Ngokuqhelekileyo izinto eziqhelekileyo ephupheni zinokuthwala ulwazi oluninzi. Ukuba ulawula ukuchaza ngokucacileyo oko ubonayo, ngoko unokufunda ngeziganeko zekamva. Ukwenza oku, qiniseka ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zephupha.
Kutheni uphupha ngomzila?
Iphupha apho ubona umzila wefoloko okanye umjikelo obukhali uya kukuxelela ukuba uya kubhekana nokukhetha okunzima okuza kuguqula ubomi bakho. Ngeli thuba kunconywa ukuba uqokelele ezandleni kwaye ungayi kunika imvakalelo , kuphela ngale ndlela uza kukwazi ukujamelana neemeko zangoku. Ephupheni ukuwela umnqanawa, kuthetha ukuba uya kukhangela umsebenzi onzima kunye nexesha lokuxhalabisa. Ukuba udla kwisitimela ubone umzila weloliwe, phambi kwakho kulindeleke ukuba uqhubeke phambili kwinqanaba lomsebenzi kwaye usukuma kwishishini. Kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba uhlala uhamba ngaphantsi, ungayithobeli ingqalelo "yakho". Iphupha apho ubona indlela ukuqeqesha ukuhamba ngesitimela isilumkiso sokuba kufuneka uqaphele ingqalelo kuzo zonke izinto ezincinci ukuze ungaqhubeki ukuphuhliswa kweemeko ezingathandekiyo. Sekunjalo kungabonakalisa ukuba ngokukhawuleza ubudlelwane nomntu othandayo buya kuphazamiseka, kwaye isizathu saso sinokutshintsha.
Ukubona ephupheni umzila wesitimela ongahoywa, apho izithuthi ezingahambi khona, kuthetha ukuba kwixesha elizayo uya kudana. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ithemba aliyi kulungiswa, kwaye uya kudanazeka kakhulu ebomini. Kukho nakwinkcazelo yeencwadi zephupha malunga nokuba iphupha liyakwazi ukubonisa uhambo okanye uhambo lwezoshishino. Umzila ujongwa ngezindlela ezididekayo - ngumqondiso ukuba imingeni nemingeni eninzi ikulindele endleleni ekujoliswe kuyo.
Iphupha oya kulwa nesikhokelo saloliwe libonisa ukuba awukwazi ukufeza injongo efunwayo. Kanti oku kuthetha ukuba uhambelana nekhoyo ngoku kwaye uphume kwi-mass "gray".