Nabani na umntu ofuna ukuhlala nesidima, Ndifuna ukuba nekhaya lam, imoto enhle, ndithenge izinto zam ezintle, ndiphumle phesheya, ndifuna ukungaziphiki ukutya okumnandi, njl njl. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba unakho konke, udinga inzuzo enkulu enesiseko, kwaye okukhethwa kukho kukudala ibhizinisi lakho, elizisa imali engenayo. Ngokwemfundiso, umntu ngamnye unako ukuhlela ibhizinisi labo, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onomnqweno onjalo, kwaye kutheni, siya kuncedwa ukuba siqonde i-psychology yezoshishino.
YezoShishino
Kukho uninzi lweencwadi eziya kukunceda ekufundeni izinto ezisiseko zezoshishino, kodwa ukuba ungagqithisi ezinye zeempawu, akukho nto ibalulekileyo enokwenzeka kuwe. Ngoko, yintoni enokukunqanda ukuba uqalise ishishini lakho ukususela kwinqanaba leembono zengqondo yezoshishino kunye nosomashishini:
- Ubuvila . Ingumqobo omkhulu kwimpumelelo, kuba awukwazi ukufezekisa injongo yakho ngaphandle kwemizamo. Ukucinga malunga nokwenza into yakho, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kufuneka usebenze imini nobusuku, kwaye ngeveki, unike lonke ixesha lakho lokukhulula ukusebenza.
- Ukwesaba utyalo-mali . Akukho mfihlo ukuba ukuze ufumane imali, kufuneka uqale utyalomali imali ethile ekuphuhlisweni kweprojekthi yakho. Le ngxaki enkulu kubaninzi.
- Ukoyika utshintsho . Abantu abaninzi bayesaba ukutshintsha indlela yabo yobomi, becinga ukuba yonke into iya kuphazamiseka, ukuba utshintsho luya kuzisa iingxaki kuphela.
Ukuze uphumelele kwishishini, kufuneka unqobe zonke ezi mpawu kwaye ugxininise iindlela eziphambili zengqondo yezoshishino eziya kunceda kwizenzo zakho:
- Nayiphi na ingcamango yokudala kufuneka ibhaliswe phantsi ukuze ungayikhohlwa, kuba elizayo lingaba luncedo.
- Cinga ngezinto ongayisebenzisa ukuze ufezekise injongo , zeziphi izixhobo ozifunayo, ingaba uhlobo oluthile lwepropati, imali, abantu, njl.
- Cinga ngesicwangciso soshishino lakho. Qinisekisa ukuba lixesha lokuqalisa "isenzo."