Iinyanga ezili-11 ekuphuculeni umntwana, yintoni enokukwazi ukuyenza?

Abazali abasebancinci bayaphawula ukuba umntwana ukhula ngokukhawuleza kangakanani. Ngomnyaka wokuqala we-crumb, phantse yonke imihla iyanceda abo bathandekayo kunye nempumelelo yabo. Ezinye iimimmy zigcina idayari, apho ziqaphela ukuba utshintsho olwenzeka nge-carapace. Emva kwithuba elithile, unokubona ngokucacileyo indlela ezaliswe ngayo iinyanga ezili-12 emva kokuzalwa. Ngosuku lwakhe lokuqala lokuzalwa, i-karapuz inomlinganiselo othile wolwazi nezakhono. Nangona bonke abantwana bahluke, kukho imimiselo ethile ebonisa ukuba yiyiphi inkokhelo umntwana onokuyenza ngexesha lakhe. Kunceda oomama ukwazi ulwazi malunga nophuhliso lomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11, ukuba kufuneka akwazi. Kodwa ukuba ngaba abazali bebona ukuba umntwana ungasemva kweendlela, akukho mfuneko yokwesaba: mhlawumbi, ngokukhawuleza umntwana uya kubambisana neontanga zakhe. Nangona kunjalo, unina unakho ukubonisana nogqirha ngcebiso.

Ukuphuhliswa komzimba weemvuthu

Ngalesi sikhathi, abantwana banokulinganisela umlinganiselo we-9.8-10.5 kg, kwaye ukukhula kwabo kufinyelela kuma-73-75 cm. Kodwa la manani awanamsebenzi kwaye ezinye iziphene ziyamkeleka. Emva koko, ezi pharamitha zichaphazela impawu zofuzo, isondo seemvuthu kunye nempilo yakhe.

Kukho imigangatho ebonisa oko umntwana akwenziyo kwiinyanga ezili-11. Kuzo abazali kufuneka baqhelane. Uninzi lweentsana ziphuma kulezi zibalo, ngoko ungakhathazeki, uqaphele ukuba umntwana ulahla emva komntwana wommelwane. Nalu uluhlu lwezakhono ezisisiseko zonke i-crumb kufuneka ibe nale minyaka:

• ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo;
• kuhle ukukhwela;
• uzama ukuvuka, uhambe kunye nenkxaso;
• unako ukunyuka esiqheqweni, wehla kuwo, unqobe isinyathelo esincinci;
• Ingakwazi ukuhlala kwibharki phantse umzuzu;
• ukufaka incwadi.

Ngonyaka ulungelelaniso lwezithuthi luye lwaphuhliswa kakuhle. I-karapuz ishintsha ngokulula izinto ukusuka kwisibambo ukuya kwisibambo, uthanda ukuphonsa amathoyizi, uguqula phambi kwayo. Abantwana bazama ukuzondla ngokwabo, bephuza kwindebe.

Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo komntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11 ukuya kwe-12

Kule minyaka, unina othobelekileyo uya kubona ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukudumisa nokuvunywa ngabantu abadala kwiimvumba. Kwimfundo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uthathe le ngqalelo ingqalelo. I-karapuz kufuneka iqonde izicelo ezilula kwaye zizalisekise, umzekelo, unokuzisa ithoyizi ethile okanye uyiqhubele kwindawo ethile.

Ekufutshane konyaka, intetho ikhula ngokukhawuleza, amagama amfutshane okuqala avela kwisixekisi. I-karapuz izama ukuxelisa izilwanyana, ikopi iimbono zabantu abadala. Kodwa ungalindelanga ukuba i-crumb iya kuba ngumnyaka ukuthetha amagama amaninzi, kodwa ibonakala ukuba umntwana ezinyangeni ezili-11 unokuchazela iminqweno yakhe ngemiqondiso.

Ngeli xesha, isigama esisisigxina sinokukhula. Ngoko ke, unina kufuneka akhulume kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngomntwana.

Vala abantu baqaphele ukuba umntwana unengqondo yokuhleka, kwaye unokuhleka ixesha elide kwinto yokuba wayenomdla.

Ukuphuhliswa kweenyanga ezili-11 - yimuphi umdlalo odlala naye umntwana?

Ingane ikulungele ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye neetys. Kwabantwana, ukudlala kuyindlela yokufunda, kwaye kule fomu abamba yonke into entsha. Umama angasebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokusebenzisa izakhono zezithuthi, kuba zibambe iqela ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho. Ingaba iimidlalo ezizodwa ezithengwa kwivenkile. Nangona i-crumb iya kuba nomdla kwiimidlalo kunye nezityalo kunye nezinye iindlela ezicwangcisiweyo. Kodwa abantu baya kufuneka bajonge ngokugqithiseleyo, ukwenzela ukuba inkunzi yenkomo ingagxina into encinci.

Kubalulekile ukubonelela ngamacumbbs nabanye abantwana. Vumela umntwana afunde ukusebenzisana noontanga.