Ubhaptizo ngumthendeleko apho uqhelana necawa yomntwana ngamnye ozelwe kwiintsapho zamaKristu kuqala. Ukongezelela kumfundisi kunye nabazali bentsana, u-godfather nonina, obizwa ngokuba "ngabazali besibini", baqhelekile khona. Emahlombe abo ukusuka kulo mzuzwana uxanduva olukhulu lwebhokhwe, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukunyamekela ukuqala umntwana kumzuzwana wesithethe. Kwaye ngoku malunga nezipho eziza kubhaptizwa. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu owaziyo isiphi isipho esifanele siphekwe. Ngokomzekelo, yintoni ongayinikela intombazana engumKristu?
Isipho sentombazana engumKristu: isiko
Ngokwesiko, oothixo unika i korzhnyu - i-diaper okanye ithawula, ekhupha umntwana, kunye nekhati kunye ne-cap - isethi intombazana ihlotshwe ngeebhanki. Isipho esinjalo sokwenzela i-christen senziwa rhoqo ngenxa yeso sizathu - bayagula okanye badibanise ingubo yokugqoka i-christening kunye ne-cap, abanye bancedisa ingubo kunye ne-booties. Ewe, isambatho esenziwe ngesandla sinokukhetha, kodwa ikethi yokubhaptizwa ekulungisiweyo ayikwazi ukuthengwa. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba iingubo zikaKristu zizuzwe njengefa, ngokuqhelekileyo, ngoku, ngoku, oko kwenzeka ngokungafaneki.
Ithawula kufuneka ikhethiweyo enkulu, ukuba intombazana incinci kakhulu, kwaye ukuba umntwana usekhulile, ithawula inokuthi ithathwe ngobukhulu obuqhelekileyo. Ithawula, ekhupha umntwana ukuba asuswe kwipolisi, ngokwesiko, musa ukusula emva kokubhaptizwa kunye nokugcina ngokucophelela. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba umntwana uyagula, le thayile iyomnceda ukuba abuyele.
Kwakhona, umsebenzi wabanini-ntombi ukuthenga umntwana umnqamlezo kunye nekholeji, kodwa ngokwesiko, u-godfather kufanele akwenze. Isinyithi apho umnqamlezo uya kwenziwa khona asinakucaciswa ngokuthe ngqo - ingaba yintsimbi kunye negolide. Ngokuphathelele ukhenketho, kukho ukungavumelani - isikhumba setheba somntwana sinokusihlamba, ngoko ke umnqamlezo wokuqala uthathwa ngumntwana kwibhebhoni elithambileyo okanye ngentambo. Kodwa ukunika ikhonkco ngoku, akukho mntu uyamnqabela, umfazi, xa ekhula, uya kukwazi ukumbamba isiphambano kuye. Kwakhona, kumagxa ka-godfather, ukuhlawula umvuzo wobhaptizo kunye nokuhlaziya kudla ngokuwa.
Kukho isipho esiyinkcubeko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba umthikazi okanye u-godson - isiliva yesiliva. Leli xesha lalibizwa ngokuthi isipho "kumazinyo," oko kukuthi, yinto yokuqala yomntwana oza kudliwa ngayo xa ixesha lifika. Kwizinto ezinjalo zidla ngokubhala igama lomntwana okanye uphawu lobuKristu.
Yintoni enye onokuyinika umfazi onokufa kwi-christening?
Izipho zemveli zihlongozwe ngaphandle, kodwa zihlala ziphela nje kuphela. Yintoni enye ongayinika intombazana ukuze ikhulelwe? Ngokuqhelekileyo unike ithoyizi elithambileyo ngeenqweno ze ntombazana, kwaye ke iya kuba yintando yintsana. Abaninzi bakhupha iinqaba zegolide, umzekelo, amacici entombazana angayigqoba xa ekhula. Ngokomgaqo, unako ukunika nantoni na i-christenings, into ephambili kukuba le nto iluncedo kumntu obulala uThixo, ngoku okanye xa intombazana ikhula.
Abazali bomntwana kwi-christenings bavame ukunika "iisuthi" kunye neengubo zabantwana. Unokunika intombazana ingubo egqwesileyo okanye iingubo zezingane ezithandekayo. Yaye ukuba ufuna ukugxininisa ukubandakanyeka kwakho kwisipho, unako ukufakela ezi zinto izinto ezithile okanye unqwenela umntwana. Kwakhona unako ukunika umntwana omncinci umbhede, onothambileyo kwaye unomdla kwi-touch. Into ephambili, khumbula ukuba le nxalenye yezipho zikhethiweyo, akukho mithetho eqinileyo apha - enye imali inikwe abazali babantwana. Yonke into efunekayo kuwe kweli nqanaba kukubona ukuba umntwana ngoku udinga ukunakekelwa kwakho, naye. Kwaye ukumnika uncedo kunye nenkxaso ngoku wakho umsebenzi ongcwele.