Kwiminyaka engamashumi amathathu eyadlulayo akukho mntu wayeve ngoonyana be-indigo. Inkcazelo yokuqala malunga nabo yabonakala emva kokuba uN.-clairvoyant uN. Tapp uthe abantwana abane-color aura engaqhelekanga baqala ukuvela. Ininzi yabantu liluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka segolide, kwaye kubantwana bafumanisa ukuba luhlaza emnyama, umbala we-indigo.
Ukususela ngoko, okokuba, ukususela ngo-1978 kuze kube ngoku, abantwana be-indigo bavayo. Kodwa bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazi ukuba ngubani - abantwana be-indigo kunye nabantwana be-indigo abangazalelwa.
Kuya kuba ukuba umntwana oza kumangalisayo uya kubonakala kwintsapho yakho, akukho nzala, okanye indlela yokuphila yowesifazane okhulelweyo, okanye isondlo sakhe ngexesha lokukhulelwa, lichaphazelekayo. Into kuphela eyaphawula ukuba abantwana abaninzi bexesha elizayo be-indigo babenomngcipheko wokubeleka omncinci kwintlambo yomlomo wesibeleko, kwaye ngomnyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwakukho ukuxinzeleleka komxhesho weengcinezelo, owenziwe unyango.
Indlela yokubona umntwana we-indigo?
Inxalenye yokuphuhlisa abantwana be-indigo kukuba ubuchopho babo bukhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngenxa yoko, abantwana baqala ukuthetha kamva kunontanga yabo. Emva koko intetho ibonakala ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ifundeka kakhulu, ngokuchanekileyo izivakalisi ezakhiweyo. Kwaye umntwana uqala ukunika ulwazi olunjalo, olubeka abazali ekufeni.
Ngokuqinisekileyo abaninzi bacinga indlela yokuhlukanisa umntwana we-indigo kubuninzi bezingane eziqhelekileyo, indlela yokuyiqonda. Kukho imiqondiso emininzi ekunokwenzeka ukuyithetha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ingaba umntwana wakho unxulumene nabantwana be-indigo:
- ukuzimela - abantwana baqala ukucombulula imisebenzi ebalulekileyo ngaphandle koluntu lwabantu abadala;
- Ukungalingani ngokwengqondo - umntwana akawuthinteli iimvakalelo zakhe, uvakalise ngokucacileyo oko akucingayo, ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuchaseneyo, ngokuzivala ehlabathini lakhe elingaphakathi;
- ukuzithemba, ukuphakama, kodwa ukungazithembi;
- ukungahambi kakuhle - musa ukuhlala unomzuzu ngomzuzu, ngokuqhubekayo ekuhambeni, ngokugxininisa kwizinto ezithile zabo;
- unengqondo ephuculwe kakuhle, cinga kakhulu ngokungavumelekanga, ngamanye amaxesha ukubeka abanye malunga nokuphela kokufa kunye neengxelo zabo;
- abaqondi nawuphi na igunya, nokuba ngabazali okanye ngabafundisi, bonke baneengcamango zabo, ezilungele ukukhusela;
- ubunjani bokudala kunye neenjongo ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uninzi lweempawu zibangelwa ngumntwana wakho, ungakhathazeki. Ewe, kunzima ukukhulisa umntwana ohluke kwabanye. La bantwana babizwa ngokuba ngabantwana abangakhululekile. Kulula ukufundisa umntwana othobelayo, onokuthula, ongafuni ukugcinwa rhoqo, akasathathi amandla amaninzi. Kodwa udinga umonde, ngakumbi xa kuziwa ekufundiseni abantwana be-indigo.
Enye yeengxaki zezingane ze-indigo yinkcazelo yokulahleka kwesifo sengxaki-le nto ixilongo ihlala ikwabantwana abangenakubekwa kwindawo kunye nokuba nantoni na inomdla. Kubalulekile ukuba bobabini abazali nabafundisi baqonde ukuba ayingumntwana onzima, kodwa ungumntwana onobuchule kakhulu, kwaye baxhomekeka.
Iingcali ze-neurologists ziqala ukunika izidakamizwa ezinamandla ezivimbela inkqubo yeentlanzi ukususa ukungcola komntwana. Abazali, bengakhange bacinge ngemiphumo, nangolu hlobo lonyango, bayeke ukuphuhliswa kobuntu ngendlela eboniswe ngendalo.
Ngendlela yokukhulisa umntwana we-indigo, umntu kufuneka afunde kwiingcali eziye zenza le migaqo iminyaka emininzi, ukuze zingalimazi ukuphuhliswa kwamakhono abantwana be-indigo.
Inkcazelo yabantwana be-indigo ayiqondi kakuhle. Amakhono abo apheliyo, kodwa ukuze bathathe inzuzo kubo, kubalulekile ukudala iimeko ezifanelekileyo zokuphuhlisa kwabo kunye nokwamkela aba bantwana abanezakhono njengoko bengenakuzama ukulungisa iphethini jikelele.