Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-ultrasound ayikwazi ukwabelana ngesondo lomntwana, kwaye umama nazo zonke izihlobo zakhe sele zifuna ukuqala ukuqulunqa igama, ukukhetha iipinethi kunye nezinye iinkqubo ezimnandi. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Kulula. Ngokuphathelele indlela yokufumanisa ukuba isini isini umntwana uya kuba, kukho imimangaliso emininzi eyenziwe xa i-ultrasound yayingekho.
Ngubani oza kuzalwa?
Abantu, ngokuqinisekileyo, banomdla wokufumana ukuba ubani oza kuzalwa: umfana osemntwaneni okanye intombazana engafaniyo. Kwintsapho yelizwe, unyana uncedisi-ntata, umlimi, umdali wobutyebi. Kulo lonke uqoqosho oluzisa inzuzo: ukuzingela, isonka esandayo. Ibhinqa ngumgcini, kufuneka axhase kuphela loo nto umntu ayenayo: lungisa ukutya kwiimveliso ezilethwe nguye, unakekele iinkomo, njalo njalo. Indodana iya kusebenza kwintsapho, imbuyisele ingeniso yakhe, kwaye intombi iya kuya kwenye intsapho, isebenzele abanye, ize imnike i-dowry: intshabalalo epheleleyo! Ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ngubani na umntu: inkwenkwe okanye intombazana kunye nendlela yokumazi ngesini somntwana.
Ukuhlanjululwa ngesisu sowesifazane okhulelweyo
Kwakukho iindlela eziliqela zokufumana isondo somntwana ngempawu : ngokwemilo yesisu, ukubonakala komama, imozulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, njalonjalo. Umzekelo, indlela yokwazi ngesondo lomntwana ngesimo sesisu. Le ndlela iyona ndlela ixhaphakileyo, kwaye ngoku abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuba isisu somfazi okhulelweyo sibanzi, singacacile, kwaye kukho intombazana ngaphakathi, kwaye xa ibukhali, "yintsika", ngoko kufuneka ulinde le nkwenkwana. Bathi kwakhona ukuba iinwele ezongezelelweyo zivela kwisisu, kuthetha ukuba loo ntokazi iya kuba nenkwenkwe, kwaye xa kukho ukwanda kwe-pigmentation esiswini, kufuneka umntu abe nethemba lentombazana. Kananjalo uphikisa ukuba le nkwenkwe idla "ukukhaba" ngakwesokudla, kwaye intombazana - ngakwesobunxele.
Umama nomoya
Ubundlobongela bomntwana, ngokubhekiselele kubantu, kunokuchaphazela ukubonakala, ukuziphatha kunye nempilo kamama. Ngokomzekelo, yintoni enye yokufumana isondo somntwana ngempawu ezidumile? Ukuba loo ntokazi sele ihle kakhulu kwaye iqhakazile, ngoko ilele inkwenkwe, ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, ukubonakala kwayo kuye kwavezeleka, ngoko intombazana. Ngaloo mqondiso, abanye oogqirha bavumelana naye. Bakholelwa ukuba okunjalo, ngokwenene, kunokuthi, kodwa imbangela kuma-hormone, aveliswa ngokungafaniyo emzimbeni wesifazane okhulelweyo, kuxhomekeke ekubeni ungubani. Emva koko, i-hormone ichaphazela kakhulu ukubonakala komntu. Kodwa akukho ngaphantsi kokuchaphazela isimo sengqondo somfazi. Oku, mhlawumbi, kuchazwa ngolu hlobo lokuba umama ogqoke le nkwenkwe uyavuya kwaye enethemba, ngelixa elilindele le ntombazana isoloko ixakekile, idandathekile.
Kukholelwa ukuba i- toxicosis inamandla kwaye ihlala ixesha elide, ngamanye amaxesha yonke imini, kumfazi obelindele umntwana wesilisa.
Iimpawu ezidibene nokutya
Ukuqwalasela iindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokujonga isondo somntwana ngeendlela eziqhelekileyo, umntu unokuphawula iqela labantu abanjalo abadibene nokutya nokutya okukhethiweyo.
Kwimihla endala, owesifazane okhulelwe wanikelwa ngesonka. Ukuba wayithatha intambo, bekholelwa ukuba inkwenkwe yayiza kuzalwa xa ikhetha i-crumb - intombazana. Yiba nokuba kunjalo, konke ukungathandabuzeki kuya kuxazululwa xa lo mma ngaliso usenzeka kwaye umntwana usesesandleni sakhe. Kwaye ukuthanda akuyi kuba yinkwenkwana okanye intombazana, kodwa ngenxa yokuba igalelo legazi, ukubonakala kwayo kwakukulindeleke kakhulu.