Ngaba ufuna ukwazi indlela indoda yakho ethandekayo ikuphatha ngayo, ingabe unayo ivakalelo elinamandla kuwe? Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamnye umfazi unqwenela ukwazi ukuba iimvakalelo zakhe zithini kuye kwaye zomelele kangakanani. Ukuba kukho umnqweno onjalo, ngenxenye ibonakaliswe kwinqweno yowesifazane, okanye ukuba uyakrokreka into into ehambelana naloo mntu kwaye ufuna ukuyiqonda yonke into, ngoko unokwenza usebenzise indlela endala eqinisekisiweyo, eyaziwayo kubagogo, kungekhona ngezwi. Ukuziqhelanisa nesimo sengqondo somntu omthandayo yindlela efanelekileyo yokufumana yonke into ngoncedo lomlingo.
Kungcono ukuqagela kwiimephu.
Ukuqagela ngomntu othandekayo
Ngoko, makhe siqwalasele ngokubanzi, njengokuba sicinga ngomntu othandekayo, ngokuchanekileyo ubeka iimaphu kunye nendlela yokuchaza nokucacisa intsingiselo yayo ngendlela echanekileyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kulungile ukusebenzisa intlanzi kumntu othandekayo, kodwa ukuba unalo ithuba lokuthenga amakhadi e-tarot, kulungile, ungasebenzisa eziqhelekileyo. Khumbula kuphela iphuzu elibalulekileyo kuphela, ngaphambi kokuba uqikelele: amakhadi kufuneka abe mtsha, atholakale kuphela, okanye abo babecinga nje. Ukudlala imidlalo eqhubekayo kumdlalo, amakhadi awayi kusebenza kule shishini. Kukho ithuba lokuba baya kunika ingxelo engalunganga, ulwazi luya kuphazamiseka.
Ingcaciso elula kwaye eqondakalayo yokuxoxwa kwenhlanhla kuthiwa "ukumkani." Apha sibeka amakhadi ngokwemiqathango elandelayo:
- Ukuba awunakucatshulwa nomthandi wakho, uze uthabathe umfazi wesibindi kwipakethi, iya kukufuzisela wena, le ndoda isebenza kumntu. Ukuba unesistim esipheleleyo sabantu kunye nentanda yakho, yikhuphe ngaphandle kwepakethe intombazana kunye nomndilili wokumkani.
- Xa usuvele ubamba amakhadi oyifunayo ukuvumisa , ezandleni zakho, ngengqondo okanye ngokuvakalayo, lithetha igama ngamaxesha ambalwa. Zama ukugxila kakuhle kuyo.
- Into elandelayo yokwenza ukukhwabanisa amakhadi amaninzi amathandathu kwaye uwabeke phantsi, ukuze ungaboni apho ikhadi likhona khona.
- Emva koko, thabatha ipakethi yamakhadi apho uwathabathe khona okufunekayo, ugubha kwaye unqume amanye amakhadi, ucinge ngengqondo malunga nobuhlobo bomntu kuwe, okanye omnye umbuzo malunga nomthandayo, impendulo onokuthanda ukwazi. Yinqumle amakhadi phantsi kweplanga.
- Ngoku, ngaphandle kokungabaza, sondela kwikhadi lokuqala ukusuka kwidonki uze uyibeke phakathi kwamaphepha akho ayenziwe ngaphambili, akhuphe ngaphandle kwaye akayi kuvulwa, kufuneka ahlangane.
- Ngoku, ukusuka kwidonki, thabatha amakhadi uze uwafake kwifom evulekileyo kwintombi kunye nookumkani. Apha ufanele ugweme ukuphinda, amakhadi afanayo, ngokubaluleka kwawo, akufanele abe kufuphi. Ukuba kunjalo, kufuneka ususe ididi efunyenweyo yamakhadi uze uwashiye phantsi kwekhadi elixoki - kuba ngukosi okanye intombazana. Phinda le ntsebenzo kabini.
- Xa yonke into isele isasazeka, vula inkosi kunye nenkosikazi kwaye ubone ukuba yimaphi amakhadi esondele kubo, kwaye yiyiphi ephezulu.
- Ikhadi oye walithatha okokuqala, emva kokuba uqale ukukhupha idibanti, kwaye ubeke phakathi kwamakhadi akho, umele umqobo onxulumene lwakho.
Amakhadi kufuphi nomfazi kunye nenkosi ibonisa intsingiselo yabo.
Injongo yabo ilandelayo:
- 6-ka ithetha ukuhamba, ukwahlukana, umgama omde;
- I-7-ibonisa ukuphuculwa kobudlelwane bakho nomntu othandekayo;
- U-8-ka uthi lo mntu kufuneka ube nomhla,
okanye intetho encolileyo; - I-9-ka ifanekisela ukutshintshana kobudlelane;
- U-10-ka - uphawu lomdla omnye komnye;
- I-Jack-ihla xa kwenzeka ukuba ingxabano ibenzeke;
- Le nkosikazi inokwenzeka, inokubambisana;
- U kumkani uwa phantsi xa umntu ephatha wena njengomhlobo obalulekileyo;
- I-Ace isimboli soqhagamshelwano oluqinileyo phakathi kwamabathandi ababini.