Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi bacinga ngendlela yokutshintsha indlela abajonga ngayo. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi ngcamango zihambelana nelokuba kwimeko yesini esilungileyo, ezinye iinguqulelo ebomini zihambelana nezinguqu kumfanekiso, ngokuqhelekileyo umkhadikhadi. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iphoso liphela nje ukukhanyeka kwendlela ebonakala ngayo, okuyiyo, into, ayiqhelekanga. Kodwa, ngokukodwa, akunandaba nokuba kutheni umfazi ethatha isigqibo sokutshintsha, kuba utshintsho luhlala lukulungele kwaye mhlawumbi, ukuba utshintshile into kuwe, into entsha iya kubonakala, eyona nto ibhetele ebomini. Ngoko masiqwalasele ngakumbi indlela yokutshintsha ukubonakala kwakho kwaye wenze okulungileyo, ukwenzela ukuba utshintsho luphumelele.
Ungatshintsha njani ukubonakala kwakho?
Ikhanda. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo into yokuqala into eyenziwa ngumfazi iyingwele zakhe. Izinwele zidlala indima enkulu ekubonakaleni kwethu, kwaye inwele entsha iyakushintsha ngaphaya kokuqaphela. Kodwa into ephambili kukukhumbula umlinganiselo wenani. Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokutshintsha umfanekiso wakho, cinga kwakhona ubudala bakho, indlela yokuphila, njalo njalo. Ukuba usebenza e-ofisi apho kugqitywa khona ikhowudi yokugqoka, i-haircut ye-haircut ne-pink melir ayiyi kusebenza kuwe, nangona kunjalo, ukubonakala kuza kutshintsha. Kungcono ukuzama, ngelixa unamathela kwisakhelo esithile. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uhlala uhamba neenwele ezinde, yenza iincinci ezincinane-rhoqo ubeka isikwere okanye uboya beenwele ezifestile . Kwaye ukuba awufuni ukukhanda izinwele, yitshintsha nje i-hairstyles yezinto eziqhelekileyo kwizinto ezintsha: umzekelo, umsila kwizinwele ezivulekileyo.
Iifake. Ukuba ucinga malunga nendlela yokutshintsha umfanekiso wakho, akufanele uyilibale malunga nokwenza. Wonke umfazi uyazi ukuba ukusebenzisa izimonyo ngokufanelekileyo, unokuzifihla ezininzi iimpazamo zabo, kwaye kwakhona-unokuziguqula. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukwenzela ukuba wenze i-makeup "ilungile", kwaye utshintshe ukuba uphucule, kwaye kungenjalo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba udibane nochwepheshe onokukuxelela ukuba ungatshintshiswa ntoni na kuwe ngoncedo lokwakheka. Kodwa ukuba unaloo thuba, ke uzame ngokuphepha ekhaya phambi kwesibuko. Ngaba uthanda ukuzenzela okuthobekileyo? Zama ukongeza ukuvakalisa kuyo! Ngaba uthanda izithunzi ezikhanyayo? Khetha umbala ongathathi hlangothi kwaye endaweni yoko ugxininise emlonyeni.
Izambatho. Ewe, kufuneka uzibuze ukuba ungatshintsha njani isitayela sakho, kuba kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwiingubo. Emva koko, hla nganisa kwiingubo, njengoko uyazi. Khetha indlela yakho yokugqoka kakuhle, ungacingi nje ngendlela yokubukeka ngokungafaniyo, kodwa ngokubhekiselele ekusebenzeni kwayo. Ukuba uhlala uhambelana nesitayela seklasi, ke ungayitshintshi ngokugqithiseleyo kwimidlalo, ukuba indlela yakho yokuphila ifana neyokuqala. Yongeza nje into engavamile kumfanekiso wakho. Indlela elula kakhulu yokwenza oku kuhamba ukuyothenga kwaye uzame kwiintlobo ezininzi zezinto ukuqonda into oyithandayo, oko ufuna ukukugqoka.
Musa ukulibala ukuba utshintsho luqhubeka kancane kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba utshintshe ngokupheleleyo ngosuku olunye. Yaye ukuba ucinga malunga nendlela yokutshintsha ngokugqithiseleyo ukubonakala kwakho, ngoko kwimeko apho kuya kufuneka ubenqabile kwiinkonzo zoplastiki. Kodwa ukuba ulungele ukusebenza kuwe ukuze ubone utshintsho, qhayisa, kwaye uya kuphumelela.
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