Ukukhawuleza ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho kubantwana
Kwiintsuku ezingama-2-3 iintsana zikhula kakhulu, kwaye ngokukodwa, ukuphumelela kwentetho yomntwana kufinyelela kwi-apogee yayo: iimvuthu zenza izivakalisi ezicacileyo, zisebenzisa izenzi, izichazi, izivakalisi. Isigama sobantwana sisanda ngokukhula, ukubiza kukugqithise ngakumbi kwaye kuyabonakala.
Ngoko ke, kule minyaka yobudala kufuneka baqaphele oku kulandelayo:
- umntwana akazami ukuphinda amagama amatsha kwiminyaka emi-2;
- kwinkqubo yoqhagamshelwano isebenzisa amagama ambalwa kuphela;
- ayayiqondi kwaye akazalisekanga izicelo;
- akakwazi ukwenza amabinzana.
Izizathu zokulibaziseka kwengqondo kumntwana zihlukileyo, kwaye zihlulwe ngokwasemacaleni ngamaqela amabini:
- Iyokuqala ibandakanya ukuphazamiseka kwezinto eziphilayo, eziza kuba zizalwa kunye nokufumana. Ezi zibuhlungu bokuzalwa , ukukhubazeka kokuvalelwa, ukubola kwesibindi, ukukhubazeka kwesiberebhu, izigulane, izifo, ukuhlinzwa okwenziwe ngunyana, iingxaki zeengqondo.
- Iqela lesibini yezizathu ezibangela ukulibaziseka kwengqondo ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho kubantwana kubandakanya ukuphazamiseka okubangelwa ukuxinezeleka, imeko zokuphila ezingekho kakuhle, imfundo engafanelekanga, ukuxabana rhoqo kunye nokusetyenziswa kotywala kwabazali.
Iintlobo zokuphuculwa kwentetho yokulibazisa
Njengoko uyazi, intetho yangaphandle, ngokulandelanayo, kunye nokulibaziseka, yamkelwa ukuba ihlukaniswe phakathi:
- Ecacileyo. Le yinkqubo yokuvakalisa iingcamango zangaphambili. Intetho ecacileyo ibhekiselele kwisandi sokuthetha, ukuvakalisa amagama okanye amabinzana. Ukulibaziseka ekubunjweni kwentetho ecacileyo akunakunxulumene nokulinda kwengqondo, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengxelo, nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ungabandakanyi loo nto.
Ukuphambuka kwentetho ecacileyo kubonakaliswe ngolu hlobo lwesigama esibalulekileyo ekukhululweni kwentetho ukususela kwimimiselo yobudala, ukuphazamiseka kwamagama. Ngokomzekelo, iintsana zilahleka iziqulatho kunye nokuphela, isigama sabo sincinci, kwaye ukunxibelelana kugqithiselwe kwisethi yamagama afutshane. Iifom ezinzima zesifo, njengomthetho, ziyafunyaniswa ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu. - Ukumkela (okumangalisayo). Oku kuphulaphule, ukufunda. Ngeengxaki zokuthetha, umntwana unengxaki yokuqonda amagama abadala kunye nokuvakalisa, ukucinga okubalulekileyo kwaba bantwana bancitshisiwe, ngelixa ukuvalelwa kwenyama konke kulungelelaniswa.