeko yomzimba yokuphuhliswa kwabantwana. Ukuba udla ngokugula-ngaphezulu kwama-8 ukuya ku-12 ngonyaka, kuyacaca ukuba uqalise ngokukhawuleza ukujongana nayo, ukuhlaziya indlela yobomi kwaye, mhlawumbi, uhanjiswe kwinqanaba lepropati efanelekileyo. Abantwana kufuneka badlule i-ophthalmologist, i-neurologist, i-ENT, ukuphumeza iimvavanyo ukuba zibe ngexesha kwiklasi lokuqala ukulungisa impilo.

Iingcebiso kubazali bezabelo zokuqala kwixesha lehlobo

Abazali abaninzi abanembeza bakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba sele behamba iiveki ezimbalwa kunye nomntwana olwandle, baya kuphulukisa. Enyanisweni, kuvela ngokuchasene noko, ngakumbi ukuba i-future-grader ithathwa kumazwe angaphandle. Umzimba ufumana ubunzima obunzima kwaye kuthatha iiveki ezintathu okanye ngaphezulu ukulungelelanisa kwimozulu entsha (ubushushu, umswakama, amanzi).

Kungcono ukuhlala ekhaya, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, uye kumakhulu wakho kwidolophana. Umoya omtsha, uhamba ngaphandle kwesihlangu, ukubhukuda emlanjeni, iimveliso zendalo kunye nokuzibandakanya kunye nemvelo kukunceda kakhulu ekukhuselweni.

Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukulungelelanisa ngokuqhelekileyo inkqubo yemihla ngemihla yomntwana esikolweni, kunye nokufundisa umntwana kusasa ukwenza i-gymnastics. Konke oku kuya kukunceda ukunyamezela nokudibanisa izifundo. Kodwa ukuba abazali bacebise ukususela ekuqaleni komnyaka wokufunda ukubhala umntwana kwicandelo elitsha - le ngcamango embi, ubuncinane kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezizayo. Umntwana wesikolo uya kuba sele enomthwalo omkhulu apho uya kuwufuna ukulungelelanisa ngokukhawuleza, ukwenzela ukuba yonke into iyayilibazisa inkqubo kwaye ivelise iziphumo ezifunwayo.

Umntwana kufuneka adunyiswe ngakumbi, angacatshulwa kwaye afundiswe ngombono olungileyo kungekhona nje kuphela koqeqesho, kodwa kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo, kwaye emva koko isikolo siya kuba yinto enhle kakhulu kuye.