Kubafazi abaninzi, uphawu lomntu weCancer luseyimfihlakalo engenakufikeleleka, kuba lo mntu udla ngokuvelisa enye into, kodwa ngaphakathi kuyahluke ngokupheleleyo. Oku kungenxa yokungcatshiswa kwakhe kunye nomnqweno wokufihla intsingiselo yakhe ukuze kungabikho mntu onokumlimaza.
Yintoni uhlobo lwamaKhansela?
Ngaphandle, umdlavuza uyindoda enemilinganiselo engathembekiyo, inyanisekileyo, inesidima, inyanisekileyo. Abavumelani nabo abangaziwayo, kodwa nabathandekayo banokuphumla nokuvula. Emphefumlweni abo bantu bayamangalisa, kodwa baninzi babe nexesha lokuphelelwa lithemba, ukudandatheka, ukungakholwa kwabo. Njengomthetho, isimo sabo sengqondo singatshintsha kwesibini, kwaye kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ukuba aphinde aphephe.
Inxalenye eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuba isimo sengqondo seCarcer siyasasazeka, kwaye ukuba kukho uhlobo oluthambileyo nolusondeleyo olukufutshane nalo, uya kuhlupheka kunye nalo.
Impawu zobume besifo somhlaza
Cinga uluhlu lwezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ezibonakalisa umdlavuza kwaye uvumele ukuqonda okungcono umntu onjalo ophikisanayo:
- ulungele ukufumana ama-samoyedstvu;
- ungamniki isizathu sokungabaza into enenjongo yakho;
- unesidingo esinzulu sokuba nobudlelwane obuhle nabanye;
- Unomdla kakhulu kubazali bakhe, unina;
- Umele azive ukuba uhlonishwa kwaye uyathandwa ukuvuyela;
- I-Cancer ingaba yindawo ephantsi kwayo
intsapho, ukuba ingayibeka kwindawo ngexesha; - uyatshata ngokutshatyalaliswa, kuba engathandi ukutshintsha;
- I-Cancer iqinisekile ukuba ibaluleke ngakumbi kunowesifazane kwaye iimfuno zakhe ziphezulu kwaye ziphezulu;
- uyazikhethela yena umfazi ngenxa yoko, ukuthelekisa nabanye;
- Xa umdlavuza ufumana umfazi wakhe, ulungele ukubeka ihlabathi lonke kwiinyawo zakhe;
- Indlu yakhe yinqaba.
Ukuze uhambelane neCarcer, kufuneka ube nokuzithemba kumfazi owaziyo into ayifunayo kwaye akaphendulelanga kwindoda yakhe.