Xa kukho ukukrokrelwa kwe-ADHD, umama nobafanele babuze abazali babo, kuba ngokuqhelekileyo ingxaki ebuntwaneni beyiyo kunye nabo ngokwabo, kwaye nanku kuzalwa. Ukuba umntwana uyingozi, oko kufuneka ukwenze - abazali abacacile, kwaye baya kwi-psychologist ukuze bacebise.
Ukuba ukususela kumncinane kunye nomncinci kwakungekho iiklasi zentuthuko ezifuna ukunyamezela, okanye akazange eze kwi-kindergarten eneemisebenzi efanayo, ingxaki ingabonakala ngokucacileyo kuphela xa umntwana ehleli edeskini. Emva koko, kule minyaka ukuba umntwana kufuneka aqale ukulawula ngokucacileyo iimvakalelo zakhe, ukuba abantwana abangenakuchukumiseka abakwazi ukwenza.
Iimpawu zomntwana ongenasifo
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba inkunzi iyingxaki? Emva kwakho konke, ngabazali ngokubanzi bafaka ukuxilongwa okunjalo, ngokusekelwe ekuziphatheni kwakhe okungenakubekezeleka, ukungakwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide endaweni kunye nokungathobeli. Ngamanye amaxesha le miqondiso ingabonakalisa ukuba khona kwe-ADHD, kodwa isigqibo sokugqibela senziwe ngugqirha ogcina umntwana, uqhuba uvavanyo kwiietafile ezikhethekileyo, efuna ukuphuka kumgangatho. Kufuneka uhlawule xa unyana okanye intombi:
- Akahlali ukuzola ngomzuzu, kwaye onke amaxesha athabatha ishishini elitsha, engagqiba oko aqalisile;
- Unomdla kakhulu, ungaphenduli ngokufanelekileyo ukugxeka, "uvale" kuye ngokwakhe, ukuba uyava into engekho kwidilesi yakhe;
- akakwazi ukugxininisa ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-5-10 (kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala);
- akukho nto ingaba nomdla kuyo;
- ulungele ukulibala, nokuba ngaba isicelo senziwe kutshanje.
Unokukunceda njani umntwana ococekileyo?
Abantwana abanomdla, ngenxa yezinto ezibalulekileyo zesakhiwo sengqondo, abakwazi ukufunda kakuhle, abaphulaphuli abazali babo, ngoko ke abanako ukuhlawulwa ngenxa yoko, kuba bengenako ukuzilawula.
Ukuba ukuxilongwa koxinzelelo kunye nokulahlekelwa ngqalelo , ugqirha uya kunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela abazali abafanele baziphatha ngayo nabantwana babo kwixesha elizayo ukwenzela ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi kunye nokwenza ukuba abantwana bazibonele ngokwabo kwintlalo yoluntu akukho mbi kunontanga yabo:
- Kubantwana abanjalo, ngokunyuka kwe-motor-excitability, imigaqo ecacileyo yemihla ngemihla iyimfuneko, engafanele ihluke ngokuxhomekeka kwiimeko, kuba ukuchithwa kancinci kwimikhosi yansuku zonke ngexesha elichazwe ngokucacileyo kunokubangela ukunyuka okungalawulwayo kwamandla kumntwana.
- Abazali ngokwabo bafanele bacinge ngobomi babo, ukuziphatha kwabo kumntwana ongcolileyo, njengento isohlwayo, umsindo kuye ngenxa yokuziphatha kakubi akungabi nalutho kwaye oku kukhokelela ekukhathazeni okungenasidingo, okuchaphazela umntwana, kwaye akulula ukuba aphile.
- Imidlalo yodwa iyiluncedo kakhulu, eqondisa amandla amakhulu kwisitishi esinokuthula kunye nokuvumela ukuphuhlisa imisebenzi yemoto. Kodwa umdlalo weqela kuyo nayiphi na imbonakalo, apho kukho umoya wokuphikisana - uvaliwe.
- Kucetyiswa ukuba intsana ihambe kwi-kindergarten yangasese, apho iya kunikwa ingqwalasela eyengeziwe, kuba inxaxheba enkulu enjalo ngumntwana ingaba yingxaki yangempela kubafundi kunye nootitshala. Esikolweni esikolweni, ukuxhatshazwa komzimba kulawulwa ngokukodwa, kodwa kuya kusadingeka ukuseka uqhagamshelwano nomfundisi weklasi, oza kuthatha ingqalelo umntu ngamnye.
- Ngomntwana onomdla, inkqubo yokuvuselela isebenza kakuhle, kungekhona isohlwayo, kuphela kufuneka ibe yithuba elifutshane. Umzekelo, umntwana uya kufumana ilanga, ukumomotheka, okanye omnye uphawu lozuko, ukuba wenza lo msebenzi ngokuchanekileyo, kodwa kungekhona ixesha elingenammiselo, kodwa kwisakhelo esicacisiwe.
- Abantwana kwi-ADHD ekuqalekeni baxhamla ngokulibala, nangona eqinisweni yinto efana nesimo salo. Yingakho ungeke unikeze imisebenzi yesikhathi eside kwaye ulinde ukuba zizaliseke, kuba kwiiyure ezimbalwa okanye ngosuku olulandelayo umntwana akayi kubukhumbula nakhona, kodwa kungekhona ngenxa yokungabikho kwengqondo.
Ukongezelela ukulungiswa kwendlela yokuphila, ugqirha unokuncoma unyango. Kubalulekile ukuba uphando lukwazi ukunika ulwazi olupheleleyo malunga nezidakamizwa ezimiselweyo, kuba abaninzi babo abazange bavavanywe ngabantu. Ngako oko, ukhetho lokugqibela oluya kukwenzelwa unyango luya kubazali bencinci engekho.